THE BEST MARRIAGE ADVICE EVER!!




Choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling.


Always answer the phone when your husband/wife is calling and when possible, try to keep your phone off when you’re together with your spouse.


Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the “currency of relationships” so consistently invest time into your marriage.




Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage and remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.


Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share moments of joy, and even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh.


In every argument, remember that there won’t be a “winner” and a “loser.” You are partners in everything so you’ll either win together or lose together. Work together to find a solution.




Remember that a strong marriage rarely has two strong people at the same time. It’s usually a husband and wife taking turns being strong for each other in the moments when the other feels weak.Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. It takes more than sex to build a strong marriage, but it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it!


Remember that marriage isn’t 50-50, divorce is 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100. It’s not splitting everything in half, but both partners giving everything they’ve got!


Give your best to each other, not your leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.


Learn from other people, but don’t feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone else’s. God’s plan for your life is masterfully unique!


Don’t put your marriage on hold while you’re raising your kids or else you’ll end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.


Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.


Never lie to each other. Lies break trust and trust is the foundation of a strong marriage.


When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and humbly seek forgiveness. You should be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”




When your husband/wife breaks your trust, give them your forgiveness instantly which will promote healing and create the opportunity for trust to be rebuilt. You should be quick to say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”


Be patient with each other. Your spouse is always more important that your schedule.


Model the kind of marriage that will make your sons want to grow up to be good husbands and your daughters want to grow up to be good wives.


Learn from other people, but don’t feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone Else. God’s plan for your life is masterfully unique!


Never talk badly about your spouse to other people or vent about them online. Protect your spouse at all times and in all places.


Always wear your wedding ring. It will remind you that you’re always connected to your spouse and it will remind the rest of the world that you’re off limits!


Connect into a community of faith. A good church can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.


Pray together. Every marriage is stronger with God in the middle of it.


When you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, say nothing every time!


Never consider divorce as an option. Remember that a “perfect marriage” is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

Nice one OP

Martin0 so you expect me to read all this long post this night.

Truly you are not a human being

amani63:
Martin0 so you expect me to read all this long post this night.

Truly you are not a human being

hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha guy ur case pass my own oo

Remember that marriage isn’t 50-50, divorce is 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100. It’s not splitting everything in half, but both partners giving everything they’ve got!


Give your best to each other, not your leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.

The first challenge there is meeting the right girl....This 21st century 9ja girls have absolutely nothing to offer except there backward thinking, cheating, nagging and comparison attitudes..

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Martin0:
THE BEST MARRIAGE ADVICE EVER!!




Choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling.


Always answer the phone when your husband/wife is calling and when possible, try to keep your phone off when you’re together with your spouse.


Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the “currency of relationships” so consistently invest time into your marriage.




Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage and remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.


Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share moments of joy, and even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh.


In every argument, remember that there won’t be a “winner” and a “loser.” You are partners in everything so you’ll either win together or lose together. Work together to find a solution.




Remember that a strong marriage rarely has two strong people at the same time. It’s usually a husband and wife taking turns being strong for each other in the moments when the other feels weak.Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. It takes more than sex to build a strong marriage, but it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it!


Remember that marriage isn’t 50-50, divorce is 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100. It’s not splitting everything in half, but both partners giving everything they’ve got!


Give your best to each other, not your leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.


Learn from other people, but don’t feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone else’s. God’s plan for your life is masterfully unique!


Don’t put your marriage on hold while you’re raising your kids or else you’ll end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.


Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.


Never lie to each other. Lies break trust and trust is the foundation of a strong marriage.


When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and humbly seek forgiveness. You should be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”




When your husband/wife breaks your trust, give them your forgiveness instantly which will promote healing and create the opportunity for trust to be rebuilt. You should be quick to say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”


Be patient with each other. Your spouse is always more important that your schedule.


Model the kind of marriage that will make your sons want to grow up to be good husbands and your daughters want to grow up to be good wives.


Learn from other people, but don’t feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone Else. God’s plan for your life is masterfully unique!


Never talk badly about your spouse to other people or vent about them online. Protect your spouse at all times and in all places.


