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Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by Igba123: 10:10am On Apr 05, 2018
nanakgh:
lol no more campaign after election
dat's d normal thing but apc has proved dis ur statement obsolete.
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by aureen: 10:10am On Apr 05, 2018
Evince:


Which holyspirit. Hv u heard from any spirit b4. Stop associating spirits that don't exist. This is about emotions and physical decision not spirits



I don't owe anyone any explanation.
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by sixtusn: 10:10am On Apr 05, 2018
That is the more reason why you shld abstain from it totally. See you are going to be a mother without pursuing your career in life.

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Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by ubunja(m): 10:11am On Apr 05, 2018
victorian:
Ladies never learn but anyways I do t blame the ladies. Guys, men will say anything just to get laid. They will promise heaven on earth to penetrate in. They will even vow with the Bible and Quaran all for sex.
They will say get pregnant first and I will marry you.
That's why u see babymamas everywhere.

Some guys will even blackmail the lady emotionally. Some will say, don't u remember your age? You are in your 30s, let's do it, get pregnant and I will marry you.. All these are pure lies from hell. As soon as they get u pregnant, they either disappear or stop answering your calls.
When will ladies learn?
gents... USE THIS to get laid. this is the manual for getting sex.

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Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by UDUJ(m): 10:11am On Apr 05, 2018
ubunja:
women should stop trying to use sex to get love

Cutehector:
I totally concur with you bro..
But sadly enough, they cant. Its already prefixed in their system to use sex as a tool to get love. There is hardly any woman who is anti-emotional.

DJInfluence:
I also re-concur your concur...

I concur concurrently cheesy grin

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Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by umuna(m): 10:12am On Apr 05, 2018
Imapearl:
I do not know why ladies think that their sex styles and body can keep a man
you can't keep a man that doesn't want to be kept
Some styles can keep a man dear!
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by ubunja(m): 10:14am On Apr 05, 2018
umuna:

Some styles can keep a man dear!
especially doggy lol with a fine ass

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Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by johnson232: 10:14am On Apr 05, 2018
bukatyne:


Really?

And does this young man cook for himself, take care of his home, take care of kids etc himself.

Does this young man take into stock all those things that gets done to make his life easier without his input?

Besides, sex is a very crucial need of man (woman). Infact, it is one of the three legs marriage is based on and apart from godly sex, I honestly don't see what a woman/wife/lover can offer you that someone else can't and will still be morally right.
@bold What are we not talking about....We are saying the same thing.

That is why u women use sex as a tool to get love...So the guy u quoted was right.
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by Marshalxv(m): 10:16am On Apr 05, 2018
ubunja:
no repercussions my man. thats your inner vagina worshipper speaking. in truth men have been played worse and nothing happened to the women. some men raised 3 kids not their own. and karma never settled the score.
life is about playing and being played. just keep your eyes open. if you're played life goes on.

Inner vagina worshipper?
well ,I'll pretend I didn't read that part. Back to topic. Men have been played and women have been played too, in order to get our revenge we keep the circle going on and on. This revenge syndrome is the mere reason we have demons(evil men and women ) living amongst us in human form.

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Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by umuna(m): 10:16am On Apr 05, 2018
ubunja:
especially doggy lol with a fine ass

Bad player! tongue grin
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by Dcholeric: 10:17am On Apr 05, 2018
highqueen:
the man is a bastardize fool,and for those guys supporting this nonsense, let your conscience judge you that's if there's any atall.
grin grin
now you speak conscience...
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by prechbills1(m): 10:18am On Apr 05, 2018
BossLaifay:
Lol. Your blood just dey hot!


in life your blood must not be cool always.
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by ubunja(m): 10:18am On Apr 05, 2018
Marshalxv:


Inner vagina worshipper?
well ,I'll pretend I didn't read that part. Back to topic. Men have been played and women have been played too, in order to get our revenge we keep the circle going on and on. This revenge syndrome is the mere reason we have demons(evil men and women ) living amongst us in human form.
dude your lack of harsh words for women who play men but ready words for men who play women makes you a vagina worshipper.

