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Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Jointhemiltons2(m): 7:04am On Mar 08, 2018 |
remsonik:Just like all those women on the road with 5 children begging and she’s still breastfeeding another one. Got me wondering “so a man can spend his energy to straff and sweat ontop of you yet he can’t sweat to feed them” 6 Likes |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Emycord: 7:06am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Priscy01:IN PEG'S VOICE "SHE WAS ONCE A CHILDREN" |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Aadeyinka(m): 7:06am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Priscy01:ignorant |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Butoneday2(m): 7:09am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Akwuna ga ebe akwa nwa na una nka? Do u tink u will flirt 4 ever don't worry wen dose two balls u hang on ur chest goes flat like slippers ur eyes go clear. The beautiful ones are not yet born and ur here talking thrash. U no go find ur sef a better guy dat will Bleep u and give u adam and eve dey dia dey waste ur miserable life. |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Nobody: 7:11am On Mar 08, 2018 |
zolajpower: Is that a bad way to reason? Is a man supposed to be more important than their career? |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by 1Sharon(f): 7:12am On Mar 08, 2018 |
DrinkLimca: What? |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Junior66(m): 7:14am On Mar 08, 2018 |
ManFromJos: [bur-dn] noun 1. that which is carried; load: a horse's burden of rider and pack. 2. that which is borne with difficulty; obligation; onus: the burden of leadership. |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by JideAmuGiaka: 7:14am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Elvixbeatz: A failure is a failure with or without children. |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by kense88: 7:15am On Mar 08, 2018 |
emmayayodeji:I dey tell you. I know someone with two set of twins, but still jobless. If you can't take care of them, don't bring them into this world 3 Likes |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Proudlyngwa(m): 7:15am On Mar 08, 2018 |
remsonik:She said children are a burden, she did not classify whether it is the ones that were prepared for. |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by kenodrill: 7:16am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Most women in our present contemporary society don't value marriage hence they assume children to be a burden n even in most cases still relates it to their men.am sure with time Nigerians will adopt the life style of the western folks where contract marriage seems to be the way to a full liberal life. |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by exlinkleads(f): 7:17am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Is true now 1 Like |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by 1Sharon(f): 7:18am On Mar 08, 2018 |
kenodrill: Yeah at least the westerners don't have more kids than they can afford like Africans 1 Like |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by anochuko01(m): 7:18am On Mar 08, 2018 |
emmayayodeji: God bless you jaree. especially in Nigerian churches where they scream be fruitful and multiply! there are more pressing issues nowadays. Nigeria would be the third most populous country by 2030, imagine that population with the current state of things. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Nobody: 7:19am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Priscy01:beta go find work nd stop stalking pple online |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by ImaIma1(f): 7:20am On Mar 08, 2018 |
If that is the point she was trying to make, she should have said children are big responsibilities. Using "burden" makes it sound negative. 1 Like |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by kense88: 7:21am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Butoneday2:Will you carter for there needs? how would you feel if your parents are unable to provide your basic needs or simply think there are better things to do than nurse a baby, but still brought you to this world to suffer. Its a crime to birth a child you cannot carter for, in Europe. 3 Likes |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Mryocks(m): 7:26am On Mar 08, 2018 |
She should just yarn us the truth....she has a problem with producing babies. |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by lexy2014: 7:27am On Mar 08, 2018 |
eleojo23:she didn't make any indirect comments. She was very unambiguous. She sees children as a burden cause of d things she won't b able 2 continue doing if she has them.she wasn't talking about family planning |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by kense88: 7:27am On Mar 08, 2018 |
ImaIma1:They have the same meaning. Some of them will grow up to become a problem to the society. If you can't give them the best, please save the world another trouble maker. Only well trained children are beneficial to the society and worth celebrating. My cents 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by lexy2014: 7:29am On Mar 08, 2018 |
ImaIma1:she knew exactly what she wanted 2 say. She sees children as a burden |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by lexy2014: 7:31am On Mar 08, 2018 |
remsonik:first of, she isn't talking about family planning. She's sees children as things that won't enable her do d things she wants 2do. |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Omotoyosi98(m): 7:32am On Mar 08, 2018 |
My dear,if ur mother had had the mentality that if she gives birth to u and ur siblings,you will b a burden to her she wouldn't have gven birth to you and you won't b here spewing this rubbish...who u epp self,if u can't conceive again u better tell us,rather than giving us filmsy excuse about having kids....maybe you need a mental checkup...children are the heritage of the Lord...in this part of the world,if you have everything and you don't have child/children then you are not accomplished yet cos you're 'agan' |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by lexy2014: 7:33am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Donald3d:am sure she was also a burden to her parents and they didn't throw her away |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by lexy2014: 7:39am On Mar 08, 2018 |
kense88:burden and responsibility aren't d same thing.Children aren't a burden, they are an investment that's y parents take responsibility for their upkeep and training. when u use d word burden, u are saying I have something that is a nuisance. With such a mentality, I don't how a child will grow 2b anything meaningful 2 Likes |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Anucha017(m): 7:40am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Hmmm. But, she's someone's child and her parents didn't consider her a burden. This is expression of foolishness. |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by possibility1234: 7:40am On Mar 08, 2018 |
If your parent have thought like this, they wouldn't have given birth to you, and you won't be here talking trash... My children are a blessing |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by lexy2014: 7:41am On Mar 08, 2018 |
kense88:that's family planning which is different from.what she talked about |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Omotoyosi98(m): 7:41am On Mar 08, 2018 |
[quote author=Elvixbeatz post=65654136]GOD will bless dis lady.. Sm idiots will attack her without reasoning.... Ok b4 bashing her ask ur mom if d life she is living now is wat she dreamt of..... you re nt responsible for the current condition,every one is living with the consequences of their decision like you will also do when you become one,that's y it is advisable to have got everything u want to get b4 'dabbing' to marriage...but saying having children waste one's time...may our life not be like a snake that crawl on a rock without traces...in this part of d world,if u dnt have one either adopted or biological,u wil get fustrated one day |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by kense88: 7:41am On Mar 08, 2018 |
lexy2014:Well its her life, no one is obliged to have kids. All this Fulani herdsmen wey dey kill people, na very good example of poor or no parenting. 3 Likes |
Re: “children Are A Burden. They Slow Down Careers & Are Time Consuming” - Lady by Chukazu: 7:43am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Cutehector: It's not all about money. Have you seen a woman with twins or triplets? My aunt almost had a nervous breakdown... imagine having to breastfeed 2-3 hefty kids turn by turn at same time? So what can money do in such scenario?...buy breast milk? |
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