I am in love with this guy because he have all I want in a man and would love to marry him. But the problem is that he isn't educated.

I have tried to brush aside that but my parents especially my mum said no way.

I don't know whether to call it quit with him or go against my parents wish.

He is a really nice guy though. I just don't know what to do anymore in this situation! I am just 22 and he is 30,Pls help?

source:relationshipmatters on fb.

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Na your mama dey marry abi nah you?

We know you love him for the money .. Kwatinue

What do you mean by he is not educated? What level of education meets your requirements?

Anyway, it's rare to find a complete package. If you love him the way you claim you do, you can encourage him to go to "night school". It's never too late for education.
A man sat down & wrote his matric exams in his 70s, he passed. When there's a will, there's a way.

Yaje yayi yaki da jahilci. (In kin gane damuwanki in ba ki ganeba ma damuwanki).

Love conquers all

Your mom said no way?

When you are ready to tell us that the guy is as broke as emergencycase, hence your mother's refusal, then we'd advice you appropriately


Uneducated my foot!! Like your poppa was educated

Iranu!!!!

my sister you no love am make I hear something ur still a learner believe me

By not being educated, do you mean that he has no degree/certification from an educational establishment?

BrideOfDracula:
What do you mean by he is not educated? What level of education meets your requirements?

Anyway, it's rare to find a complete package. If you love him the way you claim you do, you can encourage him to go to "night school". It's never too late for education.
A man sat down & wrote his matric exams in his 70s, he passed. When there's a will, there's a way.

If he works in the day and go to school at night, of what purpose will that be in his life if his present job (likely a business owner) is giving him the satisfaction that those with Master's degree don't have

predmine20:
I am in love with this guy because he have all I want in a man and would love to marry him. But the problem is that he isn't educated.

I have tried to brush aside that but my parents especially my mum said no way.

I don't know whether to call it quit with him or go against my parents wish.

He is a really nice guy though. I just don't know what to do anymore in this situation! I am just 22 and he is 30,Pls help?

source:relationshipmatters on fb.

Define not educated.
Since when is education a demarcation of success? How many people have half a dozen Masters degrees and have amounted to nothing?

Not everyone is academically inclined. If he has other ways ( legal) ways of earning a living why not?

22-30. Don't even bother thinking on marriage with him. Not abt age difference o, the gap of wisdom and understanding is large. You still need to learn in life.

I can't date an uneducated person, moreorless marry him!! But since u hv started it n u love him do as u please

don4real18:

If he works in the day and go to school at night, of what purpose will that be in his life if his present job (likely a business owner) is giving him the satisfaction that those with Master's degree don't have

As a backup plan. Having a business doesn't mean it won't go under because of unforseen events. Life is unpredictable.

Shugavee:
I can't date an uneducated person, moreorless marry him!! But since u hv started it n u love him do as u please

I always view people who write like this as uneducated. God forbid that I should marry people like that. Very disgusting way of writing.

BluntBoy:


I always view people who write like this as uneducated. God forbid that I should marry people like that. Very disgusting way of writing.

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Shugavee:
alright!!

OK. You are welcome.

BrideOfDracula:


As a backup plan. Having a business doesn't mean it won't go under because of unforseen events. Life is unpredictable.

True talk

MissRaine69:

Define not educated.
Since when is education a demarcation of success? How many people have half a dozen Masters degrees and have amounted to nothing?

Not everyone is academically inclined. If he has other ways ( legal) ways of earning a living why not?

You re absolutely right,not everyone is educationally wise.

Shugavee:
I can't date an uneducated person, moreorless marry him!! But since u hv started it n u love him do as u please

If mark zuckerberg or dangote's son or better still buhari's son propose to you today won't you agree? Life is strange you never can tell.

whats your definition of uneducated
if your meaning of uneducated is him not attending uni
i swear you nor get sense

predmine20:
If mark zuckerberg or dangote's son or better still buhari's son propose to you today won't you agree? Life is strange you never can tell.

And is there any chance that the children of those men you mention above being uneducated?

predmine20:
I am in love with this guy because he have all I want in a man and would love to marry him. But the problem is that he isn't educated.

I have tried to brush aside that but my parents especially my mum said no way.

I don't know whether to call it quit with him or go against my parents wish.

He is a really nice guy though. I just don't know what to do anymore in this situation! I am just 22 and he is 30,Pls help?

source:relationshipmatters on fb.

Can u pls explain the uneducated part? Does he have any means of living? What’s his personality all about? With the way you guys talk, can u tell whether he truly has plans for a better future?? Let’s start with this questions first. Ethnicity matters too.

BrideOfDracula:


As a backup plan. Having a business doesn't mean it won't go under because of unforseen events. Life is unpredictable.

Well, instead of going to school (the Nigerian school system is wack anyway), he could just make investments to diversify his means of income

AuntyAmope:

Can u pls explain the uneducated part? Does he have any means of living? What’s his personality all about? With the way you guys talk, can u tell whether he truly has plans for a better future?? Let’s start with this questions first. Ethnicity matters too.

The lady don't love the man because if she does i don't think his educational background should be an issue in their relationship. Ethnicity doesn't matter,if she love him even if he is fulani and she is ijebu that shouldn't be a barrier in their romance.

Imapearl:
my sister
you no love am
make I hear something
ur still a learner
believe me

True,the girl no love am,if she loves him as she claims then his educational numenclature shouldn't be an issue.mama or no mama say no reach am.

What if it was the other way round, do you want me to believe that your parents will also insist you marry an 'illiterate'?

If you know he's got all you need in a man, and you love him... Then go ahead, your parents aren't the one to live in your home with your 'educated' husband...

The heart wants what it wants though, I believe you've already made up your mind on what you want sha...



My 2cents

predmine20:
I am in love with this guy because he have all I want in a man and would love to marry him. But the problem is that he isn't educated.

I have tried to brush aside that but my parents especially my mum said no way.

I don't know whether to call it quit with him or go against my parents wish.

He is a really nice guy though. I just don't know what to do anymore in this situation! I am just 22 and he is 30,Pls help?

source:relationshipmatters on fb.

don4real18:

If he works in the day and go to school at night, of what purpose will that be in his life if his present job (likely a business owner) is giving him the satisfaction that those with Master's degree don't have

I don't quite agree with you on this,education is a sine qua non,a pre-requisite before you can achieve.
My dear never you compare an educated master degree holder with an uneducated bus driver though i am not making reference to this post.
Let's call a spade a spade,you are been economical with the truth.

predmine20:
The lady don't love the man because if she does i don't think his educational background should be an issue in their relationship. Ethnicity doesn't matter,if she love him even if he is fulani and she is ijebu that shouldn't be a barrier in their romance.

Fulani don suffer for una hand Actually my comment was a bait, I thought I knew d girl