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Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by princefunmmy(m): 10:00am On Mar 03, 2018 |
Sterope:Keeping a positive attitude towards your responsibilty and looking away from the sacrifice but consider the greater good, the love and peace it will fooster and build in your home should put a smile on your face and a feeling of satisfaction to you as a good and virtuous woman |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by princefunmmy(m): 10:06am On Mar 03, 2018 |
Safiaaa:You seem like a feminist. Like i tell me female friends that are feminist that ladies should earn the respect and not demand for it, i wish we could get to chat better |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Sterope(f): 10:10am On Mar 03, 2018 |
Good and virtuous woman? Bleh!. Cute little words that I don't care about You can't have a positive attitude when your spouse is determined to be inconsiderate. Check out this post https://www.nairaland.com/4375117/daily-routine-lagos-father princefunmmy: 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by princefunmmy(m): 10:27am On Mar 03, 2018 |
Sterope:Notice his opening statement, marriage will be sweet when one party is not forming my duty is more important or stressful. Like i said, the help you need from a man as a lady should be earned, i guess the wife didn't call a round table discussion on how to share the house duties but the fact that the husband know she has a job and she must not resume late made him to assist the wife. But did you notice that the guy didn't talk about what happens after they're back from work? That means the wife does the needful! Don't try to neglect or belittle your role as a woman in the house but you can earn a helping hand from your man, I believe you are a very good lady at heart and you're gonna be a good wife and a great mother |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 10:48am On Mar 03, 2018 |
princefunmmy:not a feminist |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Sterope(f): 11:06am On Mar 03, 2018 |
One party can form important when the other party is INCONSIDERATE. Point of correction, Help is not earned in marriage. It is the reason it is marriage. He is helping his marriage when he works hand in hand with his wife. I referenced the article for you to appreciate how he helps his family. That is what a good spouse does. They make life easier for everyone. I really don't know what you mean by belittling and neglecting and I am not interested in figuring it out. I am not a helping hand so far I have as much stake in the marriage as my man. Of course, I am a good person princefunmmy: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by erico2k2(m): 2:42pm On Mar 03, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA:no kwanta at all, if U look at all these ITK, nah dem nor dey get Husband to marry b4 U know 41 years don nack, then dem go claim marriage is not for everyone, and wen 45 nack nah church sure pass, but @ 50, nah to dey do charity wrk, it works for oyibo not for us. |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:54pm On Mar 03, 2018 |
erico2k2:wetin concine me no be baba alaafin born twins at 80 make dem de fool dia sef de compia diasef with man |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by cococandy(f): 4:03am On Mar 04, 2018 |
Dummy PietraK: |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 2:41pm On Mar 04, 2018 |
PietraK: What happens when the hubby dies ? |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by cococandy(f): 1:06am On Mar 05, 2018 |
pcguru1:Another man will pick her up as his 2nd or 10th wife. You know. To help the poor widow who never learned to provide for herself. Doesn’t sound bad at all. Remember that’s a reason some dummies give for supporting polygamy. I don’t see why it can’t work here. And while we are at it, all the single ladies who can’t get a job because of his ingenious plan to outlaw female employment will just have to eat grass and wait until a man has mercy on them and decides to add them to his harem of wives. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by PDPGuy: 2:05am On Mar 05, 2018 |
cococandy:You are mouthed Working class women are harming their precious bodies, which should be kept smooth for their men |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by cococandy(f): 2:07am On Mar 05, 2018 |
PDPGuy:but where’s the lie? Lol |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by PDPGuy: 2:23am On Mar 05, 2018 |
cococandy:No lies there 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 9:39am On Mar 05, 2018 |
cococandy: He is a simple minded person, and a weak one at that, in all my years on NL, that's the most useless statement i have ever heard, the reason i asked that question is because i don't think he really thought it through, I have lost a father leaving my mother to cater for us, while having my father's people take away all our properties, the only saving grace was my mother working to ensure everything was okay for us, it's why till now i don't joke with equal treatment for women because imagine what would have happened to my future if my mom was a total liability. That's the most unintelligent comment i have every heard in my life. 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 9:39pm On Mar 05, 2018 |
Chari4: Go back to my original post and read again. I made provision for every issue that can arise. Both men and women would be alright Outlawing female employment will free enough jobs for men while there will be social security scheme (meal ticket) to help unmarried male and female |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 10:40am On Mar 06, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA: Now it is about the same number? You are grasping at straws. Stop splitting hairs. home training so it will not be strange like it is to you now so you rather do nothing while the man does every Where did you read that I do nothing? Reading comprehension problems? i see you cannot know yet the women catered for those brim Incoherent gibberish. 1 Like |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 5:47pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
Mindfulness:i dont think you know what straws look like you want to compare someone that accompanied another to farm who did all the work you want to compare 10k work with 100k work what do you do do you pay 50% of all bills gerege or you just contribute a token yet you want him to do 50% or more of housework do you do yard work do you wash car who will defend against armed robber if e happen compared to your guy(serious guy o)you do nothing aka you don't have an argument to counter so lemme throw insult and run away don't cook and clean you hear mowu see weda you go see husband |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by Nobody: 6:14pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
MIKOLOWISKA: I pity you. |
Re: "Being Married In Nigeria Is Inconveniencing" - Lady On Twitter Says by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:49am On Mar 07, 2018 |
Mindfulness:good keeep quiet since you hv nothing to say |
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