Ladyhippolyta88:
He done pain am oya good night.

Espada10:
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jaksmillioniar:
u dissapiont me I tot u are a virgin girl

Duru009:


Just happy here, pain ke!

You sound so funny. Making me laugh hard here!
Have a wonderful day miss responsible

Only few buys de truth it doesn't sell at all!

Espada10:
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Duru009:


Hallucinating!

Am not, life itself is an experience.

This is reality not hallucination!

Ladyhippolyta88:
Well in Hippolyta wonderful life it's just an hallucination.Let me be the bigger person here and shift my sword you can continue to mention to console yourself no problem just dream of me it would be okay

Ladyhippolyta88:
And you didn't say you were happy since. Stop deceiving yourself nothing I wrote was funny

Ladyhippolyta88:
Well in Hippolyta wonderful life it's just an hallucination.Let me be the bigger person here and shift my sword you can continue to mention to console yourself no problem just dream of me it would be okay

highqueen:

No,you have a problem with that?

laudate:


No sir, you are the one who is clearly using the "same old tactics of the devil used with Eve." You obviously know a lot about the devil's tactics, which is why you are citing it as an example. A lot of virgins go into marriage with wrong expectations, and unrealistic ideas or notions about marriage. When it comes to marriage, many are clueless and naive. Ask any Christian counsellor. Maybe in your church, they do not tell people the truth, but in my own church - we church workers have seen a lot.

I find it interesting, that you never answered any of the questions I asked in my last post, before you started playing the ostrich as usual. So let me ask you again:

1). So non-virgins should never get married, is that what you are saying?

2). Even within your church, how many virgins exist there?

3). What is the proportion of single virgins, to non-virgins within your church?

Tell the truth and let the devil be ashamed, because even you are unlikely to swear that you got married as a virgin...

jaksmillioniar:
are u y

ndcide:
1, non virgins will get married. That's not the issue. The church should be a place that produces chaste people irrespective of what is happening in the world. We can't make that happen, when we have people like you downplaying chastity and telling us about qualities "non virgins" have.... Haba! Shouldn't our virgins remain pure and have good character? Isn't that what will make God happy?.. Or we don't want to please God again? Rather manage the effects of disobedience?.. Can we have you as a worker preserve the church from the attack of the world and it's ungodliness?

2) Great question! I may not know, but I know God wants us to be pure and if we cannot find pure people in the Church or they are so few, it's the Devil fighting the Church. Will you stand for righteousness?

3) Same as above. I don't know. But the church of God cannot be a place where you massage, manage or remodel sexual impurity. Especially with "it doesn't matter " narrative.

I'm a strong believer and advocate of chastity.

There's nothing a non virgin can know /understand that a virgin can't know / understand except engaging in premarital sex.

This respons, is only because you claim to be a church worker.

Shugavee:
ok as she kept it!! Is it the virginity u r marrying

laudate:


Why? Are you offended that I am a church worker? In fact, I have learnt a lot about reality and the facts of life more than ever, since I became a worker in church. It makes you appreciate the diversity and complexity of human beings, and makes you realise that beneath all the fine powder and fine outfits people wear to church, they are all battling with serious challenges that you cannot even imagine.

From your answers, you can then see that your judgemental manner of waving the flag of chastity/virginity needs to be balanced, as even you are unlikely to swear that you got married as a virgin...

Like I said before: "It is far more important to know your partner well before making a commitment," so that you do not end up with regrets. I have always stood for righteousness, and righteousness means far more than chastity or virginity! There are non-christians who are virgins, and even muslims or traditional worshippers who are virgins.

highqueen:

go and sleep.

jaksmillioniar:
am feeling nauthy dis nite I cant help it

ndcide:
I've told you the truth.

I don't live in hypocrisy. All these.. " know your partner before commitment " is not the issue I'm driving at. As if you won't know the person before.

Unless, the "knowing" you are referring to is against keeping oneself sexually pure ..we are then not on the same track.

I'm neither a Muslim nor a traditional worshipper, hence can't respond from their angle..

