Dear Jzhane,

My name is Pricilia(not real name). I am a mother of three children and I am currently pregnant with my fourth child. I am very unhappy in my marriage at this time and I need your help and advice.

Ever since I got married to my husband,I have been noticing several behaviors that I dont like. We have been married for five years now. I met my husband as a virgin. We are not doing very well financially because my husband is a Driver and the pay is very poor. He was also doing his part time degree course. So all the money I made from my petty trading went into providing for the family and assisting my husband with his schooling. I did not plan to have a fourth child but I guess mistakes happen. I almost aborted this pregnancy when I found out. This is because,we can hardly even feed ourselves at the moment not to talk of having another extra mouth to feed.

With all these challenges,my pain is that my husband is always flirting with women. Women from his part time schooling and some of his passengers as a Taxi Driver. Many times I see text messages that his female friends send to him. When I confront him,he just starts shouting at me. One time,I reported him to my pastor in church and when we got home,he....Read full story from.


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The earlier we women start seeing men as dognus better for us because all men cheat I repeat all men bend yansh

agbonkamen:
The earlier we women start seeing men as dognus better for us because all men cheat I repeat all men bend yansh

so your father and brothers are all dogs abi

-You met your husband as a virgin.
-The money you made from your petty trading went into providing for the family and assisting your husband with his schooling, while he's busy chasing women.
-You are pregnant and he had to beat you up with your pregnancy after complaining to your pastor.
-He brought his sister to come join you guys in a room.
-You complained to his sister and she threatened to send you back to your parents if you complain again.
-Her sister once locked you outside and you slept with your seven months pregnancy.
-Her sister said you are the reason why his brother ain't prospering.

The only woman that can tolerate this nonsense from a stupid man and sister is a woman that got pregnant for a man and the man was forced to marry her

Like......What nonsense!!
Don't you have sense?, do you really think such family will care if you die of high blood pressure?, do you think that man loves you?

Keep showing your desperation for marriage, don't go and make yourself happy by leaving such marital prison and suffering.

No one is irreplaceable, leave there for him to marry his sister and cater for the family

It might be a sign to show that they don't need you.

Some women amazes me by seeing marriage is an achievement, despite being malltreated

agbonkamen:
The earlier we women start seeing men as dognus better for us because all men cheat I repeat all men bend yansh

If most women look like you do, then men get a free pass to cheat

marvin906:



so your father and brothers are all dogs abi

mumu there is different between "I was there" and" I shall be there"

Yes...all men cheats. But what is the business of the husbands' sister in this mara?

agbonkamen:
mumu there is different between "I was there" and" I shall be there"

i wanted to say something
buh looking at your pics no need adding to your misery
hahahahahahahah

UDUJ:


If most women look like you do, then men get a free pass to cheat

#i just died

marvin906:



i wanted to say something
buh looking at your pics no need to adding to your misery
hahahahahahahah

guys are savage lately. lool

ubunja:
guys are savage lately. lool

my guy i talk truth na
if i tell that chick word
only she go carry rope hang herself..

marvin906:



i wanted to say something
buh looking at your pics no need adding to your misery
hahahahahahahah

you have got nothing to say or type

Point of correction , not all men cheat. You may most men cheat. Infact cheating is vice versa . Meaning , women too cheat.

bjayx:
Yes...all men cheats. But what is the business of the husbands' sister in this mara?

agbonkamen:
you have got nothing to say or type

i have buh looking at your face
telling you anything
would be a crime on humanity
i reserve my comment

marvin906:



i have buh looking at your face
telling you anything
would be a crime on humanity
i reserve my comment

why wasting my time on jobless person like you... Hisssed

marvin906:





my guy i talk truth na
if i tell that chick word
only she go carry rope hang herself..

shut up ordinary dust like you will make me hang myself you must be typing under the influence of joblessness

agbonkamen:
why wasting my time on jobless person like you... Hisssed

cause you crave attention thats why

agbonkamen:
shut up ordinary dust like you will make me hang myself you must be typing under the influence of joblessness

ok ma
i hear you

No, not all men cheat. Because a large number do doesn't make all men cheaters

bjayx:
Yes...all men cheats. But what is the business of the husbands' sister in this mara?

Beke2020:
As I spoke with her last Wednesday, it was obvious the sis in law came for a mission. As she was boasting sending the wife of her other broda away in Kogi state and that she is hear to do same

Pray woman... There's nothing God cannot do

What’s wrong with some women? Finances are not stable , unhappy in the marriage but somehow the children keep coming. How can you expect your life to improve when you personally keep adding to those woes?

MissRaine69:
What’s wrong with some women? Finances are not stable , unhappy in the marriage but somehow the children keep coming. How can you expect your life to improve when you personally keep adding to those woes?

It a matter of vision

Seriously ,it's very annoying. Upon the abuse. Upon the poverty ,they are still conceiving. It's hilarious and a threat to the soceity .

MissRaine69:
What’s wrong with some women? Finances are not stable , unhappy in the marriage but somehow the children keep coming. How can you expect your life to improve when you personally keep adding to those woes?

What does your husband's sister have to do with this?

Don't understand when ppl are living far below the poverty line dat na d time dem go dey born plenty pickin.Sister u just kill urself with high blood pressure. Better start thinking how u going to separate frm dat man.

It's so amazing, a cleaner earning N20k go dey born like rabbit

lefulefu:
Don't understand when ppl are living far below the poverty line dat na d time dem go dey born plenty pickin.Sister u just kill urself with high blood pressure. Better start thinking how u going to separate frm dat man.

Beke2020:
It's so amazing, a cleaner earning N20k go dey born like rabbit

its mostly the very low income earners dat give birth to a large number of children

lefulefu:
its mostly the very low income earners dat give birth to a large number of children

. You are right Lefu,and one of the reason is due to the fact they are always sleeping together on same bed in a room apartment, so the tendency for every night fucking is very high.

JONNYSPUTE:
. You are right Lefu,and one of the reason is due to the fact they are always sleeping together on same bed in a room apartment, so the tendency for every night fucking is very high.

u talking of night kpanshing..... Wat of d morning and afternoon kpanshing and everything na inside their single room .and dem no go put any family planning procedure in place.Adding more burden to d society.

lefulefu:
u talking of night kpanshing..... Wat of d morning and afternoon kpanshing and everything na inside their single room .and dem no go put any family planning procedure in place.Adding more burden to d society.

. Hahahahah.You are very funny I. The person weey dey do afternoon kpanshing no dey go work? But you are right most of them no send anybody.

JONNYSPUTE:
. Hahahahah.You are very funny I. The person weey dey do afternoon kpanshing no dey go work? But you are right most of them no send anybody.

They actually no get reasonable work. That's y they are below the poverty line. Even the petty trading will be done just outside the house.

BossLaifay:
They actually no get reasonable work. That's y they are below the poverty line. Even the petty trading will be done just outside the house.

. I concur.