Let me give a little background info here.
I am corper(Nysc) posted to one of the northern states.
I met this cute girl at orientation camp, she's 26 also a yoruba like me.

Ever since we met at camp, she's been into me:Body signs, gestures, the way we talk and all that.

Also, she would hold my hands at the slightest opportunity and always come to my apartment(rented) whenever opportuned but no romances.

Meanwhile, I have fallen in love with her as she's the first and the last thing on my mind daily.

Even the way we move around on the street(whether my side or hers); people would think we are dating.
But we aren't dating as she's said we can only be friends because she has someone or so.

The confusing aspect is that she also have other male friend(s) but she rarely meets with them. And she's jealous whenever i talk to her about other girls.
Not to mention the gifts aspects because i do make extra money apart from allawee, i do help her out financially too

She seem to be in love with me but her love is fluctuating like Glo network after subscription.
Am confused about what i should do..

Should iI walk away or hang around? Any help pls

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bro you have no CLUE what LOVE is. Just go sit down and study about Love....

you both are actually confused because she is PLAYING your emotions like nairabet and has many guy friends to choose from... yet you want to do LOTTO on her Love... its like you have money to waste.

Why not build yourself to a point where she is literally begin you to date her or even becomes easy and cheap to you... than the torture you are putting yourself through.?

NO GIRL IS WORTH IT. Character is what is used in Marriage NOT beauty. sO DEFINE YOUR PRIORITY.

wildchild009:
Let me give a little background info here.
I am corper(Nysc) posted to one of the northern states.
I met this cute girl at orientation camp, she's 26 also a yoruba like me.
Ever since we met at camp, she's been into me:Body signs, gestures, the way we talk and all that.
Also, she would hold my hands at the slightest opportunity and always come to my apartment(rented) whenever opportuned but no romances.
Meanwhile, I have fallen in love with her as she's the first and the last thing on my mind daily.
Even the way we move around on the street(whether my side or hers); people would think we are dating.
But we aren't dating as she's said we can only be friends because she has someone or so.
The confusing aspect is that she also have other male friend(s) but she rarely meets with them. And she's jealous whenever i talk to her about other girls.
Not to mention the gifts aspects because i do make extra money apart from allawee, i do help her out financially too
She seem to be in love with me but her love is fluctuating like Glo network after subscription.
Am confused about what i should do..should i walk away or hang around..any help pls

Lol.

She likes you, no doubt. But you're just a corper.
She's 26. She's thinking marriage and a financially stable and more mature guy.

Did you read the unofficial manual of NySC at all

The one year relationship shii

The lady is looking for a Bleep mate


God bless Nigerian leaders for the initiative of NYSC

I had to modify when I saw where you claimed you gave her random gifts. Bro you may actually have been friend zoned

I believe you maybe her ATM

greatnaija01:
bro you have no CLUE what LOVE is. Just go sit down and study about Love....

you both are actually confused because she is PLAYING your emotions like nairabet and has many guy friends to choose from... yet you want to do LOTTO on her Love... its like you have money to waste.

Why not build yourself to a point where she is literally begin you to date her or even becomes easy and cheap to you... than the torture you are putting yourself through.?

NO GIRL IS WORTH IT. Character is what is used in Marriage NOT beauty. sO DEFINE YOUR PRIORITY.

thanks but, How do i do this?

Make a move to know if she's foreal,if she declines she's just fuçkin with u,girls do that a lot,if you know you know.

Money is the meat of the confusion. You have your own quarters..... a luxury for her under the circumstances... cost free and..... you are loading her with gifts and monies.... always welcomed by women. Why would she give any other woman the slightest opportunity to get your attention? Is she into you as a person?....or into you because of what you are providing for her? That you have to figure out for yourself.

waiting dey worry all these corpers sef, confused corpers evrywhere. Bros its either you stay friends or get a girlfriend instead of being confused.,

Bros, Many guys have fallen for TOYLADIES like yours o.... they make every guy believe in Love till they have gotten what they want and then they BOUNCE the guy or elope with a more secure guy. These ladies are good in communication and can lead a guy along indirectly to think he is in love with them... these ladies have sharp striking body features and smooth looks but its all for luring their victims BUT the trick is this....