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Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by Nobody: 10:18am On Apr 05, 2018
aureen:



The question is what did the HOLY SPIRIT tell her before she opened her legs?

Some people attend Church service weekly but they have backslided from the way of the lord.

My concern is didn't her Father, Grandfather or relatives tell her never to get pregnant for a Man that have no intention of paying her bride price?
holy spirit
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by Gaddafithe2nd(m): 10:21am On Apr 05, 2018
May be na the same thing they tell my ex-girlfriend wey she go get belle for another guy despite the fact that we were dating that time. Now she is a single mother. Girls no go learn
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by Evince(m): 10:22am On Apr 05, 2018
aureen:




I don't owe anyone any explanation.

because u have no fact in ur brainless claim
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by aureen: 10:25am On Apr 05, 2018
humilitypays:
Over time, I have come to discover that relationship, marriage, dating has no defined rule to follow to succeed, what worked for Mr. A and Ms B may not work for Mr. C and Ms D.

Sex might not make Mr. G love Ms E but sex can make Mr F love Ms R more....nobody can define the relationship rule that will govern every relationship or marriage, it is relative to individuals because we are diverse and uniquely designed by nature to act and behave differently in life, never say NEVER wink

Sound Mind
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by myself13: 10:25am On Apr 05, 2018
victorian:
Ladies never learn but anyways I do t blame the ladies. Guys, men will say anything just to get laid. They will promise heaven on earth to penetrate in. They will even vow with the Bible and Quaran all for sex.
They will say get pregnant first and I will marry you.
That's why u see babymamas everywhere.

Some guys will even blackmail the lady emotionally. Some will say, don't u remember your age? You are in your 30s, let's do it, get pregnant and I will marry you.. All these are pure lies from hell. As soon as they get u pregnant, they either disappear or stop answering your calls.
When will ladies learn?


You women will learn when you all become liberal with the pvssy and stop acting like your vagina leads to the pally gates of some heaven not in existence.Then men will become real and forthright with you.
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by aureen: 10:27am On Apr 05, 2018
Evince:


because u have no fact in ur brainless claim

You are not sound in your brainless claim.
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by Essy697: 10:30am On Apr 05, 2018
Homeboiy:
desperate idiot

you want to trap him with pregnancy

just sex on the first day and you allowed yourself to get pregnant
Something is really wrong with u, the guy had sex without CD and he couldn't use d other method which is withdrawal now she is pregnant and you here blaming the Girl ..U Guys alwz want Girls to use pils not minding if d pills has a bad effect on the Girl.#Irresponsible Guys everywhere #God help the Girl Child
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by victorian(f): 10:31am On Apr 05, 2018
ubunja:

gents... USE THIS to get laid. this is the manual for getting sex.





Of course! I know very well. When I was single. I was so naive but i wasn't foolish enough to get fucvked and damaged several times until belle go come enter. If the sex is becoming much, I cut off straight! I can't be used as sex machine, make my pussy no worn out and boob's flat like slippers.
It even got to stage, I simply shut down from any new guy coming my way after breaking up with my ex. And I told them point blank, if sex is what u need in this relationship, my dear find your way to the door! Am not interested.
Some left amicably, some insulted me and said am not getting younger o!, while two agreed to my terms.
At the end they realised I have other things to offer other than my pussy and I stop tolerating nonsense. They got to understand my kind of person, likewise I understand theirs too.
At the end I chose one suitor and the rest is history.


Ladies stop opening those legs for marriage. It doesn't work like that.

If u feel Hot and u want sex? Fine it's cool but do it with protection. Don't expect marriage afterwards. But if marriage is what u want? Don't be blackmailed or seduced into becoming a sex machine. Cos as soon as he's got his fill.. He's moving onto the next victim. That's the blatant truth.
Be wise.

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Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by emmydollars4life(m): 10:33am On Apr 05, 2018
Me: pls let's do this thing nah, I am in the mood

Ada: after now, u will leave me and u will not call me again.

