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Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:33pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
monex:girls don't have sense to do logic As a guy, if you expect cooking to be your wife's responsibility. Let her know before you guys make a commitment to each other so she has a choice.we do when we only ring the girl that cooks and cleans or was she pretending and thinking it would stop after marriage fish brain at work We have no right to take away anyone's choices or to coerce someone into something the person does not want.they have no right to be fraudulent in their behaviour pretending to cook and clean is like these women were raised by beyonce and chimamanda who cook and clean for their husbands BTW first day if she no want make she clear road for serious woman to see me |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 10:33pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA:guy no offence, but you’ve mentioned me like 6 times. Don’t force your opinions down my throat ahbeg. Ejo. 2 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:34pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
bukatyne:which bill do you pay |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:39pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Sterope:how many of the 25 million homes are you familiar with the woman carries the financial burden of the home equally. By equally, I am not talking about the amount she spends but the fact that she spends the same percentage as her husband.he pay 100k from 200k salary she pay 25k from 50k salary and you think your yhe same you funny 50/50 or stfu Basically, her life is not financially better sunless she is married to a rich guy.she is living in 125k apartment not 25k apartment her life significantly better how many men have you seen with time on their hands sef how many men come in bfor 10pm abegi mowu hia word |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Ngokafor(f): 10:41pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
erico2k2: You are very very very wrong!!!.....A lot of women are actually the bread-winners or contribute at least 50% to all the things you listed ..but its not public knowledge cos its not something to be proud of. 2 Likes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:47pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Proudgorgeousga:if they are underpaid they shud quit and starve because both the husband and wife can barely survive above minimum wage or the ones that indulge in child labourblame the parents who sold their chudren because the husband's Egonever fcck with a man's ego you will lose every time is too much to do housework and change napkin.did you share in rent and other bills change your damn napkins can't fight biology ask the west with 42% divorce rate due to this nonesense you're supporting why she is praised and not the father do u want to be praised or you want equality of not being praised they know they're rich and will treat you worse than cos they know you a gold digger why you look bfor you leap but una go gree typical woman acts without thinking and wonders why man are superior to women |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:50pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Chari4:to provide for the woman This egocentric narcissism is the reason there are many failed marriages because you fail to understand it a 50% effort from both partiesno,it is women fishbrain right from eve that makes marriage fail . These ideology worked then cause men were full providers, their wives were pampered even given helps, how many men today can even boast of a good job to take of themselves?how can men provide wen women devalued wages by joining workforce they shud live with consequences and cut dia longerthroat So when you start thinking of "outlawing" female employment better be ready to fully provide for the family but we all know that I never going to happenunfortunately not |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Sterope(f): 10:51pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
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Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:53pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Safiaaa:a woman giving ultimatums does not want a husband |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:56pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Proudgorgeousga:very useful question so he doesn't waste time with useless woman would you hire someone without doing interview why u lying how many homes did u carry out this survey if you have power to complain you have power to hire how many homes |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:58pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Safiaaa:so if he is making 100k and you are making 70k and pamper costs 140k are you ready to pay your full 70 towards your half |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:59pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Sterope:she no de enjoy d obligation abi na she de ride d man during d obligation abi d man not d one doing all d work as usual |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:00pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
princefunmmy:d housemaid can kuma takeover all'duties' once she 18+ |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 11:01pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA: MIKOLOWISKA: MIKOLOWISKA: MIKOLOWISKA: MIKOLOWISKA: MIKOLOWISKA: Ogaa ahbeg please leave me alone. Ahn ahn e don do. My opinions will stay the same, leave me. |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:03pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Safiaaa:you don't sound like you want to do a damned thing why did you marry a guy that cannot provide fully As well as I will need help as a nurturer. I can’t help you without receiving anything back.rent for 40yrs food for 40yrs vacations gifts smh That’s what silly women do,and then complain later on about doing everything. Pick one and stick to it. |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 11:03pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA:ok sir. I have heard you. |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 11:06pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
