Nairalanders, i created this topic to seek opinions, please am currently dating a girl and we are both staying in enugu, i want to travel to lagos to go and stay with my bro for six months, now the thing that prompted me to ask this query is because of my friend, who travelled and came back to meet his girl pregnant, although he didnt stay up to five months.. my babe has been claiming that she loves me and wont cheat on me no matter wat, i believe her and trust her, bt i believe everyone has limits, am afraid that if i stay away for long that she might do sometin that i wont like.. please guys what are ur opinions

Story...." even your wife is not certain" don't expect too much from a lady... vice-versa.

Lol. Guy never trust a girl if you want to live long. Better enjoy yourself cause she will be doing the same in Enugu.

brainbox34:
Lol. Guy never trust a girl if you want to live long. Better enjoy yourself cause she will be doing the same in Enugu.

well, i guess the best is to watch how things goes, i just pray it works out good. tanks man

spiritedtete:
Story...." even your wife is not certain" don't expect too much from a lady... vice-versa.

abii!...

As long as you have not put a ring on her finger, or showed very serious actions about making her your wife, she owes no loyalty to you. Love is a cheap word, if you want her all to yourself, you know what to do.

She is probably asking her friend this same question right now.

Your friend travelled and came back to meet his babe pregnant.
Isn't it possible that the guy who impregnated her is someone else's boyfriend too?

Is your GF the only one with limits?
Are you infallible?

My opinion is, do whatever works for you both.
Don't go ruining things with lack of trust and paranoia.

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..You too answer urself...How possible?? trust any lady at your own peril....

men who trust women dont exist.























































































































they all died of heartbreak ages ago

AntiBrutus:
She is probably asking her friend this same question right now.

Your friend travelled and came back to meet his babe pregnant.
Isn't it possible that the guy who impregnated her is someone else's boyfriend too?

Is your GF the only one with limits?
Are you infallible?

My opinion is, do whatever works for you both.
Don't go ruining things with lack of trust and paranoia.

Tanks bro

Yes I'm a very good example

ubunja:
men who trust women dont exist.























































































































they all died of heartbreak ages ago

its soo hard to find trust in people dis days, i just feel that she will do as she told me

Preshy561:
Yes I'm a very good example

seriously, are u 4 real?

calex9496:
seriously, are u 4 real?

yes.

YEAH DATED A CHICK LIKE THAT
LOVE WAS AN UNDERSTATEMENT
SHES WAS CRAZILY IN LOVE
TOO BAD I DESTROYED HER HEART

Kenndee:
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..You too answer urself...How possible?? trust any lady at your own peril....

am a guy that loves to stick with whomever am dating, i have been viewing frm her own perspective, its so confusing, she has been truthful to me on any matter or issue and i just pray she continues to be whom i knw her to be....

Preshy561:
yes.

i guess ur guy z gona be proud of u

Flowers95:
As long as you have not put a ring on her finger, or showed very serious actions about making her your wife, she owes no loyalty to you. Love is a cheap word, if you want her all to yourself, you know what to do.

even when ring is put on the finger they still have high tendencies to cheat... I know the number of married women on my case within the last six months... Not that their husbands even travelled...

calex9496:
i guess ur guy z gona be proud of u

yes,always. thanks.

marvin906:
YEAH DATED A CHICK LIKE THAT
LOVE WAS AN UNDERSTATEMENT
SHES WAS CRAZILY IN LOVE
TOO BAD I DESTROYED HER HEART

oops... sorry, u will be with someone like her soon, and this time, never Bleep up..

SmellingAnus:
even when ring is put on the finger they still have high tendencies to cheat... I know the number of married women on my case within the last six months... Not that their husbands even travelled...

life is soo complicated

SmellingAnus:
even when ring is put on the finger they still have high tendencies to cheat... I know the number of married women on my case within the last six months... Not that their husbands even travelled...

well then at that point you have the right to be angry and cause a scene. But if she’s not married to you, you have no right.

No Its Not

Flowers95:
well then at that point you have the right to be angry and cause a scene. But if she’s not married to you, you have no right.

Neva beat up a lady, no matter wat... silence is a slow killer.

Flowers95:
well then at that point you have the right to be angry and cause a scene. But if she’s not married to you, you have no right.

truth is that I expect less from a woman... Not that it will not hurt but I am prepared for it.. no woman can take my heart by surprise... Infact I can forgive a cheating woman... Lol...

calex9496:

Neva beat up a lady, no matter wat... silence is a slow killer.

never implied that sir. My advice to you is to not put 100% trust in her. Humans are unpredictable and expectations are bound to bring disappointment. Expect the worst just in case and prepare for the storm.

calex9496:


am a guy that loves to stick with whomever am dating, i have been viewing frm her own perspective, its so confusing, she has been truthful to me on any matter or issue and i just pray she continues to be whom i knw her to be....

Well! life is a risk.... Travelling or not, it can't stop her from taking whatever actions.
You travel for 7 months and then when u return she introduces you to her new born.

SmellingAnus:
truth is that I expect less from a woman... Not that it will not hurt but I am prepared for it.. no woman can take my heart by surprise... Infact I can forgive a cheating woman... Lol...

That’s a good mindset to have. You can only trust yourself on this planet, humans are always unpredictable.

Tanks 4 ur advice guys.. i guess i will just be a man and face it... only time will tell.

calex9496:

life is soo complicated

you can say that again... I have very little expectations from a woman wether wife to be or girlfriend... Make I no die before my time... If you die, they will still fu.c.k another dic.k on the night before your burial...

Preshy561:
Yes I'm a very good example

For Your Mind

Flowers95:
That’s a good mindset to have. You can only trust yourself on this planet, humans are always unpredictable.

you have said it all dear...