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Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by ogyunging(m): 10:17am On Mar 12, 2018 |
Accepting a cheat back is a sign of strength. Acceptance means forgiveness and a second chance. "To err is human, to forgive is divine" Let us bring out the divine spark in us, it is hard but worth it. I have forgiven a cheat before, because even ogyunging needs forgiving. What will be will be... Do to others as you would want them to do you... 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by OhiOfIhima: 10:17am On Mar 12, 2018 |
YomiTee123:Try an had a solid prove, confront if she refuse to open up, dump her ass out... Guy I was once in ur situation, I have to man up n decide at once. God can never be bais, do you knw y? someone more complete than her will surely come ur way as far as u didnt offend her. It work vise versa. 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by dimexy247(m): 10:21am On Mar 12, 2018 |
Hmmm! My confusion at this point is beyond comprehension. This is serious. God, please direct my path. 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by blackbeau1(f): 10:25am On Mar 12, 2018 |
It's none if the above. Just emotions 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by lastempero: 10:26am On Mar 12, 2018 |
donstan18: Do u mean second chance to cheat again? |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by OhiOfIhima: 10:26am On Mar 12, 2018 |
Fmartin:Wat if d lady hook u wit belle, how would u prove dat u are not responsible for it? I think break up is the best option 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by nairalanduseles: 10:26am On Mar 12, 2018 |
people do change my girlfriend forgave me when we were dating .....we have been married for 2 years now everyone deserves a second chance 2 Likes |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Fmartin(m): 10:29am On Mar 12, 2018 |
OhiOfIhima:having belle does not mean i must marry u. U go born give me. 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Deo1986(m): 10:32am On Mar 12, 2018 |
Let's not view things in black and white or type trash simply because we are hiding behind our laptops and phones. People cheat mostly because of circumstances beyond their control, so a cheatee should put everything into consideration before taking a decision. We all cheat in various ways and adultery is one of them though considered the most heinous. But if the cheater begs for forgiveness and is genuinely contrite, what prevents you, me or the world from forgiving? 2 Likes |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Bnenzzy101: 10:34am On Mar 12, 2018 |
If children is involved. I suggest u give a second chance b4 kicking her ass out. |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Originalsly: 10:35am On Mar 12, 2018 |
Mental strength....... being stubborn is a form of mental strength. 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by kapelvej: 10:44am On Mar 12, 2018 |
modik:and Nelson Mandela chased his wife Winnie Mandela away when he learned that his wife slept with someone after he came out from jail. 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by kapelvej: 10:45am On Mar 12, 2018 |
greiboy:I Positively align with you.[/quote] and Nelson Mandela chased his wife Winnie Mandela away when he learned that his wife slept with someone after he came out from jail. the woman waited 27 years for him. the woman had all the reasons to cheat, but he chased her away 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Tomoyayi(m): 10:45am On Mar 12, 2018 |
It all depends on the circumstances that led to the partner cheating. If you are responsible for your partner cheating, Strength. If you are not responsible for your partner cheating, weakness 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Tomoyayi(m): 10:48am On Mar 12, 2018 |
Bnenzzy101: The topic is not gender specific |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by lolybaby(f): 10:49am On Mar 12, 2018 |
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Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Nobody: 10:49am On Mar 12, 2018 |
kapelvej:He claimed he chased her because of the differences in ideology Do you know the woman also had series of murder case on her neck 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by bukatyne(f): 10:53am On Mar 12, 2018 |
greiboy: I think same Mandela did not take his wife back. |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Nobody: 10:55am On Mar 12, 2018 |
bukatyne:He forgave her though, but didn't forget. She was by the side of her husband during the period of his death Read my write up again |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Nobody: 11:01am On Mar 12, 2018 |
sheer weakness!
I may forgive the sin, but I'll FORGET the person! I condone anything but cheating. 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Nobody: 11:01am On Mar 12, 2018 |
Deo1986:Bros see don't put sugar in the tea yet. The person or people cheated cos they wanted to without considering the physical and emotional feelings of the other party. Which circumstances is greater than willing to sacrifice yourself to save the life of all sinners? |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Nobody: 11:17am On Mar 12, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: Very very wrong. That's a very shallow way to think and i don't think you understand the concept of love. Do you know if God followed that logic, this earth would have been wiped out even Jesus would not have been sent to die for our sins. Do you know how many times we hav tested Gods boundaries? Do you think you will be alive today? Notwithstanding, i don't condone cheating but life is not as simple as that, certain circumstances have people with no other choice. 1 Like |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Lilimax(f): 11:19am On Mar 12, 2018 |
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Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:23am On Mar 12, 2018 |
Blackfyre: I don't care. Live your life by your biblical ideologies & I'll live mine by my own rules, thank you. Come here & tell me it's wrong. Says who? 1 Like
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Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Nobody: 11:25am On Mar 12, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: Okay then. What does voetesk mean? |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:28am On Mar 12, 2018 |
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Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Nobody: 11:29am On Mar 12, 2018 |
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Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by bukatyne(f): 11:30am On Mar 12, 2018 |
greiboy: He forgave but didn't accept her back. To forgive is easy na; I guess the OP is really about forgetting . |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:34am On Mar 12, 2018 |
Blackfyre: That would be "Hou op" in Afrikaans. "Voetsek" is also Afrikaans in origin, but it has become a popular slang word used by everyone. 3 Likes |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by bizzy500: 11:34am On Mar 12, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus:lol I guess you really hate cheaters |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by Deo1986(m): 11:36am On Mar 12, 2018 |
dumo1:I understand you've never been in a ''tight corner''. |
Re: Is Accepting A Cheat Back Strength Or Weakness? by wunmi590(m): 11:36am On Mar 12, 2018 |
greiboy: This is a wonderful pieces, even if i have a strong heart not to forgive, reading this have melt my heart. your write up is a spot on, God bless you 3 Likes 1 Share |
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