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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by RexEmmyGee: 6:11pm On Mar 14, 2018
You think is by face abi


Ask them personally and the post will disappear from fp.

Anyway there is no law that's against marrying early.

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by kingchris30(m): 6:11pm On Mar 14, 2018
i wanted to comment but I realised there is nothing to comment, the OP is confused

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by Toluwaase(m): 6:12pm On Mar 14, 2018
Pure idleness. You still cannot prove the ladies were forced into marriage. You think it is not good, methink it is a testimony. There was a time people like you that were mocking deeper life members that they always get married late, now you think it is too early. I think the op need to keep his distructive criticism. Marriage is for young people. There are 30year old that are less matured for marriage.

May God bless Deeper Life.

By the way, I don't attend Deeper Life.

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by joshing(m): 6:12pm On Mar 14, 2018
If them reach 30 and them never marry, you'll call them unfulfilled women. What do you guys want Na??

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by prinsam30: 6:12pm On Mar 14, 2018
OP Na wetin concern u Na, Na ur marriage, so somebody can not marry in peace again abi


Oyin-ara
Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by xynerise: 6:13pm On Mar 14, 2018
22-25 is ideal.

So until they reach 30 when you will laugh at them abi?

Swerve abeg

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by AngelicBeing: 6:13pm On Mar 14, 2018
Who cares, next news jare tongue

Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:14pm On Mar 14, 2018
Nawa for some people. Op,did they ask u or any of ur sisters not to get married?

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by Nobody: 6:15pm On Mar 14, 2018
sinaj:
22yrs is too young for u? Btw izit ur business

Sombori shud epp me with dat e concern u meme sad
Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by emperormossad(m): 6:16pm On Mar 14, 2018
After reading this long epistle, I can conclude that OP tried to woo a DL girl but was taken aback when he realized she's engaged/ about to marry. OP lemme help you, go to primary schools, you'll see young DL girls to 'tutor'.
If you like write a longer epistle, it won't change the recent trend.

Engage your brain before you put your mouth into gear.

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by tolani4real: 6:16pm On Mar 14, 2018
RighteousI:
After viewing wedding photos​ of so called modest deeper life girls I was surprised to discover that these girls that are getting married are literally babies, they are 22, 23,24&25 years old, you can still see their baby faces. What is pressuring these girls to get married too early, I don't know. Are they marrying too early because they want to avoid fornicating? Are they marrying too early because they don't want to be like that 38 years old single woman who let all the good guys go whilst she was young?

Instead of giving their true Adam time to find them they rush and get married to male demons who approcah them as an angel. I will advise these modest girls to realise that they are still babies at 22,23,24&25. They should realize that marriage is not a joking matter, they should realize that once you marry someone you are committing ±50 years of your life, they should realize that they are targets of male agents of Satan that want to marry them, they should not rush into marriage just because they are burning and don't want to commit fornication, they should realize that the 38 year old Christian single woman is blessed and better off than the 23 year old Christian woman who married early to a male demon.

Give your true Adam time to find you, don't let male demons poach you out at an early age. Let's say you leave uni at 23, I suggest you research at least 5 years before getting married, research the kind of world you live in and those that inhabit it, come online to research, don't base your marital selection on the advice of anyone, not even on the advice of the elderly Christian women in your church​, not even on the advice of your pastor, mother, sister, brother or father, for all these people I mentioned may yet be agents of Satan who are setting you up to marry a male demon.

also, don't be confident in your gentleness and reclusion, don't believe that just because you are a good girl, the world will automatically reward you with a good man, in most cases what you will get is a male demon that pretends to be a modest Christian therefore and just like Paul advised, singleness with celibacy is your best option, but if you desire to get married and have children, then rushing to get married too early may not necessarily be the way, you need to be bold, aggressive and not reclusive, you need to use any means necessary to expose yourself to as many single "Adams" as you can, note that such true Adams and even Eve's are statistically rare in the population, you need to have done years of research to know​ the type of world you live in, the evil beings that inhabit it and how to prevent yourself from marrying a false Christian man.

