Ladyhippolyta88:
So you know this by my comments?I hardly get bitter on this forum so how come you know so much.I am irresponsible if you have the time go through all my comments not only on this thread and judge who sounds irresponsible between us.I would reiterate what I said earlier I make myself happy and nobody does that for me.As for the street boys I hardly socialise or wait a minute are you sure you are not a street boy yourself to know a lot about the street life?

laudate:


Na God I take beg you, take your stuvpidity go one side and park well. Virginity is not a guarantee that a lady will have a successful or happy marriage. A woman should be encouraged to study the character of the man she is going to marry very well, before she decides to make a commitment. The man should also do likewise. Qualities such as integrity, accountability, respect, discipline, tact, compassion, hard work ethic, supportive nature, generous attribute etc, are far more important than virginity. Some women have used virginity as a mask to cover their frigid nature, while some men have used virginity as a cover-up to hide their dysfunctional status.

Duru009:


Who cares whether you are having fun or not, that's your fucckin business.

I have made my point to you. I have had your likes in the past. I certainly know how to handle them very very very very very well!

Duru009:


Men only worship ladies who got marry to them as virgins, their might be some issues in the marriage no doubt but that "external respect" will always be their for her for life.

This is just the truth !!

Shugavee:
lol bitter kwa!! I am here hving fun n u talking abt bitter!! Ok whatever

When I am 40 years i will be a boss, that's my dream, marriage I guess is ur no1 priority for ur sisters, but not me!!

Wroxxane:

But Bros abeg, what should the woman/wife now worship and give ' external respect' to? His many years of whoring and ' sampling'? or his unending list of ' exes' and ' ohs'? Truth be told, to every man his own standards but no human that is born of a woman should tell me that rules apply to genders differently, you should never crave what you can't give. If as a man, you've been with all the feminine names to hell and back, biko shift, the mat is not for you.

laudate:


Ehen? So virginity means a woman is not loose? But she could be a shrew? Or she could be a thief? Or a backstabber, gossip monger, trouble maker or even a disrespectful creep!

Ladyhippolyta88:
You sir/madam you have my respect.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Now you don't care but when you were mentioning me up and down you cared.See the "f" word you used I don't use that it tells of your kind of person.You made no point and please every individual is different so don't console yourself by using the word I have met your likes.You have not met Hippolyta.

Duru009:


You gonna be 40yr, soo bitter, without a husband. By the time you realise your stupid self, it will be toooooooooooooooooooooo late. By that time all your friends are thru with having kids.
Money without happiness, is that one money. Nonsense!!

You better be saving money for the gigolo boys that will be coming to service your old rotten 40yrs pusssy. Because that is what your type is good at. Use n dump your sorry mannerless ass!

laudate:


You have missed the point totally. Nobody here is advocating promiscuity. What we are saying is that when looking for a marriage partner, there are far more important things to consider, instead of just basing your decision on virginity. Virginity is NOT a recipe for marital success or happiness.

Duru009:


You tell lies, even when you know the truth.
You are trying to paint yourself all saints when you realise yourself.
You haven't seen my type in your short life,
Because if you have. You will certainly respond maturely.


Mrs perfect , continue!!!!!

Self happiness

Feminist.

Keep deceiving yourselves! and face reality

Espada10:
All this virgin talk and creating virgin thread all over the place...I don tire..

Abeg , marry whoever you want to marry..I am going to borrow Joshua words in the bible when he addressed the isrealites saying- I don't know what god you will serve but as for me and my family we will serve the lord

likewise

I don't know the type of girls, you men wil marry..I dont care .. but as for me (even though I am not a virgin)..when it is time to marry and settle down.. I will look for and marry a virgin . .because it is my own choice and personal preference and I owe no one any apology....simple and short

I hate to go this route but

From what I have seen..majority of broke men marry non-virgins because they have no choice ..Most successful men ( I know )with their own house and car and doing financially well ..where the ones that disvirgined their wives.

walesalak:
This thread is so so hilarious. I dont think OP. Has mentioned anything bad. Its just to encourage dos who are virgins to keep it or hold on to it. And for dos who av lost dias. It is well with u. Nobody send u to lose ur virginity in d first place. Cos it was just ur decision. And even if u were tricked into it, u accepted to do it. So its ur palava. God holds virginity in high esteem though. Av u wondered d reason for virgin Mary?

