There's one mistake I always continue to make, even though I KNOW I'm making it, and it's frustrating!
Even if things are going well, DON'T GET TOO CLOSE TO A WOMAN ON THE FIRST FEW DATES!
Leave some mystery in it. Knowing less about you will make her more intrigued, more interested in seeing you more, to learn more.
If a first date is going well, I ALWAYS end up getting really deep with a woman and telling her personal stuff about myself, and we end up knowing each other inside and out by the end of the night.
What pisses me off is I KNOW that's a mistake, but something's stopping me from doing something about it.

Case in point: I met a woman a couple weeks ago, and I closed for the phone number successfully. I think I did everything right in our first conversation and in closing for the number. I met her on a Monday and waited till Friday afternoon to call.

I was doing everything right, and her interest level was high. So I set up a date for Saturday, and that's where I begin to screw up...
She

You are right op... Some ladies love mystery. Guys must learn how to play hard to get too, Going all at once can be boring and it shows you as cheap too

Okay
Next!!!

MhizzAJ:
Okay Next!!!

Did the Op make sense?

nonsense talk,all these broke guys that can't go a day without talking about ladies.
I wonder which gender is obsessed with each other,since we have more males creating threads about their female counterparts.



don't go and hustle.

donstan18:


Did the Op make sense?

I wish i understood the epistle

Some guys are stupid sha

MhizzAJ:

I wish i understood the epistle

I didn't aswell, but I think he's tryna say that it's wrong and dangerous for a man to allow a woman be in control of him.

As a woman, do you think he made sense?

agbonkamen:
Some guys are stupid sha

the post or what?

Its a "mistake" the first time but afterwards one just purely foolish.
Be wise brother. Its not just about the girls. This trait will affect you all Round. Work on your self esteem. Don't remain a weakling.

donstan18:


I didn't aswell, but I think he's tryna say that it's wrong and dangerous for a man to allow a woman be in control of him.

As a woman, do you think he made sense?

Oh i see
It's not wrong and i don't think it's dangerous
There are ways a woman would control a man and he wouldn't know he's being controlled

I didn't read that epistle
Thanks for summarising

MhizzAJ:

Oh i see
It's not wrong and i don't think it's dangerous
There are ways a woman would control a man and he wouldn't know he's being controlled

I didn't read that epistle
Thanks for summarising

Far from the Op's point.

If I may ask, do women feel more comfortable controlling a man or being controlled by a man?

If you don't mind.

donstan18:


Far from the Op's point.

If I may ask, do women feel more comfortable controlling a man or being controlled by a man?

If you don't mind.

Why have you now decided to do a Q/A session with me this afternoon
Let's keep the thread alive anyways

I'll speak for myself
I feel more comfortable controlling a man
I feel safe that way

Girls on here be throwing tantrums here n there...


Maybe I’ve just got a big ego, but I love it when attractive women pursue me. It’s damned refreshing to sit back, relax, and enjoy the influx of feminine energy. Don’t you agree?

But yet again, u might want to ask how's that possible bro!

Its called reverse psychology....

MhizzAJ:
Why have you now decided to do a Q/A session with me this afternoon Let's keep the thread alive anyways
I'll speak for myself I feel more comfortable controlling a man I feel safe that way

Well, I see no wrong, since it's for yourself.
In total, you love and pray for weak men

Why Would You Even Allow A Woman be In Control Of You

donstan18:


Well, I see no wrong, since it's for yourself.

In total, you love and pray for weak men

It's not as if i love and pray for weak men

But i love to be in charge

MhizzAJ:

It's not as if i love and pray for weak men
But i love to be in charge

In charge of weak men

the thing wey weak me about this your post be say, you just dey generalise your foolishness.... this your opinion is not applicable to every guy na....

I first saw her on a Saturday morning, she didn't see me back lolz
fortunately I saw her again in church on Sunday morning, I approached her, we exchanged numbers.
she just visited the area, so she had to travel on Tuesday, we went on a date on Monday...
To cut the long story short, till today our love still dey grow and I'm still in control....

wait... what am I doing here sef? Wrong turn, my bad.

Oops... sorry guys. ***Leaves the lovers thread***

Preshy561:
nonsense talk,all these broke guys that can't go a day without talking about ladies.
I wonder which gender is obsessed with each other,since we have more males creating threads about their female counterparts.



don't go and hustle.

can you show us your account balance ma'am .All you know how to do best is label any guy broke.
Thunder fire that your cesspit

Preshy561:
nonsense talk,all these broke guys that can't go a day without talking about ladies.
I wonder which gender is obsessed with each other,since we have more males creating threads about their female counterparts.



don't go and hustle.

he is right! You all just like denying shiiit

robotix:
he is right! You all just like denying shiiit

nawa o is your brain paining you this morning. please don't mention me again.

sylvez:
the thing wey weak me about this your post be say, you just dey generalise your foolishness.... this your opinion is not applicable to every guy na....

I first saw her on a Saturday morning, she didn't see me back lolz
fortunately I saw her again in church on Sunday morning, I approached her, we exchanged numbers.
she just visited the area, so she had to travel on Tuesday, we went on a date on Monday...
To cut the long story short, till today our love still dey grow and I'm still in control....

bro, i tell u what! The very day she starts getting comfortable with u gon' be signalling the very end to ur relationship... Did i hear u just say how? Is this simple - "mystery"

DeadRat:
Why Would You Even Allow A Woman be In Control Of You

mehn i was naive then... Really don't know how "mystery" works in a relationship... I was making it way to easy for them. No challenge, no value whatsoever... I was just going all out like a dumbass lol...

Guess what?

"Nice guys" don't thrive much in relationship... They r mostly the backup plan..

I tell u what again?

Its never a good position...

AndreSalvatore:
mehn i was naive then... Really don't know how "mystery" works in a relationship... I was making it way to easy for them. No challenge, no value whatsoever... I was just going all out like a dumbass lol...

Guess what?

"Nice guys" don't thrive much in relationship... They r mostly the backup plan..

I tell u what again?

Its never a good position...

You Made A Mistake... Move On And Be Smarter...


These Ladies Will Easily Cheat On Men They Control... While They Worship Men Treat Their Fvck ups...

Lol @ the person that loves and prays for weak men...even when you have conquered that weak guy, u will jump to another weak guy to conquer

AndreSalvatore:
bro, i tell u what! The very day she starts getting comfortable with u gon' be signalling the very end to ur relationship... Did i hear u just say how? Is this simple - "mystery"

do you mean "uncomfortable" ??

seriously I feel like flogging you for giving me the head ache of trying to put meaning to this your comment, and you're here talking mystery....

pls modify your comment and stop adding mystery to it.
thanks.