Dear Jzhane,

I am a 34 year old lady. I have been in some relationships that didnt work out and I am scared that as I am approaching 35 years in May,I may not find someone to marry me. Its just five years to being 40 and I am really scared of being alone all my life.

I met Jude last December at the Cinema. He and I clicked. I liked him instantly,he is fun and jovial and full of life . He is 33 years old. He told me he and his girlfriend just broke up a few days ago. We hung out alot in December,I was already dreaming of being his wife eventually. I mean,we were seeing each other every day. The sex was good and exciting. He was happy to be with me. He was always calling me wife material.


But in January,he made up with his girlfriend and he told me that himself. I was very heart broken. I begged and begged him but he said he loves her alot,they have been together for four years. I mean,I know ours was just one month but I swear,I am head over heels in love with Jude. I told him it was okay but I will not leave him alone. I gave him go ahead to date me and his girl . I asked him to give me one year with him,to see if he will fall in love with me.

So,I have been sharing Jude with his girlfriend and I am seriously praying that one day he chooses me. He even says I know how to cook and sex better than his girl. Please what can I do to ensure he chooses

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Never begged for LOVE..

U fuccck him so good & cooked him so well but u will never win his heart coz his gf weigh more than u...But dont worry, ONCE A CHEATER IS ALWAYS A CHEATER...

U better find another JUDE that will love u whole heartedly.

Umu nwanyi bu zi Kobo, Kobo.

being single is better than staying in a toxic marriage or relationship

you really hit the nail at head .

Exactly , you cant win someone heart with good sex or food ohhh.

Do not let desperation lead you into what you will regret.

QueenSuccubus:


Never begged for LOVE..

U fuccck him so good & cooked him so well but u will never win his heart coz his gf weigh more than u...But dont worry, ONCE A CHEATER IS ALWAYS A CHEATER...

U better find another JUDE that will love u whole heartedly.

Nwanee mmadu.


Akwukwo nso kwuru ya , time shall come wen 7 women shall come to a man and request for marriage.

TarOrfeek:



Umu nwanyi bu zi Kobo, Kobo.

liquidlove2018:

you really hit the nail at head .

Exactly , you cant win someone heart with good sex or food ohhh.

Do not let desperation lead you into what you will regret.

Tnxxx...

Don't force yourself on any man for the heart knows where it belongs!

Even if you sex him 10 times a day, cook for him like KFC, wash more than a washing machine, you will never be chosen.

Love is a mystery that even people in it can't explain how e dey do them.

Forget this your age matter, when the right man knocks, he won't even remember how old you are.
Thank you!

one of the hardest thing in life is to love someone who loves another..
my dear leave that relationship
its not meant for you

Make she forget the issue for age is just a number .

Jecciluscious:
Don't force yourself on any man for the heart knows where it belongs!

Even if you sex him 10 times a day, cook for him like KFC, wash more than a washing machine, you will never be chosen.

Love is a mystery that even people in it can't explain how e dey do them.

Forget this your age matter, when the right man knocks, he won't even remember how old you are.
Thank you!

Jecciluscious:
Don't force yourself on any man for the heart knows where it belongs!

Even if you sex him 10 times a day, cook for him like KFC, wash more than a washing machine, you will never be chosen.

Love is a mystery that even people in it can't explain how e dey do them.

Forget this your age matter, when the right man knocks, he won't even remember how old you are.
Thank you!

very correct, I met a lady that got married at 42 late last year

lol... he broke up with his girlfriend in December and reconciled with her in January...

There was no breakup, he was cheating on his girlfriend with you.

I guess the girlfriend wasn't available in December and he needed somebody to warm his bed...

sorry babe... count your loss and move on


we never can tell sha... the guy still fit marry you... men are onekain

, No hope you advise her well initially why you come dey give her hope toward the end of ur comment?

Radiants:
lol... he broke up with his girlfriend in December and reconciled with her in January...

There was no breakup, he was cheating on his girlfriend with you.

I guess the girlfriend wasn't available in December and he needed somebody to warm his bed...

sorry babe... count your loss and move on


we never can tell sha... the guy still fit marry you... men are onekain

Its still possible ,though the chances are 9%

loool

Beke2020:
, No hope you advise her well initially why you come dey give her hope toward the end of ur comment?

Babe pls dont gave up, u have to fight for what u desire, nothing gud cums easy

She should move on with her life period! There many dud out there like...

liquidlove2018:

Its still possible ,though the chances are 9%

loool

She is beclouded by list in the name of love.

Beke2020:
She should move on with her life period! There many dud out there like...

Fake story

Pray son that such thing don't happen to you or anyone close to you . Coz if it does ,I will call it tales by moon light. Did anyone force you to comment ?

yeyerolling:
Fake story

Some people can act funny at times.

Why will someone be hoping on another person whp already love someone else to love him/her ?

marvin906:
one of the hardest thing in life is to love someone who loves another..
my dear leave that relationship
its not meant for you

Im embarrassed. How can you beg someone to love you? Thats gross. Never had to beg a man for anything never will. It should be the other way around, respect yourself.