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leave the planet

Why don't you think you have a future together?
Are you sure of your own future?

Leave her alone if she is not disturbing u about marriage.

You are having low self esteem and self confidence issues.

She might like and love you just the way you are.

so you have already concluded you will be poor in life..poverty mentality

greiboy:
Why don't you think you have a future together?

Are you sure of your own future?

I'm sure of my future and besides she's almost rounding up her education in the university and I still few more years to spend there.

jnrcess:


I'm sure of my future and besides she's almost rounding up her education in the university and I still few more years to spend there.

You haven't answered my question. Why do you think that you don't have a future with her?

jnrcess:
I really don't know where to start from, but I'll just summarize the whole stuff.
I am young dude of 21 and My GF is 20. I'm madly in love with this girl, who wouldn't be? You really need to see this girl, she is just too beautiful (every guy's dream) . We started dating Dec last year and we've only had just one minor issue. The problem here is I really love her and I know she loves me too (I don't hv money...so she's not after my money) but I got thinking, it's evident we do not have a future together. Since I'm aware of this I just want to let her go. Some may say "bros why not just chop her na". I just can't, I love her and my conscience won't let me.
So I really need advice on how to end this relationship without hurting her or making her hate me.

Please this is not a movie or drama script, it is just the situation I find myself.

I have ways in which we can dispose of her, nobody will ever find her body, I am here if u need me �

QueenSekxy:
so you have already concluded you will be poor in life..poverty mentality

Aunty next time ehnn... let your brain react before your fingers

your story/script isnt articulated enough to earn any type of advice from me.

greiboy:
You haven't answered my question. Why do you think that you don't have a future with her?

She' says stuffs like she would want to get married in the next 3 to 4 years...bro I ain't gonna be ready in the next 3 to 4 years

jnrcess:


She' says stuffs like she would want to get married in the next 3 to 4 years...bro I ain't gonna be ready in the next 3 to 4 years

Ok you have finally established your reason for breaking up with her. it seems genuine enough.

Have you confronted her with these facts before? if you have, what was are reaction like?

jnrcess:


She' says stuffs like she would want to get married in the next 3 to 4 years...bro I ain't gonna be ready in the next 3 to 4 years

You can't conclude based on that. Her mind could even change in a year so keep the relationship going.

kimbraa:
You can't conclude based on that. Her mind could even change in a year so keep the relationship going.

I understand that there is a possibility that her mind could change but it's avery slim one.

greiboy:
Ok you have finally established your reason for breaking up with her. it seems genuine enough.

Have you confronted her with these facts before? if you have, what was are reaction like?

I have, not directly but indirectly and I don't know how she reacted but she was not looking happy,,so I changed the topic.

jnrcess:


I have, not directly but indirectly and I don't know how she reacted but she was not looking happy,,so I changed the topic.

You have to confront her directly, if you don't want to hurt her feelings, then we shouldn't be having this discussion.

jnrcess:


I understand that there is a possibility that her mind could change but it's avery slim one.

The statement "I want to get married in two or three years" is simply wishful thinking. She's not going to get married to herself 'cause that would happen when a man of her choice is ready to go down that road with her. Most young ladies think this way or make such statements 'till life gives them what's in store. You don't make rash decisions based on something that's probable.

on February 13th I went to buy a brand new tecno k9 plus for my friend, he then gave it as a Valentine's gift to his girlfriend but yesterday the girl came back with the phone

told the guy to take it, that she don't want the relationship again, her only reason is that the guy must sex her each time she comes

He took it back n he didn't die

so just tell the girl u no de do again

falconey:
leave the planet

oh oh oh oh

jnrcess:
Aunty next time ehnn... let your brain react before your fingers

gee!!

PastorLucifer:





I have a brilliant plan.

Gimmie her number. I'll work on her & when she finally falls & we're having sex, I'll notify you & you catch us red handed.

No excuses.

You break up instantly & its all her fault.

.

Very easy. Just ask her to quit going to church!

Trust me, she will run!

If that doesn't work, ask her to have sex with 3 of your friends!

Trust me, she will run!

donstan18,what do you have to say about this case?
Over to you sir.

What do you have to break up for? My first girlfriend is married now with kids, we never went through that it's over shiit. As we got older we realized it can't work between us and the relationship faded away. If you love her then just hang on and be there when she needs you, when it's time to leave it will happen naturally and no one will be hurt.

jnrcess:
I really don't know where to start from, but I'll just summarize the whole stuff.
I am young dude of 21 and My GF is 20. I'm madly in love with this girl, who wouldn't be? You really need to see this girl, she is just too beautiful (every guy's dream) . We started dating Dec last year and we've only had just one minor issue. The problem here is I really love her and I know she loves me too (I don't hv money...so she's not after my money) but I got thinking, it's evident we do not have a future together. Since I'm aware of this I just want to let her go. Some may say "bros why not just chop her na". I just can't, I love her and my conscience won't let me.
So I really need advice on how to end this relationship without hurting her or making her hate me.

Please this is not a movie or drama script, it is just the situation I find myself.

How did you conclude you have no future together?
Explain that one as it makes no ounce of sense.

Maybe she is the one that needs to break up with you for your inability to appreciate something that’s good when you have it. Could you please advise her to post something asap so we can advise her accordingly.

HegenIkomkeh:
donstan18,what do you have to say about this case?
Over to you sir.

Thank you, Mr Hegen

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@OP

I personally do not think you need advice on relationship.

You obviously need advice, directions, help and guidelines on how to treat the followings.

insecurity, low self esteem, low self confidence and fear of the future

We all might be seeing this as a normal and mere relationship issue, but for you to conclude and fear for your future at 21 years because of a girl means something is wrong somewhere.


Please, OP where are your parents?

something deep down tells me u may regret the action you want to take

ayookunlee:
something deep down tells me u may regret the action you want to take

I'm thinking I will

jnrcess:

I'm thinking I will

just Give Me Her Facebook Name And Phone Number, you Will Thank Me Later...