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LADY HIP
DO YOU UNDERSTAND MY LAST COMMENT NOW?


WOMEN WITH NO MONEY, FOCUS NOR AMBITION ALWAYS THINK VIRGINITY AND HUSBANDS ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN EVERY OTHER THING ON EARTH.

THEY ARE NEVER INDEPENDENT, THEY NEVER ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING.

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LADY HIP
DO YOU UNDERSTAND MY LAST COMMENT NOW?


WOMEN WITH NO MONEY, FOCUS NOR AMBITION ALWAYS THINK VIRGINITY AND HUSBANDS ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN EVERY OTHER THING ON EARTH.

THEY ARE NEVER INDEPENDENT, THEY NEVER ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Please hope this your virginity crusade applies to both genders? .Your personality is most important.

Jochabed:
P.S am not married,i am just qouting what my sexual purity coach tells me.

Jochabed:
you keep yourself not for your husband alone but to please Yahweh who is the ULTIMATE!

Jochabed:
Sorry your really pained. Accept my sincere appologies.But preaching it,is a must.

Pataricatering:
tell him to go fck himself !

Pataricatering:
pleasing Yahweh is only for women ? I’m confused!

laudate:


My question was a simple one. You have been preaching the gospel of virginity all over this thread, so I asked you if the muslim or traditional worshippers that are virgins were superior to the Christians, because of their virginity? Why is the question so difficult for you to understand? You also claimed that I was downplaying chastity? How? Because I refused to be judgemental, just as you are?

Too many Christians pretend and lie to themselves and in doing so, they lie to the world as well. I do not belong to that group. I tell it as it is, and God has helped me in that respect. Some naive, young Christian girls have made wrong choices based on this virginity matter, and ended up with the wrong spouses, because of judgemental doctrines such as your own.

They will be happy, thinking that since the so-called 'brother has not laid a finger on them, or tried to put any pressure on them, so therefore he must be a holy, bible-believing spotless character. Only for them to get married to him, and discover that the brother is something totally different under that veneer of spirituality, simply because the lady did not take time, effort or wisdom to study him well or look beyond the surface. I have seen a lot as a church worker. Let me just hold it here.....may God deliver us all.

The best advice someone ever gave me, was that if you are in a relationship, test your partner for anger. Find out how that person reacts when things go wrong, or events turn upside down. Next, find out how he/she handles money. But some naive Christian sisters who are trying to be more spiritual than their bibles, will tell you "God is in control," as if the Almighty did not bless them with brains and common sense.

Pataricatering:
most times people like you have peanut sized brains ! Virginity ko virginity ni! Keep preaching it — infact you need a ministry! Upon all the preaching - who is listening ? Mcheew

highqueen:
the worst guy I dated was the one forming Christian brother, holier than thou, infact,he's one the best workers in his church,one would think he is close to meeting God till I dated him.

gosh,pretense is the order of the day in church of today, don't be surprised that the guy you are wasting your energy to lecture is worst that serpent itself.

I promised myself,never to have anything to do with self righteousness people.

be a good Christian but don't over do,cos they appear the worst at the end.

Opentokwowledge:
You are deciphering my message wrongly. What I'm saying is that meeting a woman as a virgin is nothing but a clear message to the man that she is resilient and able to stay true to her moral compass. That her personal resolve to go unscathed in a world so toothed and jagged is unfeigned and if that isn't attractive to you, it is to me!

laudate:


There is almost nothing we do not see in churches today. In fact ehn, if you know the kind of issues that married Christian couples battle with, inside church....you will feel sorry for a lot of people. I had to counsel one misguided young girl who was over 30, and was busy praying that she wanted to marry any Christian brother, from inside a particular church. Her prayer point was that the person must meet her in church. Can you imagine? As if decent, God-fearing honest people cannot be met in the workplace, or in secular circles. It took the intervention of an assistant pastor to reset her thinking, when the man told her that he met his wife inside the market, buying okporoko and catfish!