wurabecca:


Babymamaing is a taboo Here in Nigeria

But, really... I want to have the child now, before I clock 45 the child will be getting close to 20....

That's Blissful;!!!


Buh Nigeria... Smh

wurabecca:


Babymamaing is a taboo Here in Nigeria

But, really... I want to have the child now, before I clock 45 the child will be getting close to 20....

That's Blissful;!!!


Buh Nigeria... Smh

wurabecca:


Babymamaing is a taboo Here in Nigeria

But, really... I want to have the child now, before I clock 45 the child will be getting close to 20....

That's Blissful;!!!


Buh Nigeria... Smh

wurabecca:


Babymamaing is a taboo Here in Nigeria

But, really... I want to have the child now, before I clock 45 the child will be getting close to 20....

That's Blissful;!!!


Buh Nigeria... Smh

wurabecca:


Babymamaing is a taboo Here in Nigeria

But, really... I want to have the child now, before I clock 45 the child will be getting close to 20....

That's Blissful;!!!


Buh Nigeria... Smh

CAPSLOCKED:




WHO SAYS IT'S COMPULSORY FOR YOU TO HAVE A CHILD?

WHO SAYS GETTING MARRIED AT A YOUNG AGE WITH NO ACHIEVEMENTS IS BETTER THAN GETTING ACHIEVEMENTS AT A YOUNG AGE?


IF YOU'RE VERY INTERESTED IN GETTING MARRIED AND HAVING A CHILD AT A YOUNG AGE, BUT YOU'RE STILL WAITING FOR MR. RIGHT TO COME AND MARRY YOU, THEN YOU'RE NOT SERIOUS.

GO AND PAY HIS GROOM PRICE, AND MARRY HIM.

ubunja:

listen to yourself attacking a young girl for her opinion. get over yourself boss. not everyone wanna marry at 35 like the fossils you love.
many guys like me will never marry any grandma above 22. get that through your head you ancestor loving you.

Neurotika:


He made sense. You on the other hand, didn't. He was in support of men marrying anytime they feel comfortable. In which case they can decide any age among ladies to pick. Whether 22 or not.

Ibos do it a lot which explains why they raise a better family system than other tribes with early marriage or polygamous beliefs. For the records I'm not ibo but I admire that about them.

There is too much ado about meaningless conventions, even people expected to be civilized gets smeared in such universal trivialities.

Neurotika:


He made sense. You on the other hand, didn't. He was in support of men marrying anytime they feel comfortable. In which case they can decide any age among ladies to pick. Whether 22 or not..

ubunja:

listen to yourself attacking a young girl for her opinion. get over yourself boss. not everyone wanna marry at 35 like the fossils you love.
many guys like me will never marry any grandma above 22. get that through your head you ancestor loving you.

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I DON'T KNOW WHETHER TO LAUGH OR CRY FOR THE LIVING PEOPLE YOU JUST CALLED FOSSILS.

ubunja:

its your choice. either way no way am i marrying an old hag. what will my daughter feed on? powder milk from those wrinkled saggy boobs??

Neurotika:


He made sense. You on the other hand, didn't. He was in support of men marrying anytime they feel comfortable. In which case they can decide any age among ladies to pick. Whether 22 or not.

Ibos do it a lot which explains why they raise a better family system than other tribes with early marriage or polygamous beliefs. For the records I'm not ibo but I admire that about them.

There is too much ado about meaningless conventions, even people expected to be civilized gets smeared in such universal trivialities.

ubunja:

its your choice. either way no way am i marrying an old hag. what will my daughter feed on? powder milk from those wrinkled saggy boobs??

motherfucker:
Nigerians like to carry this marriage shiit for head. Many of them don't even have proper plans for the children when they start birthing them.

Tyler Perry didn't marry till he was 45 with millions in the bank. My half brother who grew up in the US, a medical doctor per excellence should be around that age and he is not married. No, he is not broke either.

