I am worrying myself over nothing

Thank you all.

Am angry and confused

Doubt25:
Am angry and confused

Why dont u confront her with this evidence instead of giving urself hbp!

OP, sorry you might be living with a cheating wife, more worrisome is the babalawo talk. You need to be very careful and try getting more evidence after which you confront her. But you must be wise in your confrontation with her cause she and her lover might want to harm you. Never underestimate what people who visit traditionalist can do.
Really the rate of cheating wives is so alarming this days and this I still blame on multiple sexual relations before marriage.

Heebah:
Why dont u confront her with this evidence instead of giving urself hbp!

And if she says it is true what then will I do, I wished I didn't check her chat.

Olalan:
OP, sorry you might be living with a cheating wife, more worrisome is the babalawo talk. You need to be very careful and try getting more evidence after which you confront her. But you must be wise in your confrontation with her cause she and her lover might want to harm you. Never underestimate what people who visit traditionalist can do.
Really the rate of cheating wives is so alarming this days and this I still blame on multiple sexual relations before marriage.

Brother I don't want to go through her chats anymore the headache and heartache is killing me. Am afraid of what I will find

"babalawo stuff" Mr man am sorry, you don't need a prophet to tell you...with what am seeing sef , its your wife that is (toasting) forcing herself on the man and your life might be at risk. man up and confront the issue now. your wife is a cheat... divorce is not the best option but is sometimes is the better option because she may be planning to kill you already... my opinion

You have to dig for more evidence now and confront her, let me prepare your mind that you might find more nasty revelations but the earlier the better. Like I wrote earlier a wife who has a lover they both visit a traditionalist is like living with a time bomb waiting to explode.

Doubt25:


Brother I don't want to go through her chats anymore the headache and heartache is killing me. Am afraid of what I will find

Olalan:
You have to dig for more evidence now and confront her, let me prepare your mind that you might find more nasty revelations but the earlier the better. Like I wrote earlier a wife who has a lover they both visit a traditionalist is like living with a time bomb waiting to explode.

She deletes all the messages I was just unlucky to find this one.

I just need someone to talk to, can't go to family and friends cause of shame

Doubt25:

She deletes all the messages I was just unlucky to find this one.

I just need someone to talk to, can't go to family and friends cause of shame

Brotherly, no need for long talks... You have enough evidence. Play smart and cool as if all is well. Avoid her foods or eat from the same place with her. Try and track the guy, she cheating on you with. File report to the police and move far away with your life.

I wonder where una from they marry all these wives... Why my good sister never marry with all her niceness!

Please I need to talk to someone my head is really aching me, cause a lot of things are just adding up.

Doubt25:
Please I need to talk to someone my head is really aching me, cause a lot of things are just adding up.

Take panadol.

Then confront her.

OreoPaschal:


Brotherly, no need for long talks... You have enough evidence. Play smart and cool as if all is well. Avoid her foods or eat from the same place with her. Try and track the guy, she cheating on you with. File report to the police and move far away with your life.

I wonder where una from they marry all these wives... Why my good sister never marry with all her niceness!

the illumination of electric lamp can only be seen when current flows tro it. Let her husband in the future attest to her niceness

Forget shame bros and quickly call your family and friends for intervention. Your wife patronizing babalawo and you're here trying to cover her, hope you're not digging your grave while covering her.

To cap it all, take your kids to the hospital for DNA test to be sure dog legs is not missing with sheep.

You have to confront her.You have enough evidence already.

Doubt25:
Please I need to talk to someone my head is really aching me, cause a lot of things are just adding up.

Yea am here, your location please this is my contact 08035546863 Chidera by name lets talk I beg I can understand the kind of emotional distress you are going through right now

Doubt25:


And if she says it is true what then will I do, I wished I didn't check her chat.

We have kids

..How sure are u that the kids are biologically urs?

Doubt25:
Please I need to talk to someone my head is really aching me, cause a lot of things are just adding up.

bro if this thing is true, don't panic or worried that u know, just play smart as don't harm her or ask her. she will confess later

Doubt25:
Please I need to talk to someone my head is really aching me, cause a lot of things are just adding up.

You're in TROUBLE bro!

Divorce her! As fast as you can. Do DNA for your kids.
Don't loose your life or be rendered useless because of shame.

This is very serious. Babalowo ke!

Those two people are up to something sinister.

You erased the rest of her babalawo comment, what for? Looks like's she's asking where he was, maybe they didn't go or somethinh. Anyhoozle, whether they went or not isn't important, to even mention it is disturbing. She and whoever she's chatting with are up to something