Xisnin:


It is a fact that some people are ritualists, it is also a fact that some are misogynistic.
Another "fact" is that there are extremely poor people in our country.
Being a "fact" doesn't make it right.
Understood?

Ya, not necessarily. Hope you know that all evidences are fact but all facts are evidence? Here we are talkin about nature which is fact and evidence like why is possible for a man Muslim or non Muslim to marry more than one wife under one roof like Fela did and women cannot do such?

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Shafiiimran99:
Facts are stubborn things and whatever may be our wishes, inclinations or our dictates of passion they cannot alter the facts or evidence. So either we like it or not men are polygamy in nature that nobody can change and the real men of God practied it, in that case, you can only against it but deny it.

Women are also polygamous, you won't be seeing women having multiple partners or cheating on their men if they are not polygamous.

Women also fantasize having multiple sexy men.

Shafiiimran99:
Ya, not necessarily. Hope you know that all evidences are fact but all facts are evidence? Here we are talkin about nature which is fact and evidence like why is possible for a man Muslim or non Muslim to marry more than one wife under one roof like Fela did and women cannot do such?

Go to India or Nepal you will see women having multiple husbands under a roof.

tintingz:
Go to India or Nepal you will see women having multiple husbands under a roof.

Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everythin better

Shafiiimran99:
Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everythin better

Why not give me microscope to look deep into nature.

The fact still remain, there are women into polygamy(polygyny)!

Drsj:
it is soo sad to see how most muslim men center marriage on sex...so as much as a man dusnt want to eat d same food all d time dts how he views women? as food to hav diffrnt taste of? Ds article is enuf to put people off tho.
N dont say monogamous men still go around havn illegal sex,no.. not everyman tnkx like dat, evn our prophet was monogamous most of his life with Nana Khadija (r.a) befre he became polygamous nt cuz he wanted a taste of different foods, also not all d sahabas were polygamous,no!

u most b a joker saying an innocent woman is one dt dusnt marry for handsomness n money n fame e.t.c den come around to say u want a woman u married for d sake of her body,love u for d sake of Allah?? u two are not innocent if u must know. marry for d right reasons n i am tlkn frm experience

now befre some single, sex-hungry males act like stone-age men released out of dier caves,begn to criticise,i am not against polygamy, bt not for reasons ds op is giving here...
marry women cuz u want to b a part of dier lives, cuz u want to help d widows,cuz dere are divorcees waitn to b married,cuz its huge sadaqah.. dese r reasons n not dose up dere,a hadeeth of d beloved prophet says; "d best amongst mankind is d one most useful to mankind" u are not on earth u satisfy every whim of ur body desire,it will only weaken ur soul n ur physical,if as a young man u r tnkn d reason for marriage is sex,u will b frustrated aftr a month! n begn to lust for another woman.. cuz ur sole reason for polygamy is to satisfy lust...good luck wt dat!

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On behalf of all other muslims, we humbly refuse to agree with this

tintingz:
Why not give me microscope to look deep into nature.

The fact still remain, there are women into polygamy(polygyny)!

Cos microscope will not get the job done

Good job tintingz

Muslim men are so obsessed with sex its mind boggling. On earth they want to spend their lives shagging different women and in their fictitious paradise they want to shag even more with uncountable number of virgins.

I even know of a Quranic verse that teaches men how to divorce underage girls that have not attained puberty. Why the plenty focus on sex for heavens sake?

The population of Saudi Arabia according to gender is ( about )10.2 million males to 9.8 million females - there are 107 male children born to 100 female children worldwide ! There are more men than women generally in nearly every natural population ! My question is in regards to what the ignorant op said about women not wishing what they had for other believing females - if men make it a habit of marrying more than one wife - there will not be enough women to go round - even if every man on the planet took a wife - there will be a surplus now of seven men who won’t get wives ! Shouldn’t women be allowed to also take multiple husbands in this case ?Don’t men want what they have for their fellow men ? Asides the fact that it is clear the physical and psychological trauma of polygamy on women and children ! There will be a lot of tough questions islam needs to answer in the coming years as more and more data becomes available ! All the lies about women outnumbering men have been debunked ! Research also show that women are actually biologically wired to want new mates and the worst of all - the complete lack of acknowledgement of the sexuality of women !

