Dchosenmhi:
I want to change some ladies'
mindset today. You see, men are
not dogs. Not all of them are mad.
They are not all sex maniacs that
once they see you, they descend
on you and finish up before you
could open your mouth and say no.
Not all the men on the street wants
to get into your pants.
I'm going to be real and down to
earth with this article. The way
some ladies complain that men are
always asking them for sex really
baffles me. Why sex, why not
marriage proposal? Why do men
always want to sleep with you? Why
is it that every single guy who asks
you out is always hitting you for
sex? Why won't they marry you
unless they have a taste of the
forbidden fruit? What is the
problem because this is a big
problem! It is not something to be
proud of, if all what men see about
you is your body and nothing more.
It is a cause for alarm!
1. CHECK YOUR DRESSING
A female's body means nothing to
her. You are used to seeing your
breasts and every soft body part all
your life. It doesn't mean a thing to
you but to guys it means the
universe!
Men are moved by sight. Wearing
armless (exposing your shaved
armpit and upper arm) can turn a
man on talkless of the low neckline
exposing the cleavage of your
breasts. Tight trousers, tights
(panty hose) which shows the
shape of your buttock, mini and
micromini skirts exposing your
thigh all can make a man go wild!
Better face reality now and mind
the way you dress.
Some ladies say it doesn't matter.
Men should be able to control
themselves.They are entitled to
what they wear. Then you should
be able to control yourself when
they start asking you for sex and
not come here lamenting all men
are dogs!
I saw a lady around Yaba sometime
ago and I whistled. Jesus Christ!
The gown (not really a gown, the
top was sown together with the
trouser, it was suppose to be a
gown but the one down is a
trouser) clung to her body like her
second skin and right through the
window of the car, I was literally,
looking at the shape of her buttock!
It was like she wore nothing! She
thought she looked so beautiful but
well, she looked so seductive! If
she was going to visit her boyfriend
or fiance, it will take the power of
the Most High God and the special
anointing of the Holy Ghost for that
guy not to sleep with her that is if a
mad man didn't rape her before
she gets to her destination! It was
that baaad!!!
2. LEARN HOW TO SIT
Some ladies don't know how to sit.
Expecially the skirt wearing
sisters.You sit in front of a guy and
open your laps, what do you want
him to see? A trance? Yeah, he saw
alot of it! Always close your thigh
when you are sitting whether in
front of a guy or not. Not sitting
very well can become a habit and
follow you around. And you wonder
why all the brothers in the church
wants to sleep with you!
I was on a bike one day and saw a
fully grown, mature lady sitting in
front of her shop with her thigh
thrown apart. She wore a short
gown and was sitting facing the
express road! The whole world had
a complete assess to her holy of
holies, may the Lord have mercy! If
men start asking her for sex, she
will tell us she doesn't know why
men are disturbing her.
3. YOU TOUCH MEN A LOT
Ladies who touch, hug and wrap
themselves around guys are sexual
magnets to sexually immature
guys. Why are you always hugging
and pecking, for what? Can't you
talk without touching, holding and
hugging someone? Some even sit
on their "friend's" lap and say it
doesn't matter. He is just a brother
in Christ. He would soon be a lover
in bed. Learn to control your
emotions around the opposite sex.
If you must hug, go look for your
fellow lady to hug and peck and you
still need to be careful. Lesbians
are all over the places!
4. CALLING MEN PET NAMES
I hate it when men call me dear -
I'm not your dear! I am dear to only
God and my hubby. Some people
just throw around the word "dear"
as if it is a second language! Why
would you give all the guys in your
life pet names? You say, "thanks
dear," "okay sweetie", "see you
dearie", "bye love", etc.,you are
looking for serious trouble. Words
like this turns a man on.
5. YOU PRAISE MEN TOO MUCH
This shouldn't be a problem at all
but experience has taught me that
men are attracted and eventually
turned on by women who praise
them silly! You can compliment
men if you want to but be discreet
and casual about it. Don't over do
anything. Telling a guy, "whao! what
a nice moustache you've got!" or
that "muscle on your arm can make
any lady go crazy for you" is
indirectly telling him you like his
body and wouldn't mind if he
sleeps with you
6. YOU SEDUCE MEN
Here, you deliberately wear
provocative dresses with the
intention to turn him on. You want
to see whether you are sexually
admirable to him and want to see
how far he can respond to your
seduction. You

Lionessza:
Yeah , let's blame the weaknesses of men on women. Is it women's fault that some men are hostage to their sexual desires? . Rather than lecturing women on how to dress and conduct themselves, why not help your brothers with restless dycks . Maybe this might help some of you ..........

XhosaNostra:



IDK why but I find these tips funny.

"Remember not to rape her"

Lionessza:



Lol, but we really need to come up with some ways to save some of these guys from being perpetrators of rape and sexual harrasments. The " provocatively " dressed female is always the problem not them . You could be dressed like the female in the pic below, still you will get sexually harassed or molested , at the mere sight of your arms, they can’t control themselves .

XhosaNostra:


LMAO. Exactly! Anything can be sexualized. I believe it's a psychological thing because how else do you explain aba who rape babies & old ladies? What's sexy about a diaper? It's mental illness, they should look into it.

Lionessza:




Exactly . Instead of blaming everyone and everything else for their lack of self control and mental illnesses , they should start looking for solutions to their problems. Is it by force to get at hard on at the mere sight of a short skirt or tight top? . They can walk around topless in public, no one will sexually harass them but a woman can't go to a restaurant wearing a full t-shirt and shorts without being accused of looking for sex. Nonsense .

highqueen:
nonsense reasons to justify your sex starved self...who even begged mtn to dash you 10mb..

HOW DO YOU KNOW MTN "DASH 10MB"

IF YOU DON'T GET SOME, YOURSELF.

donsimo:


Note read the manipulated man to understand this women better.
Then you won't make post like this again.

CAPSLOCKED:




ESTHER VILAR DID A GREAT WORK WITH THE BOOK. BUT SHE WAS RATHER TOO INSULTIVE THAN SENSITIVE WITH HER DESCRIPTIONS.

AS IF WHILE BASHING WOMEN'S WEAK EMOTIONS, SHE GAVE IN TO HER OWN WEEK EMOTIONS AND THE WHOLE BOOK SOUNDED LIKE A QUARREL BETWEEN A BUNCH OF MAD WOMEN.