Me: I am not like that, pls I am begging you.

Ada: do you love ?

When I need something from you, won't I accept that I love you, so I can chop and clean mouth

Ada: he break my heart.

Me: No u place your heart in a stone and gave me hammer to hit it.

Why would you negotiate love or marriage because he wanted to have sex with you. Empty brain
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by EmperorAlonzo1: 10:33am On Apr 05, 2018
nifemi25:
A man can do anything in order for a lady to open her two legs. Trust no body.

true..real niggas lyk us dy scarce
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by Evince(m): 10:35am On Apr 05, 2018
aureen:


You are not sound in your brainless claim.

Tell me how the spirit looks like and the voice print. Gender also. Spiritual bigot
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by Teeboi56: 10:36am On Apr 05, 2018
Y did u open ur leg in d first place u dull urself
D man deceived u niii
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by eherbal(m): 10:38am On Apr 05, 2018
nifemi25:
A man can do anything in order for a lady to open her two legs. Trust no body.
true
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by Duru009(m): 10:42am On Apr 05, 2018
Been in a relationship is not guarante a guy must marry you. What if it doesn't work out in a marriage nko!

Relationship is an avenue for you to learn.

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Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by GOFRONT(m): 10:44am On Apr 05, 2018
Now I ask mysef grin grin.......I been dey bug this girl for s*x from last december. But she be doin shakara for me. But I finally got her lash week and gav her some hot rounds and since then, na "Baby" baby she dey call me upandan now.

I dont know when i turn to baby oo

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Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by SAMBARRY: 10:45am On Apr 05, 2018
It's not her fault.I.don't really blame her.she's just 21 and her parents must have most likely been pressuring her to get married and apparently the dude who she fell into his trap took advantage of her naivety

The thing with dudes is that if they are sexually attracted to you they will study YOU and fish out your weakness or want.the moment they know it's marriage you want,that will be the bait they will use to catch you
If it's money,that will be the bait
If it's luxurious lifestyle that will be the bait.

These dudes are very crafty than you think.they mostly use these marriage line as a bait to have sex with you if THEY spot desperation for marriage in you or they know you're in your mid or late 30s.don't blame her,she's just 21 what does she know?how many girls her age are conscious of the wiles and deception of men
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by bukatyne(f): 10:45am On Apr 05, 2018
johnson232:

@bold What are we not talking about....We are saying the same thing.

That is why u women use sex as a tool to get love...So the guy u quoted was right.

Look at my response to ubunja.

You don't use sex to get love; you respond to his love with sex and other things
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by Nobody: 10:46am On Apr 05, 2018
She should have known better
Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by ubunja(m): 10:46am On Apr 05, 2018
victorian:






Of course! I know very well. When I was single. I was so naive but i wasn't foolish enough to get fucvked and damaged several times until belle go come enter. If the sex is becoming much, I cut off straight! I can't be used as sex machine, make my pussy no worn out and boob's flat like slippers.
It even got to stage, I simply shut down from any new guy coming my way after breaking up with my ex. And I told them point blank, if sex is what u need in this relationship, my dear find your way to the door! Am not interested.
Some left amicably, some insulted me and said am not getting younger o!, while two agreed to my terms.
At the end they realised I have other things to offer other than my pussy and I stop tolerating nonsense. They got to understand my kind of person, likewise I understand theirs too.
At the end I chose one suitor and the rest is history.


Ladies stop opening those legs for marriage. It doesn't work like that.

If u feel Hot and u want sex? Fine it's cool but do it with protection. Don't expect marriage afterwards. But if marriage is what u want? Don't be blackmailed or seduced into becoming a sex machine. Cos as soon as he's got his fill.. He's moving onto the next victim. That's the blatant truth.
Be wise.
problem is you girls shoot yourselves in the foot by claiming sex doesnt make pvssy a borehole and boys dont sag boobs. when you spread lies like that you give men license and freedom to destroy you. i understand women spread those lies as insurance for tomorrow to get husbands even though damaged. but still...

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