XhosaNostra:
Good for you. Pray that he'll be faithful to you afterwards. Being a virgin doesn't = to preferential treatment or immunity. You'll still face the same marital struggles that a whòre does.

bemejr:
Mehn! I come pity the Poster with all the batered and catered Insults From Fellow Beings. To The Poster! The people of this generation are so advanced, that they forget the Nature Of Who There Are, The Thing Is This. We are the blood line of Adam and Eve. And for them to eat forbidden fruit has made them think Good And Evil Like Their Creator. They forget that The Foolishness Of God Is Wiser Than Human Wisdom And The Weakness Of God Is Stronger Than Human Straight. No Much Talks, Continue To Advertise Your Products To The Unborn Ones. I Support You 101%. Even tho the life is a temporary one because of our SIN. Let Them Talk, It Is Only A Fool That Becomes Successful And Makes His/Her Ways To God!

laudate:


Na God I take beg you, take your stuvpidity go one side and park well. Virginity is not a guarantee that a lady will have a successful or happy marriage. A woman should be encouraged to study the character of the man she is going to marry very well, before she decides to make a commitment. The man should also do likewise. Qualities such as integrity, accountability, respect, discipline, tact, compassion, hard work ethic, supportive nature, generosity etc, are far more important than virginity. Some women have used virginity as a mask to cover their frigid nature, while some men have used virginity as a cover-up to hide their dysfunctional status.

Espada10:
All this virgin talk and creating virgin thread all over the place...I don tire..

Abeg , marry whoever you want to marry..I am going to borrow Joshua words in the bible when he addressed the isrealites saying- I don't know what god you will serve but as for me and my family we will serve the lord

likewise

I don't know the type of girls, you men wil marry..I dont care .. but as for me (even though I am not a virgin)..when it is time to marry and settle down.. I will look for and marry a virgin . .because it is my own choice and personal preference and I owe no one any apology....simple and short

I hate to go this route but

From what I have seen..majority of broke men marry non-virgins because they have no choice ..Most successful men ( I know )with their own house and car and doing financially well ..where the ones that disvirgined their wives.

Espada10:
All this virgin talk and creating virgin thread all over the place...I don tire..

Abeg , marry whoever you want to marry..I am going to borrow Joshua words in the bible when he addressed the isrealites saying- I don't know what god you will serve but as for me and my family we will serve the lord

likewise

I don't know the type of girls, you men wil marry..I dont care .. but as for me (even though I am not a virgin)..when it is time to marry and settle down.. I will look for and marry a virgin . .because it is my own choice and personal preference and I owe no one any apology....simple and short

I hate to go this route but

From what I have seen..majority of broke men marry non-virgins because they have no choice ..Most successful men ( I know )with their own house and car and doing financially well ..where the ones that disvirgined their wives.

Duru009:
Did you read my first comment before you jump in.
Never say virginity makes a perfect marriage but I said I repeat again.
A lady that marries as a virgin has far more respect to the one that marries overwise to her husband.
Whether you like it or not this sooooooo true.
You are not a man you wouldn't understand at all!

So keep your senseless comments to yourself.

I know how your likes lost your virginity, it's a pity...

Am sorry

purples25:
Toh, to all the virgins out there, if you can remain one please do , that could be fine for you. I have a rather young female virgin friend full of life and fun and I don't tell her to lose herself , she could keep it and also live life happily.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Lovely post from you but then again you know I am not deceiving myself or do you live my life for me how come? Everyone claims to know the truth ooo tell me more.Did I ever call myself Mrs perfect All my response has been mature it's clearly you who lacks maturity.

laudate:


Bros biko, no talk dat kind lie for here, again. So you conducted a survey on all the successful men in Nigeria, and they told you that they disvirgined their wives? Chimo!

Duru009:


Did you read my first comment before you jump in.
Never say virginity makes a perfect marriage but I said I repeat again.
A lady that marries as a virgin has far more respect to the one that marries overwise to her husband.
Whether you like it or not this sooooooo true.
You are not a man you wouldn't understand at all!

So keep your senseless comments to yourself.

I know how your likes lost your virginity, it's a pity...

Am sorry

Duru009:


Did you read n digest my first comment about virginity. I never said is guaranteed for a good or happy marriage ooooooo. Do you know what is for a woman to keep herself till her wedding night, maybe you don't know? But I said, it's a thing of respect which she will certainly have from her husband till marriage lasts.
You might not fully grad this because you are woman.

Only real men, will certainly understand what am saying !

ndcide:
You missed the point. The campaign to trivialise chastity, is negative and it's of the devil... Quote me anywhere on this.

Chastity is a trait that can also guarantee marital success. When you are looking for a marriage partner, and Chasity is one of your criteria because you believe and practice it, you will succeed in that marriage.

And please don't tell me those who are chaste don't have other good qualities because they do..

The evil of the time, is to subdue and downplay chastity, while elevating traits and qualities that many, actually do not possess.

laudate:


You just proved how shallow you are. What makes you think that I am a woman? Where and when did I mention my gender? And as for your story that "A lady that marries as a virgin has far more respect to the one that marries overwise to her husband....," it is a big lie. You can only speak for yourself. A woman gets respect because of her character and good values, not because of her virginity. I know women who married as virgins, but ended up being turned into punching bags by their husbands. What is the respect in that?

laudate:


The reason God selected Virgin Mary, was so that the baby Jesus could come to earth through the natural birth process, while having divinity as His DNA, even though He was in human form. If the father of Jesus had been an earthly father, His divinity would have been questioned. Rahab was a harlot, yet she was the great great-grandmother of our Lord Jesus. What does that tell you?