Signs He's Just Leading You On



Who still remembers that twitter hashtag #WasteHerTime2015? At time’s ladies might be in a semi-relationship with a guy who hasn’t officially asked her out and she’s hoping eventually he will. She might not necessarily be a side chick because the guy is single but it’s been months and he still hasn’t asked her out or ever called her his girlfriend.



Chances are the dude is probably leading you on and using you (for only God knows what). There are always signs, and here a few important ones.


HE DOESN’T INTRODUCE YOU TO HIS FRIENDS AS HIS GIRLFRIEND


This is one of the surest signals that you may be stuck in a non-relationship LINK. He should be willing to name the relationship, or at least say that you’re dating. If he isn’t, he’s doing that on purpose. Beware.


. YOU’RE THE ONE TO SUGGEST DATES


He never seems to have any ideas, and he’s never the one to offer to take you out. This might be a sign that he doesn’t have much confidence in the relationship, but that you make it so easy for him that he might as well hang on.


. HE HASN’T TAKEN YOU TO ANY FORMAL EVENTS


If he’s serious about your relationship, he should be taking you as his guest to weddings, company holiday parties, and other events.



HE DOESN’T WANT TO TAKE PICTURES WITH YOU


This is an important one to look out for. If there’s no photographic evidence, there’s nothing to peg him to you on Facebook. That might mean he’s trying to send out single signals and doesn’t want to look like he’s tied down.



HE HASN’T TOLD HIS PARENTS ABOUT YOU


If a guy is serious about a girl, he’ll usually tell his parents pretty quickly that he’s met someone. If he intends to keep you around for the long run, it would be weird if he didn’t at least mention your name to them. If he’s keeping you a secret, it may be because he doesn’t think the two of you have a future.


. HE TAKES YOU OUT ONLY ON GROUP HANGOUTS


Instead of one-on-one dates, he’ll usually tell you where he and his group are planning to go out for the night, and invites you to come along. This way, he can still have you around, but gets to keep you and your relationship at a distance instead of getting in deeper.




. HE BARELY CALLS

Calling takes time, effort, and concentration. He just wants to coast by on the bare minimum he can get away with; he’d rather text. Just add it to the list of awful communication habits.

Martin0 let me add my own

He takes your hard earned money to buy gifts for his main chic and still cannot satisfy you in bed.Common orgasm you will never get from him

Twoclans:
Martin0 let me add my own

He takes your hard earned money to buy gifts for his main chic and still cannot satisfy you in bed.Common orgasm you will never get from him

very true. If a man truly loves you he will feel very ashamed to ask you/take your money. He will have to be at the lowest of the low to ask you, and immediately he gets some money he will return the money back to you, with interest probably. If a guy doesn’t care about you he will have no shame and take half of your bank account, you will have to beg him to return half of the money back. Women be wise!

Twoclans:
Martin0 let me add my own

He takes your hard earned money to buy gifts for his main chic and still cannot satisfy you in bed.Common orgasm you will never get from him

hahahahah hahahahah wait o joke aside!

this orgasms ladies everyday I hear una dey talk am guessing it a joke

anyway thanks for the contribution if u need orgasms tell me, I got one sharp guy here on Nairaland for you

Martin0:



hahahahah hahahahah wait o joke aside!

this orgasms ladies everyday I hear una dey talk am guessing it a joke

anyway thanks for the contribution if u need orgasms tell me, I got one sharp guy here on Nairaland for you

LOL

The orgasms talk is not a joke ohhhhhh,anyway this thread is not about female orgasms so let me shut my mouth.

So who is this nairaland guy?i hope he is an ukwu lover and gang member

Flowers95:
very true. If a man truly loves you he will feel very ashamed to ask you/take your money. He will have to be at the lowest of the low to ask you, and immediately he gets some money he will return the money back to you, with interest probably. If a guy doesn’t care about you he will have no shame and take half of your bank account, you will have to beg him to return half of the money back. Women be wise!

You mean a guy who truly loves a woman will never ask her for financial assistance in times of financial difficulties?

Which hypothesis did you use to carry out your research ma?

some of these ladies just wanna fvck. let them. some of them nor get time for all these stories.

tosyne2much:

You mean a guy who truly loves a woman will never ask her for financial assistance in times of financial difficulties?

Which hypothesis did you use to carry out your research ma?

Sir I did not say that. I said he will have to be extremely desperate to ask the woman he loves for money with no other option, before he does. Immediately he gets the money, he will pay her back with interest. A man who doesn’t love a woman, will ask her for money anyhow without a care in the world.

Twoclans:



LOL

The orgasms talk is not a joke ohhhhhh,anyway this thread is not about female orgasms so let me shut my mouth.

So who is this nairaland guy?i hope he is an ukwu lover and gang member

hahahahaha hahahahaha ukwu lover



no wahala u like Lefulefu abi

Well Martin0 some ladies don't mind being side chics as long as the guy takes care of their needs. Having said that i agree with some of ur points there but d one wey i no too green on is d first one. There are some guys even if d girl na a babe wey dem know say dem no too like they can still introduce her on coded level to some of their friends. The friends will even be calling her iyawo even though they know u ain't serious with her. But when a guy takes her out in public and flaunts her then yes d girl should be rest assured dat d guy is into her.

Martin0:




hahahahaha hahahahaha ukwu lover



no wahala u like Lefulefu abi

It's very obvious even to the blind that I like lefulefu alot. I have him already and honestly I don't want anyone else.

Where is lefulefu sef ?

Twoclans:



It's very obvious even to the blind that I like lefulefu alot. I have him already and honestly I don't want anyone else.

Where is lefulefu sef ?

hmmm

Twoclans:



It's very obvious even to the blind that I like lefulefu alot. I have him already and honestly I don't want anyone else.

Where is lefulefu sef ?

yeah oya twerk for him jor

Lefulefu smash that ass man

lefulefu:
Well Martin0 some ladies don't mind being side chics as long as the guy takes care of their needs. Having said that i agree with some of ur points there but d one wey i no too green on is d first one. There are some guys even if d girl na a babe wey dem know say dem no too like they can still introduce her on coded level to some of their friends. The friends will even be calling her iyawo even though they know u ain't serious with her. But when a guy takes her out in public and flaunts her then yes d girl should be rest assured dat d guy is into her.

eheh OK you have made a good point sha

Lefulefu one

Martin0:

yeah oya twerk for him jor
Lefulefu smash that ass man

Martin0:



eheh OK you have made a good point sha

Lefulefu one

twoclans know if i hold her ehnn i no go let her run away

lefulefu:
twoclans know if i hold her ehnn i no go let her run away

hahahahaha hahahahaha u na lion na

martin0 the way you're disloyal to your gender though...

MISEDUCATIONS:
martin0 the way you're disloyal to your gender though...

how are my disloyal to my gender

Martin0:


how are my disloyal to my gender

im that thorn by your side forever as you worship the v.

MISEDUCATIONS:
im that thorn by your side forever as you worship the v.

what tha fucvk does this translates to buchy,,

lefulefu:
twoclans know if i hold her ehnn i no go let her run away

I have no plans of running anywhere so long as I am in ur arms