Always wear your wedding ring. It will remind you that you’re always connected to your spouse and it will remind the rest of the world that you’re off limits!


Connect into a community of faith. A good church can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.


Pray together. Every marriage is stronger with God in the middle of it.


When you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, say nothing every time!


Never consider divorce as an option. Remember that a “perfect marriage” is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

Never take your disputes, grievances or issues to third parties, which also includes your in-laws.

The best marriage advise is to never ask, seek, look, for it from others. Marriage is not define by the thoughts of another. It's simply between you and your lover. And can't no other guide it. When you do you heading for a separation, very soon. Be what your lover needs, not what your homegirls and or male friends tell you to be.

Martin0

Thegeneralqueen:
Martin0

yes madam!

Martin0:

yes madam!

Good morning sir

Thegeneralqueen:
Good morning sir

morning, remember I don't like "Sir".
how ur side na

Martin0:


morning, remember I don't like "Sir".

how ur side na

OK..... I'm fyn I guess your recent thread was meant to throw jabs at me.... how the hell did I drive you away




Anyway when I'm I coming.....?

Thegeneralqueen:
OK..... I'm fyn I guess your recent thread was meant to throw jabs at me.... how the hell did I drive you away




Anyway when I'm I coming.....?

hahahahah hahahahah hahahahah am dying here,abeg ooo I did not throw any jabs at you ooo chai biacan na wa for you ooo ....

hahahah you eh always fighting me even when I did nothing I just created that thread just for me and everyone to learn!

Thegeneralqueen:
OK..... I'm fyn I guess your recent thread was meant to throw jabs at me.... how the hell did I drive you away




Anyway when I'm I coming.....?

come where Biko

Martin0:


hahahahah hahahahah hahahahah am dying here,abeg ooo I did not throw any jabs at you ooo chai biacan na wa for you ooo ....

hahahah you eh always fighting me even when I did nothing I just created that thread just for me and everyone to learn!

Oh yes you do why will you create that kind of thread when you know you have a relationship to work on


I'm not fighting you but fighting for what's mine look at where we are right now who did this to us

Martin0:

come where Biko

Your place

Martin0 are you married? Nice post though

Thegeneralqueen:
Your place

ha biacan na wa for you ooo, have you imagined how or visit ajagunle or mushin before

or have you watched welcome to America, I live in a shithole oo...

or do you wanna come visit your friends here

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Martin0 are you married? Nice post though

oh thanks! that is the one and only Nwanyietiti

Martin0:


ha biacan na wa for you ooo, have you imagined how or visit ajagunle or mushin before

or have you watched welcome to America, I live in a shithole oo...

or do you wanna come visit your friends here

Martin why are you doing this to us

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Martin0 are you married? Nice post though

oh that is the thanks! one and only Nwanyietiti

Thegeneralqueen:
Martin why are you doing this to us

to us kwa;Dhia

Thegeneralqueen:
Oh yes you do why will you create that kind of thread when you know you have a relationship to work on

haba na wa ooo, problem plenty for life sha! A relationship to work on ur own is in you





I'm not fighting you but fighting for what's mine look at where we are right now who did this to us

Were are still friends na what belongs to you will definitely be urs biacan

Didn't finish*tired face * but we'll said

Martin0:


Were are still friends na what belongs to you will definitely be urs biacan

Martin let's make it official

Thegeneralqueen:
Martin let's make it official

this is not ekwu-eme see like I said what belongs to you will definitely be urs,

Martin0:

to us kwa;Dhia

Stop all this pretence and let's make this work

Thegeneralqueen:
Stop all this pretence and let's make this work

hahahah hahahahaha Na WA ooo

Martin0:


this is not ekwu-eme see like I said what belongs to you will definitely be urs,

Let's make it work Martin I so much believe in you

Martin0:

hahahah hahahahaha Na WA ooo

You're always running away why

Thegeneralqueen:
Let's make it work Martin I so much believe in you

hahahahah come I don't wanna laugh this morning oo

**drinks cold fanta ** aaaahhh