I have this funny habit of reporting whoever is rude to you, I get them bans and make their monikers ineffective, piko is always watching you safia Safiaaa: |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 11:16pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
DonPiiko:thank you bae. 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:21pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Safiaaa:kpekus is not that expensive you will be replaced once it gets old Whether you replace him or get a maga. Everything in this life is replaceable whether shameful or not, so quit that mentality.no bone will marry a shameless woman that looking at marriage as a job shows you're not interested in it |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:23pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Tinalex:if you want sperm donor be upfront about it they are not your babies the are also his |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:29pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Safiaaa:aka gold digging is your right Same way if the woman is not doing her wifely duties, realistically what do men do? Be real with yourself. People always taking about morals, not realising that whether indirectly or directly womanhood has a price.manhood no get price abi you think its easy providing for an ungrateful gold digging wretch We are all hypocrites.no,you are life is not 50/50 never has been never will be if you don't like no wahala is not by force play your role significantly.men are women don't want to do anything I may still end up doing more house chores but play your role significantly.Help me to Cook,clean,take care of the kids and I will also help you out financially.that is not a marriage tit for tat is ....... If you want to take care of all the finances and my needs, then I will do the rest.go and marry dangote na you fine reach or you think rich men will choose lazy ,ugly women There will always be minor exceptions but let the roles be finalised.simple and no cry if you no see maga to marry you |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:29pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
erico2k2:leave dem d wall is coming |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 11:32pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA:okay can you stop quoting me. You’re harassing me I don’t appreciate it. |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:50pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Proudgorgeousga:facts will always sound dumb to non wife material 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:03am On Mar 03, 2018 |
Mindfulness:didyour grandma do the same number of ridges or did she roast yam for him(cooking) did And her first child, a daughter, had to help as soon as she was old enough to help.home training so it will not be strange like it is to you now On some days they would leave the house to sell some part of the harvest and contributed to the family's income. Women have always contributed. ALWAYS. Be it as farmers, tailors, teachers or maids.so you rather do nothing while the man does every i see you cannot know but I do know that people used to live in houses packed to the brim. A chicken was a luxury and the average family did not own a car. If you want to live a simple life, you are free to do so.yet the women catered for those brim now just to raise 2 chudren de hard una then marry d work na why deceive d poor man tell him you will not housewife and let him choose instead of pretending to get ring If you have a problem with it, try being a full time daddy and husband and stay at home 24/7.will you pay the bills 24/7 studies show that women given this choice still complain that the man is not working and they don,t want to pay bills and miss out on raising the chudren you see nothing ever satisfies you women until everyting skata then your eyes will still not clear |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:05am On Mar 03, 2018 |
Safiaaa:freedom of reply if you write rubbish i will answer all so you stop misleading others words have power western nations are falling apart due to this toxic behaviour 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by ImaIma1(f): 12:11am On Mar 03, 2018 |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:17am On Mar 03, 2018 |
ImaIma1:dis your nose is serious mehn ah d comment can change something o but back to d focus you don marry how old you be i get bros wen de find wife wen get sense you fit d bill more than others |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:19am On Mar 03, 2018 |
check am na you no get wahala ImaIma1: 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by ImaIma1(f): 4:33am On Mar 03, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA: Look elsewhere for your bros. |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 6:47am On Mar 03, 2018 |
ImaIma1:why na |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by bryanarchie: 6:53am On Mar 03, 2018 |
Wow!!!! I totally relate to this. I work in the same firm with my husband and we earn the same salary. We contribute equally for the home expenses, childcare, rent, car maintenance, etc.. We financially assign duties and each party must provide. Then house chores, Lolssssssssssss... When we started he wanted me to do everything even while pregnant and damn it was no easy because I'm a (neat freak) and we can't afford a maid. I collapsed twice in the space of six months, developed Hbp, aged drastically, had low blood volume etc. It was the most difficult moment ever in my life. I woke up one day and told myself enough is enough, I won't die because I'm married and then the war started. Don't ask me how I did it but thanks be to GOD, i'm healthy (even getting too fat) , stronger, fresher and my husband now understands if your wife splits the house bill with you equally, you should assist equally with the house chores and childcare. Kudos to all working class mothers out there, you are superheroes. Your wife is your wife and not a maid. 3 Likes |
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