Its 3 months to my wedding and I haven't been more scared about my relationship until recently.

I have dated my Fiancee Juddy for 2 years now before we both agreed to take the relationship to the next level. Everything has been going on smoothly until we commenced our marriage preparations. It has been one argument after the other. I feel like I'm not allowed to air my opinion or views on issues bothering on our marriage plans. For instance, I told her disbursement of funds for some statutory payments like cloths, etc will commence by the end of the month as I don't want payments done haphazardly and she agreed. All of a sudden she is telling me about this payment that should be made immediately or else, and these are payments that can wait. Whenever I make my opinion known strongly, I'm always taken out of context or my statement twisted upside down and met with cold shoulder. The worst is the emotional blackmail that follows. This I can't just stand because I sincerely luv this girl.

This is really giving me course for concern. Guys who are already married, did u pass through this kind of poo. Guys planning to, how will you handle such? Let's share our experiences pls if any as I'm already thinking towards the extreme. Hall has already been secured.

A broken relationship bla bla bla...

Emmytrill:
Its 3 months to my wedding and I haven't been more scared about my relationship until recently.

I have dated my Fiancee Juddy for 2 years now before we both agreed to take the relationship to the next level. Everything has been going on smoothly until we commenced our marriage preparations. It has been one argument after the other. I feel like I'm not allowed to air my opinion or views on issues bothering on our marriage plans. For instance, I told her disbursement of funds for some statutory payments like cloths, etc will commence by the end of the month as I don't want payments done haphazardly and she agreed. All of a sudden she is telling me about this payment that should be made immediately or else, and these are payments that can wait. Whenever I make my opinion known strongly, I'm always taken out of context or my statement twisted upside down and met with cold shoulder. The worst is the emotional blackmail that follows. This I can't just stand because I sincerely luv this girl.

This is really giving me course for concern. Guys who are already married, did u pass through this kind of poo. Guys planning to, how will you handle such? Let's share our experiences pls if any as I'm already thinking towards the extreme. Hall has already been secured.

and you shared this story sometimes ago...

congrats bro.... the truth is disagreements and quarrel are inevitable in a relationship but we must brace ourselves up to manage them...and move on