THEY WILL ALWAYS PURSUE GUYS WHO DO NOT NEED THEM.... guys who are not charmed by their tricks... THEY WILL BE SO CURIOUS TO KNOW WHY IT DIDNT WORK THEN THEY WILL FALL FOR THEM.

Build yourself by social relevance-cars, house, impeccable dress sense, nice packaged content and looks.... then Act like they are not your type and SHE WILL PURSUE U TO THE END LIKE AN EVIL SPIRIT.

wildchild009:

thanks but, How do i do this?

Your mumu never do. She is just using you as a meal ticket while saving her own money. At ur age,you never still get sense.Ode

JONNYSPUTE:
Your mumu never do. She is just using you as a meal ticket while saving her own money. At ur age,you never still get sense.Ode

a bottle of cold beer for you Sir...

OKUCHI11:
a bottle of cold beer for you Sir...

. Bros I dey wait for the beer o.Thanks. I wonder when some boys will start making use of their brains.

wildchild009:
any help pls

Help is here. Have you heard of www.wetclef.com? That's all you need. Bye.

wildchild009:
Let me give a little background info here.
I am corper(Nysc) posted to one of the northern states.
I met this cute girl at orientation camp, she's 26 also a yoruba like me.
Ever since we met at camp, she's been into me:Body signs, gestures, the way we talk and all that.
Also, she would hold my hands at the slightest opportunity and always come to my apartment(rented) whenever opportuned but no romances.
Meanwhile, I have fallen in love with her as she's the first and the last thing on my mind daily.
Even the way we move around on the street(whether my side or hers); people would think we are dating.
But we aren't dating as she's said we can only be friends because she has someone or so.
The confusing aspect is that she also have other male friend(s) but she rarely meets with them. And she's jealous whenever i talk to her about other girls.
Not to mention the gifts aspects because i do make extra money apart from allawee, i do help her out financially too
She seem to be in love with me but her love is fluctuating like Glo network after subscription.
Am confused about what i should do..should i walk away or hang around..any help pls

Welcome to FRIENDZONE! Enjoy your stay....

The girl is busy making u think she loves u and Andy are falling for it. Wait till ur service is over when all of u will go back to ur places before ur eyes go clear.

Lefulefu come and see o

donstan18:
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corper love is sweet ooo ...we all experienced it but then it never last.after the nysc everybody goes back to im papa house .anyway op i know u love this corper babe but then this babe no love u.she is playing u gboju gboju(maga).at the end of the month u spend all ur allawee plus ur hustling money on her while her own allawee is left untorched.biko be wise.

prodiG:
Lefulefu come and see o

no mind op ...after the NYSC im eye go clear .instead of him to be saving the little money he"s getting as a corper he"s busy wasting it on a fellow corper cos of corper lover .love for nysc camp wey no dey last .

Ok go

The problem with the Op is somewhat rampant these days and it is only 'weak men' who usually got trapped. It also does occurs when the man in question is indisciplined or doesn't have well laid out principles for himself.
A scenario occured to me late last year when we were asked to carry out research on a particular topic and we were basically into groups with each group comprising four persons. In my group,we were two guys with two ladies with one of them happens to be my crush and she too equally knew I was crushing on her not even knowing my guy had proposed the other lady .
The other guy and I were the one that did all the research and spendings alone with the girls nowhere to be found. After the completion of the project,the ladies just came out of the blues and be playing all lovey-dovey on us again. My guy fell for their antics and begged me to include their names which they thought I did. It was during the roll-call they got the shocker of their lives. They thought all guys are p*ssy niggas.

wetin concern me??

So you have to come here and describe her like GLO network, make them catch you, you will hear it. shior.

Back to topic, Though i won't advice you to force your way in, since she has told you she's in a relationship. Just do whatever you want to do for her (am not talking about sex 0000) and then let her go.

Imagine. Na im good for Glo sef. Guy, u are on a long thing.

why use glo ...

stewpid corper

She just need a financial companion which you are meeting her needs to some extent in that aspect.

Also you are just a stand-by in her life and should in case her main boyfriend mess up, she may think of considering you.

It would be good to delete whatever love u have for this lady, now... pretend as if you are in love with her while you source for a girlfriend. She is toying with your emotion. You should do the same.