also, deceivers will advise you to pray for a husband, that's like advising an unemployed woman to pray for a job and telling her not to physically go from office to office to drop her CV. my advise to you is this, if you want a true Adam as a husband, you have to come out and fight for it, if you are confident in your reclusion and gentleness, if you lack aggression, if you are ignorant of the evil that inhabit the earth due to your lack of research then you be easily be poached by the false Christian man for marriage.

note that the Christian woman has a higher risk of marrying a false Christian than the male Christian, why? because it's easier for a male demon to walk up to a Christian woman to court her than for a female demon to walk up to a Christian man to court him. I'm very sure that most of these true Christian girls will be surprised with the speed with which they got a man that wants to marry them, yes male demons will approach you at your early because they don't want the true Christian man to find you first.

note that there is no Christian attribute that a false Christian man or woman cannot imitate in order to deceive you into marriage this literally means there's no way you can tell who is a true Christian man and who is not. a man who appears modest, prays with you and who even preaches about hell may yet be a false Christian man. can you now see there's no way of telling who is who? but yet there are ways, you need to come specifically online more to research, there are some information you will not be given in your church, such information are only available online.


To conclude, singleness with celibacy is the safest, but if you want marriage then you need not reclusion and gentleness but maturity, years of research, boldness and aggression.








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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by prinsam30: 6:17pm On Mar 14, 2018
RighteousI:


yes they are getting married too early, they are literally babies. if not for privacy reasons I will post some pics here as an example. what does a 23 year old know about marriage? what does she know about the evils on earth? what does she know about the dangers she faces in regards to selecting a husband?

so how come if you go to most deeper life churches apart from campus branches, it's rare to find girls age 23 to 30?
go to any branch of deeper life and you will see that most the female there are either teenage female students or women in their 40s, 50s and 60s.

girls of 23 to 30 aren't much there because they have been poached out by men I'm not totally sure are true Christians whilst they are in University.

yes some of them marry when they are mature but they are a minority.



u be didirin aswear...... my wonderful father marry my mama wen she was just 18yrs and today they are celebrating their 50yrs of marriage..... u think say Na moimoi... ode

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by Yankee101: 6:17pm On Mar 14, 2018
22 to 25 ladies too young to marry?

Are you for real?

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by Gboom: 6:17pm On Mar 14, 2018
@OP, are you married? If yes @ what age as a woman? If not, you are not in a position to criticize those ladies because you called early may be their wish to do so. Age has nothing to do with maturity especially when you have been educated.

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by glogirlie(f): 6:20pm On Mar 14, 2018
people get problem for head o, wen they wia getting married at d age of 40yrs people like u wia complaining now dey are getting married at early 20s same u dey complain. this life u can satisfy human beings

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by cooltola(m): 6:20pm On Mar 14, 2018
No one is perfect, no one knows tomorrow.Some people will get marry at age 18 some will marry at age 68, that is just life. Some will marry early and divorce early or late, some will marry very late and never get divorce. Life can really show and teach one a lesson .No one knows tomorrow, let us pray and hope for the best.

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by oomngsvr: 6:21pm On Mar 14, 2018
What kind of rubbish epistle is this OP writing sef. In the 60s/70s when it was a norm for 9ja women to get married at 16yrs didnt we have demons then? Ironically, those marriages seemingly fared better than marriages of today when most girls get married from 24-30yrs.

My advise to girls usually are:
i) Get some level of tertiary education or vocational training before getting married so you are not totally financially dependent on their spouses

ii) If you are going to wait till you're 30 before getting serious about marriage, remember that men usually have their eyes on the next generation of marriageable girls, usually 22-26. Be ready for competition.

Oga OP, you should really be commending the chastity of these deeper life girls instead of painting them in bad light.

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by Toks2008(m): 6:21pm On Mar 14, 2018
Neochemist:
Who moved this gibberish to front page?