Xisnin:


You are the hypocrite. Polygamous men still keep concubines.

quite right ! My uncle had for wives and still had a concubine !

tintingz:
Go to India or Nepal you will see women having multiple husbands under a roof.

exactly ! Because of gender selection they have an even more skewed population ration than the average !

donprinyo:
Why is it moslems men alway know what their women think, how de feel and many other things. Is it dat their can just decide by demselves.

they don’t allow the women to talk so they are the ones that make all the assumptions and decisions by themselves .

Pataricatering:
they don’t allow the women to talk so they are the ones that make all the assumptions and decisions by themselves .

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Adedayobusayo12:
[color=#770077][/color]When sick or in menstrual course, husbands' frustration for sex is fulfilled with a known friend rather than cheating friends, students, neighbours' wives etc. When indisposed, care of children or home can be overseen by co-wives



IMAGINE THE ABOVE. THANK GOD YOU PEOPLE KNOWS YOU ARE SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED 24/7.SO BECAUSE THE WIFE IS MENSTRUATING, YOU CAN'T HOLD YOUR SELF FOR 4 TO 5 DAYS. SO ITS WOMEN THAT LOVES EATING THE SAME FOOD ABI? CAN YOU BE IN A ROOM AND BE AWARE THAT YOUR WIFE WILL BE BANGED NON STOP IN THE NEXTROOM TILL SHE SAYS ITS YOUR TURN AGAIN AFTER SOME DAYS. EVERYTHING ABOUT YOUR RELIGION FAVOURS MEN AND TRASH WOMEN.

as if women view their co- wife as a friend ! Lol .

peeps be pretending

harmyd007:
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On behalf of all other muslims, we humbly refuse to agree with this

welldone,

mr humbly,...humbly air ur views n dnt try to speak for all

Drsj:



welldone,

mr humbly,...humbly air ur views n dnt try to speak for all

Please mind your business sir.

Drsj:



welldone,

mr humbly,...humbly air ur views n dnt try to speak for all

pls tell them.pretenders everywhere. his wife is probably on nairaland,so he's playing safe

harmyd007:

Please mind your business sir.

u must hv fgotten how u quoted me frst?

eherbal:
pls tell them.pretenders everywhere. his wife is probably on nairaland,so he's playing safe

u.. u r d one with ill manners.. i dnt hav time for u. my wife on NL?? funny

HateIslam:

This one is still roaming on the streets

it takes a roamer to identify his fellow roamer.

tintingz:
Again, this is red herring.

To answer your question, the religion my sisters practice is Islam, it did not permit that(polyandry) for them, so this still falls to my question which you're going strawman!

As for my wife, I'm not into polygamy why should I accept that for my wife?

the bolded just answered your question.

Drsj:


u.. u r d one with ill manners.. i dnt hav time for u. my wife on NL?? funny

I apologise for my manners.didnt intend it that way you perused it. But you denying your DNA begs a lot of questions.

harmyd007:

Please mind your business sir.

mind his business on business on a public forum? Are you for real?

eherbal:
the bolded just answered your question.

Lol, my sisters are not permitted to have more than one husband according to their religion this is not their choice but their beliefs, their husband can marry another woman but they can't and the thing is they detest polygamy.

Now, to my wife, since I'm not into polygamy why should I accept that for my wife? If I'm into polygamy then what excuse am I to give her not to have another husband if she wants to? Me having multiple wives and her not allowed to is one sided and cheating!

In part of countries like India, Nepal etc women marry more than one husband.

eherbal:
mind his business on business on a public forum? Are you for real?

