RuthDaniels:
The "Men are polygamous in nature " excuse is the most annoying of all.

There is no justifiable reason to cheat on your partner, all are excuses of a weak man!

walepackage:
you wont understand that quote due to the perspective you are seeing it from.But,the bitter truth is that its an innate trait in 'man' which its rooted from also the social milieu,personality formation and biological composition of the man.Thou,it can be tamed or control.But, its few men that can control the 'polygamous tendency' in them.

RuthDaniels:
If you are referring to the ideologue :Men are moved by what they see, you may be right but then No sane Man should be controlled by what he sees.

Only a weak fellow with low self control will allow his mind wander off in the direction of what he sees.

RuthDaniels:
The "Men are polygamous in nature " excuse is the most annoying of all.

There is no justifiable reason to cheat on your partner, all are excuses of a weak man!

So weak is now the opposite of real

walepackage:
nope.I am talking about the quote of the first commenter which you countered against in your viewpoint.Inbetween,whats your own view of'weakling'

HOLYDICK:
I didn't see any reason listed above to why women cheat... Yes men cheat no debate about dat.... But 21st century women are now taking the cheat to a whole new sophisticated level now dat even the devil cant even comprehend wats going on.

lenghtinny:


So weak is now the opposite of real

Do you have a better adjective?

I would love to know

iRepNaija1:


Then do a counter thread.

RuthDaniels:
Do you have a better adjective?


I would love to know

You tell me

I noticed female folks often use those two adjectives to qualify men in conversations involving relationships but you will never see men reciprocating such gesture

So much for gender equality

RuthDaniels:
Lol...We are talking about the same thing.. You tried to explain why men are polygamous in nature and I agreed to that with the "ideologue". Men are considered to be polygamous in nature because they are moved by what they see.


A weakling is one who has no control over his/her emotions, an undisciplined one who satisfy all urges even when he shouldn't. One who can not stay faithful to one partner. Such is a weakling!

walepackage:
now i got your stand point.You are so much on point.It takes an 'emotional balance and well control' man to stay years back-to-back in marriage without cheating with his spouse/partner.But,the sad truth is that most men dont fall into this 'ideal description'in reality.Just few.Thou,so many factors come into play as to ascertain the cause of their action in their respective ways.So do you see those men as a 'deal breaker' for you when in a relationship/married.

lenghtinny:


You tell me

I noticed female folks often use those two adjectives to qualify men in conversations involving relationships but you will never see men reciprocating such gesture

So much for gender equality

You will have to wait

That's because Ladies tend to be more civil, responsible, cultured and matured than Guys even when hurt. Guys would use derogatory words like biitches, whorres etc to quality ladies that cheat. Would you have us use "Only dogs cheat"?

I have never believed Men and Women are equal, I have always believed Men are babies while Women are their Mothers. Little wonder we always have to clean up your mess and even take the fault.

RuthDaniels:
Not all men cheat.. that I know, that means some men have been able to overcome the so called polygamous nature of theirs and these men should be emulated.

Yes... A big deal breaker,the problem isn't forgiving him but trusting him again. I hardly trust, when I do, I trust deeply. Breaking that trust is like ending it all.

walepackage:
yes i agree with you"not all men cheat"but,they are just few in reality.But,i think with what you wrote above you can compromise in your viewpoint in order to stay in the relationship or marriage.

Lol...

Not all men cheat.... Compromise is not needed

RuthDaniels:
You will have to wait

That's because Ladies tend to be more civil, responsible, cultured and matured than Guys even when hurt. Guys would use derogatory words like biitches, whorres etc to quality ladies that cheat. Would you have us use "Only dogs cheat"?

I have never believed Men and Women are equal, I have always believed Men are babies while Women are their Mothers. Little wonder we always have to clean up your mess and even take the fault.

What about the" Men are scum" and " Men are dogs" movements Are they transgenders?

By the way, the head can never be the tail and the tail can never be the head. Go figure

GloriaNinja:
MAINLY, MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE, WHETHER SEX SATISFACTION OR NOT. IT'S IN THE BLOOD OF MEN ESPECIALLY NIGERIAN MEN.

lenghtinny:


What about the" Men are scum" and " Men are dogs" movements Are they transgenders?

By the way, the head can never be the tail and the tail can never be the head. Go figure

Lol

You don't see me scream that do you? Perception


If I were you, I wouldn't believe that. The world is revolving