A lady has identified as Kechi Monye Iwu, cried out and asked for advice from Facebook users over a bizarre sex-related situation.

According to her, she is engaged and is set to be wedded next month, but her fiance has stopped picking up her phone calls because of her refusal to have sex with him.

Read what she shared below;
"Umunnem Biko help me with your honest advice : My introduction/traditional marriage date has been fixed 07/04/2018 and i haven’t had sex with my man so he has said i should visit him next week and i accepted, he then asked about my menses i told him it will be out that next week, he said i shouldn’t come then rather i should come earlier or after which i didn’t agree. He has stopped calling me neither does he pick my calls. Please your advise is needed. Thank you"

https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/stop-picking-calls-refused-sex-lady-set-wed-next-month-cries.html

Oga is just asking for the VIN of the car he want to buy, baba no wan buy badly accidented car or a car that has been rolled over several times.



Sense no go kill this guy man

Say God!!!

Sorry...


Say baba!!!

so displaying it in social media (facebook) will solve the problem.

I find this post funny and at the same time, STUPID
If she brought her issue to a faceless platform like NL, it would have been far better than putting the issue on Facebook where everyone knows her and possibly, her fiance

Know who u are dealing with before u tie the knot.

This one is seriously looking for her sense . May she want FB owner to call her fiance. Mtchwwww.

why refused/denied him s*x few days to ur wine carrying day?

guys and sex..this is how they will pressurize you into going astray..thank God he's showing his real self now...he wanted to taste and run.

Is your punny too wide?
U want to scam d man into marrying a borehole abi

He assumes the lady is already his property...........so he is upset that she refused to surrender herself.........but why hurry na,the lady will be his soonest.................i hope he doesnt read this story about himself on facebook cos that will upset him more

Two of una no dey compatible sexually...

Let him be..... One thing that kills Nigerians faster than death is the 'fear of what people will say' some people have stayed in hurtful and crazy situations just to avoid people saying terrible things about them.... Walk away sister, I am a man but that man doesn't love you, you need love firstly among many other things you need in a happy home

is she a virgin?

What are the grounds for denying him?

If she is a virgin with high moral standards about marriages and sex issues, then I believe she might have a point

However, If she isn't a virgin, then she is a hypocrite because she must have slept with other men before, but for some odd reason(s) refusing to sleep with a man that she fixed traditional wedding with.

It may also look like the lady is hiding something about her sex life from her future partner, which is bad considering they have chosen to spend the rest of their lifes together.

I think the lady needs to give more information, instead of trying to paint her future husband in a bad light

The issue between man and woman this day no b small thing

Some men can fake interest in marriage just to sleep with you. If he’s not talking to you because of sex , let him go. He’s not interested.

A ‘respectable’ Nigerian medical doctor once told me he would accompany his friends to do marriage introductions for any girl they wanted to get at all cost if she played hard to get. For some of these guys, the peniss leads. Anything else and anyone else doesn’t matter. Don’t fall for it. Unless it’s what you want to do.

SAY NO TO PRESSURED SEX. DO IT ONLY IF YOU WANT TO

This post makes no sense. Expect to get ur sorry ass dumped

Probably you were calling to ask for more money!! Don’t blame the dude..

Wow

lol
Why seek solutions from a public platform to help solve your personal issues?

U have already started exhibiting ur immaturity....If the guy refuses to marry U becos of this reckless behaviour,you will start blaming your village people or form victim by saying he wants to "chop and run" as if sex is only enjoyed by the man alone!!


the level of reasoning dese days by sum individuals leaves much to be desired!

trustworthy1:
so displaying it in social media (facebook) will solve the problem.

Seriously it beats my imagination what our generation have become. Now she has exposed herself and business to both family, friends and foes. Tell me what makes her think that wedding might workout again after this act? After spilling this guy's beans out in the public and his intentions to the world around them, will he ever be respected again? She just lost her man for this singular foolish act. I am not justifying the guy's act either but pushing your issues especially through a medium that's not faceless is not the best act of wisdom

How do u post this on facebook I smell lies

And if it's true let's see the trad iv

After that I bet the marriage is over

If ever happened which I bet 99% it didn't, everything is not about facebook or social media
One someone will come and tell her bedroom position

Wife: Come here to the bedroom
Husband: Whats the matter
Wife: Just do what i ask u
Husband: Okay am coming
Wife: Take off your clothes
Husband: Okay i have taken them off
Wife: Join me on the bed
Husband: Cool
Wife: Help me count this money
Husband: Is that the reason i had to take off my clothes
Wife: Yes just incase u had plans to hide some in your clothes..

cococandy:
Some men can fake interest in marriage just to sleep with you. If he’s not talking to you beyond sexist, let him go. He’s not interested.

A ‘respectable’ Nigerian medical doctor once told me he would accompany his friends to do marriage introductions for any girl they wanted to get at all cost if she played hard to get. For some of these guys, the peniss leads. Anything else and anyone else doesn’t matter. Don’t fall for it. Unless it’s what you want to do.

SAY NO TO PRESSURED SEX. DO IT ONLY IF YOU WANT TO

Better go spiritual. All is not well

Husband and wife issue.
They will settle it sooner than later

Is a message to you that he is a great womanizer, if he can not wait before marriage, then he can not wait going out after marriage.
Stand your ground and do no compromise your faith

Are you a Virgin? If not what are you hiding

Some lady can be stupid ehn...so now Facebook will solve your problem? Maybe you really don't want it solved; you just want to humilate the guy and make people see him as the devil that broke you heart; hypocritical liars!

Nne u have a fish brain just common simple ordinary sex.

don4real18:
I find this post funny and at the same time, STUPID
If she brought her issue to a faceless platform like NL, it would have been far better than putting the issue on Facebook where everyone knows her and possibly, her fiance

Some ladies are crazy aswear, no dignity no shame.

Marry this kind one and all your family issues would be be laid bare 247, neighbours, family and even Facebook colleagues would always be in the know. Go to Rant HQ on Fb and see how girls are shaming themselves and their fathers and not me

ednut1:
This post makes no sense. Expect to get ur sorry ass dumped

let us encourage morality, the post make sense