But what do we have here in Nigeria? From what I see in Nigeria, over 50% of the population have no business getting married or having kids because they are part of the problem plaguing the country by birthing children they can't take care of.

I have no forking business birthing more than 2 kids, irrespective of the gender.

motherfucker:
Nigerians like to carry this marriage shiit for head. Many of them don't even have proper plans for the children when they start birthing them.

But what do we have here in Nigeria? From what I see in Nigeria, over 50% of the population have no business getting married or having kids because they are part of the problem plaguing the country by birthing children they can't take care of.

I have no forking business birthing more than 2 kids, irrespective of the gender.

SoapQueen:



Dear, if you don't want to get married, please don't. Bad marriages are like plane crashes, we only hear about the ones that crashed. Do you know the number of airplanes that fly every minute?


George Clooney also had a bet that he wouldn't get married, I can swear that he is having the time of his life with his wife and babies.


The US citizens, you are using as case studies, are their lives filled with perfectness?

Like I said, if you don't want to get married, please don't. There are some of us who might not want to get pressured into marriage but would still want to have a good husband to come home to and hear our babies scream "Mommmmmmy!"

Neurotika:


Its not even funny anymore. 198 million people and counting.... A serious government would have declared a National Emergency on birth control by now.

For the fact that you can reproduce or have some change in your bank account does not mean you have what it takes to parent a child. You might need a parent yourself.

motherfucker:


I don't mean not getting married but honestly speaking, a lot of Nigerians don't know they have a role to play in the society by raising kids that can lead a whole country!

But what do we have today? Kids who are more interested in stupid things like gossip online, celebrities, smart phone addicts that do not understand that same smart phone can liberate them out of poverty..., youth who lay their life for old politicians, Kim Kardashian wanna be and forking whatnot.

This is why I am not fit marry any girl I see... Because finding that one that is intelligent enough to see her societal role as a parent is like looking needle in hay sack.

The earlier we start raising kids to lead not just their nuclear family but a tribe and nation, which often require above average, the better for us.

It goes beyond just paying school fees. I was reading on nairaland this year how a boy didn't attend classes despite the fees being paid. When I was a kid, my friends mother always made sure he did his home work. She does enough to monitor his academic performance. That is what I am talking about.

It goes beyond forking and birthing kids. We already close to 200Million population wise. But much of the problem the Nigeria is facing today is due parental failure, it is a charity that begun at home.

Nigerians are so selfish and self centered that they get married all for the sexual excitementz love and cuddling between couples, so much that little or no room is left for making sure a child that any society can proud of is birthed and raised.

Marriage alone is not an achievement like many think.

I am looking at the big picture because I am not a small thinker.

A lot of us do not even have the financial power to feed 2 mouths, let alone feed 3. I know some persons who borrowed money just to get married. Some looking for 10k just fix one or two things for family.

All I am saying is make sure are well equipped for the journey. You have a role to play in nation building, not just family building.

Don't get in because others are doing it. Don't get in because of your fantasies, there is HUGE difference between dreaming and reality.

Good morning and have a blissful weekend.

ubunja:

its your choice. either way no way am i marrying an old hag. what will my daughter feed on? powder milk from those wrinkled saggy boobs??

CLOUT:


How tall are you and do you in or around Lagos?

motherfucker:
check her DP, she is average height lol.

SoapQueen:


Thank you! Thank you. You hit the nail on the head. I was saving to buy an iPhone when it occurred to me that I don't really need one now. I invested the cash in my soap business and continued using my not very good phone to bid for writing gigs, I just got a good laptop.

Some peeps do not know that the same internet they so love to peruse can fetch them constant source of income. I quit my 9-5 tedious job to focus on my writing. I don't regret it.

In a nutshell, I am trying to secure my future. I want my kids and husband to be proud of me.

A lot of young men and women are living in ignorance. We all need help.


Finally, I anticipate your patronage so that I can grow my soap business.

Thank you, motherfucker!