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My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by Demzlent(m): 9:36am On Mar 25, 2018 |
Please I need a good advice from my Christian brothers and sisters I and my wife are attending a big Church which she loves a lot,she is even the one that made me to be attending the Church. I have a calling which I'm sure of Then late last year a fellow Christian who is a minister of God called me that we should start a ministry together, I agreed and we started working on. The ministry is starting today and my wife is insisting that I should not go that if I go she will divorce me. She even called the man we are to start the ministry together and threatened him Please what should I do? Help me. Should I go ahead? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by frank317: 9:45am On Mar 25, 2018 |
what is the meaning of u have a calling? become a pastor in the church u are attending? must u start your own church? we already have enough church business with nothin to show for it. what effect will a new church have for Nigeria? why is God calling everybody yet no significant effect on the life of the people? your wife knows u are fake and does not want u to join the league of scammers we already have in nigeria 267 Likes 26 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by gabinogem(m): 9:52am On Mar 25, 2018 |
frank317:lol...quite frankly. 67 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by Nutase: 10:12am On Mar 25, 2018 |
How did you receive your calling? If indeed you have a calling did you inform your wife during courtship? We need to be careful the way we jump into starting churches because many will answer for it on the last day. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by Demzlent(m): 10:34am On Mar 25, 2018 |
Nutase: Yes I informed her,my parents are even aware. They are giving their moral and even material support for my ministry, the building we want to use is even given to me by my dad One thing I noticed about my wife is that she loves our present Church so much 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by 1stSonOfLucifer(m): 10:41am On Mar 25, 2018 |
Nutase: The wife is an enemy of progress. She doesn't want her husband to exploit gullible fellas. On which last day ![]() 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by 1stSonOfLucifer(m): 10:43am On Mar 25, 2018 |
Demzlent:We know you're a thief and I rightly endorse that since most people are so unintelligent to think. Anyways, I know you wanna be counted among the league of men of god who own numerous private jets in their hanger. May your plans be achieved in Satan's name. Amen 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by lasisi69(f): 1:25pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Which calling ![]() ![]() 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by MANNABBQGRILLS: 1:25pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Make Leah Shuaibu an inspiration.
Don't deny Christ!! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by Nobody: 1:25pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Linger not, yeye! ![]()
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by bjayx: 1:26pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Discontinue till Ur wife accepts. A word is enough for the wise. For the gullible ones... 23 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by veacea: 1:26pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by AntiWailer: 1:26pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
How ? She does not want u to hide ur laziness under calling ? Can i know what u do for a living ? Do u earn enough to take care of ur family before u saw the miss calls ? Some one telling u to join him in starting a ministry does not endorse the fact that God called u. Demzlent: They are investing. And the smart pastor knew u can pull the resources. That is why he targetted you. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by Nobody: 1:26pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by realmindz: 1:27pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
she's evil, kill her Deuteronomy 13 vs 6 10 If your very own brother, or your son or daughter, or the wife you love, or your closest friend secretly entices you, saying, “Let us go and worship other gods” (gods that neither you nor your ancestors have known, gods of the peoples around you, whether near or far, from one end of the land to the other), do not yield to them or listen to them. Show them no pity. Do not spare them or shield them. You must certainly put them to death. Your hand must be the first in putting them to death, and then the hands of all the people. Stone them to death, because they tried to turn you away from the LORD your God, 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by danduj(m): 1:27pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
You sure say na God call you or you just looking to make some cash? 19 Likes
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by dgr8truth(m): 1:27pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by King00: 1:27pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
maybe she know something you are not saying, you never can tell 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by Learnstuffs: 1:27pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
I was born and raised in a Christian family. I don't even believe anything anymore. How can God be calling different people everytime to start different ministries? Is our God a God of confusion? Is God diversifying our belief system rather than unity of purpose? These scammers won't just stop!! 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by kikiwendy(f): 1:28pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Listen to your wife.. I agree with the FTC.. We have so many churches and ministry but problems keep getting cumbersome 18 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by Alexk2(m): 1:29pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Why are you here asking nairalanders that is full is atheists and semi-atheist who are bench warmers in churches. How many people here do you think really understand or believe in been "called" to ministry by God? I dont doubt people when they say they're called just like you're claiming but I'll always ask if they're very sure the call is indeed from God and to do what? For example, God can call you into ministry right in that same church that you're together with your wife and He can call you for a specific purpose that has nothing to do with you leaving your church in any way....at the same time the call can also be to separate yourself for a different ministry-"called out"...so the question is are you sure He called you and if He did called you, He'll never leave you confused, He'll give the direction to go. As for your wife, tell the God who call you or rather report her to God who called you. God cannot call you and not make provision for her; He know how to perfect it....meanwhile, note that divorce can never be His solution. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by linearity: 1:29pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Follow your heart. If you believe you have a calling go for it...it is better you offend humans than to disobey God. That aside, whenever someone threatens you that, they will disobey God, if you don’t yield to their demand, know that, that threat is of the devil and you must not yield to their demand. Based on your narratives, your wife is a Christian and she definitely will know that, divorce is not of God and God commanded that, what He has joined together, let no one put asunder. Now, for her to then start using divorce as a threat, is definitely out of line and of the devil and you should not do what she is asking of you. If she does not want you to go into ministry, there many godly ways to persuade you and not by threatening to disobey God by abandoning her home. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by wisestman(m): 1:29pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Brb |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by Nobody: 1:30pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by Rubbiish(m): 1:30pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
U have a calling & God allowed u to marry such a woman?? I doubt... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by stefanweeks: 1:30pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Calling ko Email ni 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by ZombieTAMER: 1:31pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Your wife truly loves you and cares about your soul... She doesn't want you to be a scam artist Using religion to dupe the people I know you must be an Afonja Just like oyedepo and Adeboye You can start the ministry from your tribe Where There are lots of Muslims Preach to them first 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by chloride6: 1:31pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Demzlent: Why doesn't your wife want to be in a private jet? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by BennyDGreat: 1:32pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
If you have not got solid proofs from God to start a ministry, discontinue talks with the other man. Also, it's not adviceable to start something without support from your spouse. You guyz are one and such a delicate decision must be jointly made. You must talk to her and ask her why she doesn't want to support your 'call'. Get advice from elders. Your home is important to God. Shalom! |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by Rubbiish(m): 1:32pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
kikiwendy:Shut up if u got nothing reasonable say... Carry face like fowl... 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Start My Ministry by Audray(f): 1:33pm On Mar 25, 2018 |
Go do something better with your life and forget that religious scam "calling" you claim you heard. Nigeria more than enough churches to suck it's citizens pockets dry. 9 Likes 1 Share |
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