Who’s talking to this one

Drsj:


u must hv fgotten how u quoted me frst?

My apologies

eherbal:
I apologise for my manners.didnt intend it that way you perused it. But you denying your DNA begs a lot of questions.

denying my dna? u tnk dna in human males code for polygamy?? u must know little about d dna my friend
look man. if u are talkn, having d desire to hav intercourse wt sm1 else,den its not a thing of d dna.. humans will always admire beautiful things,attractive things.males or females,u tnk women dnt long to hav thier dream men wt dem? dere is a reason why some men are more attractive dn others.. n i did state dt i am not against polygamy! it is jst dsheartening how some males tnk if dey dont marry more dn a wife den dey r doomed! dere is more to life dn satisfying body whims,how well hav u met d basic conditions of being a muslim dt has being layed out,dnt jst go about propagatn dese tns,makin it seem as if women are made for d sex,its demeaning comparin dem to shapes and sizes n colors of fruit,subhanallah!! how debasing!! as muslim brothers our sisters should feel safe wt us,emotionally,physically n dnt tnk cuz u hav money to marry more wives den it is d best tn u should do.. with time u will understand.
u should b reminded tho,that should u not involve in polygamy,u will not b accountable for dat,bt should u involve in it and go about it wrongly,u burn urself..
ds is in no way tarnishing polygamy,bt if u begn to brng issues like u long for another woman cuz u are a man,bt at d same time u frown at women dt want to marry men for money den wat is d difference betwn u two if not for worldly gains??!! u for d body n she for material things!!
set ur priorities right my frnd..no fights here i am jst saying. dnt make islam look horrible..d same men lack expression of love towards dier wives,are v.intolerable towards dem cuz dey feel dese women can b changed and married in no time regardless of dier feelings!! ds is not how to go about ds, evn if u want to present polygamy,not ds way, dt makes islam.look like dere is little or no regard for how d woman feels. it is jealousy n males hav dat even more! a man once told d prophet he will slay a man he sees wt his wife,n d prophet didnt say a thing to negate dt action rather he said it was gheerah n Allah has dt even more towards hs servants as regards worship.

Drsj:


denying my dna? u tnk dna in human males code for polygamy?? u must know little about d dna my friend
look man. if u are talkn, having d desire to hav intercourse wt sm1 else,den its not a thing of d dna.. humans will always admire beautiful things,attractive things.males or females,u tnk women dnt long to hav thier dream men wt dem? dere is a reason why some men are more attractive dn others.. n i did state dt i am not against polygamy! it is jst dsheartening how some males tnk if dey dont marry more dn a wife den dey r doomed! dere is more to life dn satisfying body whims,how well hav u met d basic conditions of being a muslim dt has being layed out,dnt jst go about propagatn dese tns,makin it seem as if women are made for d sex,its demeaning comparin dem to shapes and sizes n colors of fruit,subhanallah!! how debasing!! as muslim brothers our sisters should feel safe wt us,emotionally,physically n dnt tnk cuz u hav money to marry more wives den it is d best tn u should do.. with time u will understand.
u should b reminded tho,that should u not involve in polygamy,u will not b accountable for dat,bt should u involve in it and go about it wrongly,u burn urself..
ds is in no way tarnishing polygamy,bt if u begn to brng issues like u long for another woman cuz u are a man,bt at d same time u frown at women dt want to marry men for money den wat is d difference betwn u two if not for worldly gains??!! u for d body n she for material things!!
set ur priorities right my frnd..no fights here i am jst saying. dnt make islam look horrible..d same men lack expression of love towards dier wives,are v.intolerable towards dem cuz dey feel dese women can b changed and married in no time regardless of dier feelings!! ds is not how to go about ds, evn if u want to present polygamy,not ds way, dt makes islam.look like dere is little or no regard for how d woman feels. it is jealousy n males hav dat even more! a man once told d prophet he will slay a man he sees wt his wife,n d prophet didnt say a thing to negate dt action rather he said it was gheerah n Allah has dt even more towards hs servants as regards worship.

