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Hello I Need Help by Nobody: 9:06pm On Mar 05, 2018 |
I am new in relationship issue. i called a girl, we have been friends for long now. i told her straight that I want to marry her. she told me to call later, but not today please like how many days can i call. and i need advice from professionals in the house. thanks |
Re: Hello I Need Help by blackpanthar: 10:01pm On Mar 05, 2018 |
give her time to break up with other fvck boys disturbing her.... and time to think about your qualities again with respect to marriage. BUT dont break her heart o yankeedodo: |
Re: Hello I Need Help by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:09pm On Mar 05, 2018 |
yankeedodo: Was it over the phone you were telling her that you want to marry her? |
Re: Hello I Need Help by CuriousMynd: 10:12pm On Mar 05, 2018 |
Wait for 730½ days 4 Likes |
Re: Hello I Need Help by QueenSuccubus(f): 12:16am On Mar 06, 2018 |
Men nowadays sha...juz proposing anyhow. Anyway, ur not the first & definitely u will not be the last But make sure the ring is pawnable once u decided to put the ring on it... 2 Likes |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Martin0(m): 5:47am On Mar 06, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus: abeg what the best way to propose to a philipino coz only that I know will be good and accepted by you |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Lionessza(f): 5:56am On Mar 06, 2018 |
yankeedodo: I'm no " professional " and your post sounds funny. Lol, you called a friend to propose marriage? WTF? . Why not start dating her if she has interest?. @the bolded, that should tell you she doesn't have time for you lol. |
Re: Hello I Need Help by QueenSuccubus(f): 7:24am On Mar 06, 2018 |
Martin0: Honestly...it's very seldom to find a filipino guy that will propose to his gf unless both them like a fancy proposal Usually & it's very common that the guy will bring his parents or relatives to his gf's house and ask her hand for marriage.. |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Sunexy(m): 7:36am On Mar 06, 2018 |
Lionessza:In some parts of Africa, u don't have to date b4 u marry...just ask the opposite sex if he/she will marry u or not..perhaps, he is from one of such places 1 Like |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Lionessza(f): 7:44am On Mar 06, 2018 |
Sunexy: Lol, I didn't know people still do this. Perhaps you are correct. I wonder if such marriages last . |
Re: Hello I Need Help by amprat: 8:20am On Mar 06, 2018 |
Lionessza:According to the post, they've been Friends for long, meaning they should know and understand each other. But proposing over the phone....? 1 Like |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Lionessza(f): 8:38am On Mar 06, 2018 |
amprat: Yes , I got the part about them being friends. But I'm also confused about the over the phone proposal , it kind of suggests the friendship wasn't close enough or he wasn't comfortable discussing this with her in person , which speaks volume. Perhaps they should first try have a romantic relationship before thinking about marriage, what's the rush ?. |
Re: Hello I Need Help by amprat: 8:43am On Mar 06, 2018 |
Lionessza:maybe he has self esteem issues, can't handle face to face rejection . 1 Like |
Re: Hello I Need Help by CAPSLOCKED: 9:37am On Mar 06, 2018 |
yankeedodo: YOU'RE NEW TO RELATIONSHIP ISSUES.. MEANING YOU HAVE VERY LITTLE OR ZERO KNOWLEDGE OF HOW RELATIONSHIPS WORK. AND YOU'RE HEADING STRAIGHT TO MARRIAGE? I FELT MY OWN SHARE WHEN I HAD A FIRST TASTE OF POSITIVE EMOTIONS. I DESPERATELY NEEDED TO MARRY HER THAT DAY, WHEN I WAS JUST A FRESHMAN IN UNI.. A MONTH INTO THE SEMESTER. ALMOST A DECADE NOW AND I LAUGH AT MYSELF, AND THE TERRIBLE DECISIONS I HAD MADE IN THE PAST. YOU DON'T JUST MARRY THE FIRST PERSON YOU COME ACROSS THAT YOU LIKE, WITHOUT HAVING A FEEL OF WHAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE. DON'T BE A CLOWN. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Hello I Need Help by LegendMessenger: 10:02am On Mar 06, 2018 |
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Re: Hello I Need Help by XhosaNostra(f): 10:15am On Mar 06, 2018 |
Just friends or dating? If just friends, that's a bit creepy & overwhelming. If dating, she probably needs time to think it through. Marriage is a huge commitment for some people. It requires real thinking because life as you know it will change etc. 1 Like |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Lionessza(f): 11:12am On Mar 06, 2018 |
Re: Hello I Need Help by 1stfamous(m): 11:28am On Mar 06, 2018 |
I did the same thing you did, and now am married, pls call her today and tell her you want to see her, fix a place and open up to her, pls dont break her heart! God bless your union |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Martin0(m): 9:51pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus: waow in Nigeria such practice Is best described as old school pattern, u know Nigerians are copy copy |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Nobody: 10:07pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
That statement was too straightforward. |
Re: Hello I Need Help by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:28am On Mar 07, 2018 |
Martin0: Well, Nigeria was part of the British colony for many decades so i am not surprised that until now y'all practising the Brit-ish way But it's up for the new generation if they gonna change the usual custom or will juz continue to practised what they been taught.. |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Nobody: 2:50am On Mar 07, 2018 |
Perhaps she has someone else. Or she wants to pray about it. Give her that call next month |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Nobody: 9:00pm On Mar 07, 2018 |
thanks for all your comments. I still need more |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Martin0(m): 5:23am On Mar 08, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus:we hope they will. |
Re: Hello I Need Help by QueenSuccubus(f): 6:22am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Martin0: Hey...why ur friend said that he didn't know u posted his numba He sent me a VN about killing in Ng nawa ooo |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Martin0(m): 6:38am On Mar 08, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus:really? Na WA ooo |
Re: Hello I Need Help by QueenSuccubus(f): 7:16am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Martin0: I tot it was his VN...only to find out its about someone talking about the killings in Ng Nawa for ur friend..but don't tell him i do undastand pidgin..i don't want to scare him |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Martin0(m): 7:28am On Mar 08, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus:no wahala u know one time I was scared to talk to you coz I thought you a Nigerian scammer who portrays himself as a lady, but now I ve got that likeness for you and u never what I really thought. no problem I work with your deal, won't tell him |
Re: Hello I Need Help by QueenSuccubus(f): 7:58am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Martin0: @bolded.. Chaaaaaiiii! I juz joined NL to learn pidgin ooo... |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Martin0(m): 8:29pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus:hahahahah just only pidgin iffa run enter u eh and also Mr Right |
Re: Hello I Need Help by Nobody: 8:58pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
1stfamous:I will like to hear more of your story |
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