What's the meaning of knowledge of evil on Earth. After Eve ate apple you think anyone is ignorant of the myriads of evil on earth. Even kids know the world is evil

Honestly you spike my mind. It can't be the work of lalasticlala cos the post is dead on arrival.

So you want them to waste their young age jumping from man to man gosh!
Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by ShilohEagle(m): 6:23pm On Mar 14, 2018
This op just dey vex me sha.

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by Berliner1: 6:24pm On Mar 14, 2018
RighteousI:


it's a just like a political campaign, I have campaigned for Christ and you have campaigned for Satan. it's up to the girls to decide who to believe.

if they believe you, then they have a 100% chance of marrying a male demon. but if they believe me, then that 100% chance of marrying a male demon will at least be reduced.

Frustrated old woman....no wonder u are still God for husband.
Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:27pm On Mar 14, 2018
prinsam30:




u be didirin aswear...... my wonderful father marry my mama wen she was just 18yrs and today they are celebrating their 50yrs of marriage..... u think say Na moimoi... ode

Lol. Proper didirin. grin grin grin

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:27pm On Mar 14, 2018
Yankee101:
22 to 25 ladies too young to marry?

Are you for real?

He's a confused fellow.
Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by Memories12411: 6:28pm On Mar 14, 2018
You called 22-25 year old babies. I wonder which planet you come from. There are people who are better than your parents in their 20s. Stay there and be calling yourself RIGHTEOUS when you don't know the definition of BABIES. Useless post of the year award awaits you.

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by zolajpower: 6:28pm On Mar 14, 2018
sinaj:
22yrs is too young for u? Btw izit ur business

Sombori shud epp me with dat e concern u meme sad

Due to the hardship buhari has brought upon Nigerian s ,there was a scarcuty of the meme. Please kindly manage this meme, with low budget .
Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by Nobody: 6:28pm On Mar 14, 2018
Rubbish...who pushed this to FP?
Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:30pm On Mar 14, 2018
Toks2008:


Honestly you spike my mind. It can't be the work of lalasticlala cos the post is dead on arrival.

So you want them to waste their young age jumping from man to man gosh!

I sincerely sincerely thought the whole post was a joke. He was just writing total nonsense with so much confidence. undecided
Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:30pm On Mar 14, 2018
Berliner1:


Frustrated old woman....no wonder u are still God for husband.


Lmao. cheesy cheesy
Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:31pm On Mar 14, 2018
Memories12411:
You called 22-25 year old babies. I wonder which planet you come from. There are people who are better than your parents in their 20s. Stay there and be calling yourself RIGHTEOUS when you don't know the definition of BABIES. Useless post of the year award awaits you.


Very useless post. OP must be high on stress.

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Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by damilton(m): 6:31pm On Mar 14, 2018
I think this person mumu plenty. whats wrong if they married at 22, 23, 24, 25. so they should wait till menopause stage before getting married and no longer attractive. in the olden days when things were still good before people carry religions and doctrines for head, at what age do they get married. they get married around that age. so face what concerns you and stop creating irrelevant topic on nairaland
Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by MrCuteking(m): 6:32pm On Mar 14, 2018
Is the first picture a wedding? shocked
Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by Oluwambo147(m): 6:33pm On Mar 14, 2018
I swear dis op na mad man you write this rubbish down because of a graduate that get married at 23 cos I'm damm sure if you ain't a graduate you can't get the approval of d church marriage committee
Re: Deeper Life Girls, You Are Getting Married Too Early! by kpaofame: 6:35pm On Mar 14, 2018
Ewoo.... 23 years is too young now because most of you dont set priority right early in life...



Check the people who did well in various fields in the 70's and 80's and see how old they were when they married.

The idleness of this one is quite disturbing...so instead of putting your mind to a productive use...it to collate age of a particular group getting married when they are above statutory age in all spheres of life...

Femi Song....I sorry sorry comes to mind

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