ndcide:
While you know of those who married a virgin wife killing him.

I know of so many beautiful marriages where both couple married as virgins and their unions are examples of what marriage should be.

I know of many who followed that same path and also had beautiful marriages.

Most people I know who believe and practice chastity, have strong character, integrity, accountability, respect, discipline etc. Interestingly for me, I have not met any of them who falls short of such great character, both men and women.

Personally I've not seen. Lucky me.

On the other hand, look at how the enemy of mankind punish those who don't believe and practice chastity and still give them the logic to validate their errors.

I don't need to give examples. It's everywhere but they they love what's afflicting them.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I could careless your threat doesn't work on me I have been attacking people since and who asked you for your maturity?

ndcide:


While you know of those who married a virgin wife killing them:

I know of so many beautiful marriages where both couple married as virgins and their unions are examples of what marriages should be.

I know of many who followed that same path and also had beautiful marriages.

Most people I know who believe and practice chastity, have strong character, integrity, accountability, respect, discipline etc. Interestingly for me, I have not met any of them who falls short of such great characters, both men and women.

Personally I've not seen. Lucky me.

On the other hand, look at how the enemy of mankind punish those who don't believe and practice chastity and still give them the logic to validate their errors.

I don't need to give examples. It's everywhere but they love what's afflicting them.

Espada10:
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Jochabed:
P.S am not married,i am just qouting what my sexual purity coach tells me.

jaksmillioniar:
last warny get out of my face to meet d guy who disvirgin u

Espada10:
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Ladyhippolyta88:
Your supposed truth has been countered by almost everyone who quoted you so why should I bother.Everyone claims to know the truth so no need killing ourselves because I myself believe I have spoken the truth and by the way have you tasted truth to know whether it is bitter?What mistakes are you talking about we all make mistakes don't we?

jaksmillioniar:
last warny get out of my face to meet d guy who disvirgin u

Ladyhippolyta88:
Kindly unfollow me biko.

Duru009:


Even those that counter me, commented so childishly and full of bitterness. I responded and made my points in clear terms.
I can understand their background!

Am not perfect my dear. Everyone makes a mistake.
But the biggest mistake a person will make in this life is by justifying her past mistakes for the future instead of correcting it n accepting the truth n reality of life!

jaksmillioniar:
I will do dat wen I get dat tin between ur leg is national cake

Ladyhippolyta88:
There is nothing wrong with your post but he has a point.Everyone has a choice but I share the sentiments of some of the people who have commented in this time and age it guarantees nothing.If you want to keep your virginity till marriage it should be out of your personal conviction and not because your husband would take you to space.I also believe that the virginity crusade should apply to both genders.

Ladyhippolyta88:
They countered you with facts.And who is the lady you are referring to there I hope it is one of your friends?Because I didn't see where anyone tried to correct me ooo shugavee did you see?

Espada10:
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Ladyhippolyta88:
No I am not I am looking for a virgin husband.

ibrahimdoc:


you are just bitter that you have lost your virginity to street urchins. I met my girl at the age of 29 and i.met her a virgin. that you couldn't keep yours doesn't mean that other women should lose theirs. I hate your type.

ibrahimdoc:


you are just bitter that you have lost your virginity to street urchins. I met my girl at the age of 29 and i.met her a virgin. that you couldn't keep yours doesn't mean that other women should lose theirs. I hate your type.

Shugavee:
no o! what's he talking abt

Ladyhippolyta88:
They countered you with facts.And who is the lady you are referring to there I hope it is one of your friends?Because I didn't see where anyone tried to correct me ooo shugavee did you see?Like I said everyone has their own truth and reality of life.

biggy26:

Well, like mtn, they're everywhere you go, trust me!

Duru009:



Counter me how! What do you mean by counter me.
Thy don't even have a single point.

I can understand how thy lost their virginity, most of them lost their virginity out of bitter experience. It's a pity. I have seen them all!
Thy have nothing to say thy know!

Just know this for today " real truth does not go with the crowd but with few "
Whenever, many people are saying thesame thing you better watch it!

Espada10:
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UDUJ:
As for me, once it gets to that time for me to get married I wouldn’t care whether she is a virgin or not. I would marry a woman once I know we were genuinely right for each other regardless of whether or not she was a virgin. I am not a virgin, so I first of all think that it would be a hypocritical stance of me to insist that she be one.

I have great respect for women who remain virgins for their personal convictions or preferences, and would not see this as a major cause for concern were we to marry so long as she doesn’t intend to remain a virgin once married. I imagine we would, however, potentially have to navigate some awkwardness regarding the differences between our experiences.

I also have great respect for women who have morally had sex, or who learned from and turned away from immoral sex. When the time to talk of our experiences comes up, I would listen to her with the same reasonable and open-minded attitude I would hope she would offer me in return. My primary goal would be to see whether we are on the same page now as to what constitutes sexual morality, and whether we were then similarly mature in our attitudes and levels of self-control in this area.

Finally, I have not only respect but compassion for women who have been sexually abused / raped. To have one’s sanctity of body and mind violated in such a way is potentially one of the most terrifying experiences people around the world, sadly, have every day. Overcoming such horrible events requires a lot of resilience and mental / emotional healing. If I were to fall in love with such a woman and come to consider her the one I’d want to marry, having this past of hers revealed to me could be a hard thing for both of us - and I would give her as much patience and gentleness she needed if I remained willing to marry her.

The theme you should notice through each of these paragraphs is that the worth of women is not based in their extent (or lack) of sexual experience. It is based on who they are as people - who they have become - through whatever their experiences might be.

laudate:


Guy, you really need to stop exaggerating, please. Like I said before, virginity does not confer sainthood on anyone. I am not advocating promiscuity, but advocating that people should study their partners very well before making a commitment, instead of basing their decision on virginity, or lack of it.

You claim that "Most people you know who believe and practice chastity, have strong character, integrity, accountability, respect, discipline etc." Good for you. I have also met non-virgins who have strong character, integrity, accountability, respect, discipline etc. Some women have used virginity to mask their frigid nature, while some men have used it to mask their sexual dysfunction. Ask anyone who is a Christian counsellor about the kind of issues they try to resolve daily, in churches among married couples....

I repeat; Personally, I would seek for qualities such as integrity, accountability, respect, compassion, supportive behaviour, generosity, tact, discipline, loyalty etc, over and above virginity.

ibrahimdoc:


you made a little sense but please preach that women should keep their chastity before marriage. that is the right thing to do. be on the right side of life bro.

ndcide:


It is deceit to claim those who advocate Chasity, want people to base their marital decision Only on virginity.

That's crap.

Any one who trivialises or downplay chastity, in this day and age, will have no issues supporting promiscuity. In fact, how will such a person not even support promiscuity?

Marital relationships increasingly became difficult and complex, because people jettisoned chastity.

While you claim people mask their sexual weakness with Chasity, I will tell you that much more have ruined their lives through sexual recklessness, and had to finally bow to the ideals of chastity. Unfortunately, much damage have been done.

I challenge you to go back to any of those Christian counselor and ask them for the truth.