May Allah continue to bless you
Walahi you have made so much sense.
The sad part is a lot of these men always shoving Polygamy down our throat with different silly write-ups don't even have the capacity to effectively manage just a wife, then they go for more just for selfish reasons. It's rare to see a man doing polygamy as prescribed especially in this part. Very rare.
You see people who can barely even wake up for tahajjud every other night talking about doing Sunnah by marrying more than a wife, this wife they want to marry is one young fresh babe with several single brothers seeking her hands but she'll more often than not go for a married one cos he has more money. They won't do Sunnah with widows or divorcees o. The Prophet didn't have any other wife till after Khadijah's death, and even there was a divine reason for his marriage to most of his other wives, Aisha was the only virgin wife he had.
Some men even take it like it's a Command of Allah, it's a mere permission and there was need for it at the time due to war and the loss of men at those times. These days people go into it for mostly sexual reasons.
Some will commit zina and justify it by saying they are allowed to marry more than a wife. Some would even have four already and still have concubines outside,that is how shameless some people are.
I don't see polygamy as a way to curb adultery, some people just lack contentment.
What pisses me off most is when they try to guilt-trip women who do not like the idea of polygamy, like you don't have enough Iman or selfish or want to paint it like they are helping women by going into polygamy using false made up statistics.

To the men painting women black for not liking polygamy, if polyandry was allowed, a lot of you won't sing same tune. Some people can't even see their wife greeting another man they'll start boiling.

HaneefahRN:



May Allah continue to bless you
Walahi you have made so much sense.
The sad part is a lot of these men always shoving Polygamy down our throat with different silly write-ups don't even have the capacity to effectively manage just a wife, then they go for more just for selfish reasons. It's rare to see a man doing polygamy as prescribed especially in this part. Very rare.
You see people who can barely even wake up for tahajjud every other night talking about doing Sunnah by marrying more than a wife, this wife they want to marry is one young fresh babe with several single brothers seeking her hands but she'll more often than not go for a married one cos he has more money. They won't do Sunnah with widows or divorcees o. The Prophet didn't have any other wife till after Khadijah's death, and even there was a divine reason for his marriage to most of his other wives, Aisha was the only virgin wife he had.
Some men even take it like it's a Command of Allah, it's a mere permission and there was need for it at the time due to war and the loss of men at those times. These days people go into it for mostly sexual reasons.
Some will commit zina and justify it by saying they are allowed to marry more than a wife. Some would even have four already and still have concubines outside,that is how shameless some people are.
I don't see polygamy as a way to curb adultery, some people just lack contentment.
What pisses me off most is when they try to guilt-trip women who do not like the idea of polygamy, like you don't have enough Iman or selfish or want to paint it like they are helping women by going into polygamy using false made up statistics.

To the men painting women black for not liking polygamy, if polyandry was allowed, a lot of you won't sing same tune. Some people can't even see their wife greeting another man they'll start boiling.

o yes,dat a woman dusnt like polygamy dusnt mean she has little faith.. evn the prophet's wives did not rejoice to d news each time dey heard d prophet was taking another wife in,cuz it only means an extra day further for dem to spend wt him...n dese were women wt d best of faith...d mothers of d believers.
Polygamy is not d issue,d practise out dere, n d way it is being presented like a woman is made for sexual benefits of d man n dts all,is apalling. i hav a daughter n i cnt begn to instill in her dat she is jst another variety of "fruit" having a diffrnt color n shape n size for d man to hav hs fill with!! I know i ddnt marry her mom for dese reasons. so wen pple supportn d op n hs article hav daughters dey cn teach dem so n groom dier boys to tnk so as well...!

N its not true dt females out number males,wat is true is those men ready to settle are less in number as compared to d females..sadly. n money is d main culprit here.