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8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by xpressng(m): 7:08pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Women can be confusing. Sometimes as a man, you can waste your time pining for girls who don’t really like you all that much, while missing out on girls who adore you. It’s awful to have to confront the idea that the girl of your dreams may not actually be that into you. But if a lady gives you several of the following signs, there’s a huge probability that she’s wasting your time… 1. She replies with “I’ll let you know” or “I’ll think about it” when you make a request. A girl that likes you doesn’t have to ‘let you know’ or think about everything. A girl that likes you will always be excited when you ask her things or make requests. We all know that when a girl says “I’ll let you know,” what you asked for always ends up not happening. So if these statements come up a lot, make an exit. 2. She always gives excuses when you want to meet her. As a general rule: If a woman is into you, she’ll make time to hang out with you, no matter how busy she is. Even the busiest of women will put aside a day or a few hours a week to see you. If she’s always too busy for you, you should be skeptical. 3. She never texts you first. When you’re texting and calling first and she never takes the initiative to be the first to text or call you, it’s a clear sign something is off and you may be wasting my time. If you’re making 75% effort and she’s only making 25%, it’s unfair to you and you’re being played like a fiddle. Walk away. 4. Or her replies to your texts are very brief. If you’ve received your 10th “K” or “yup” text in a row from her, I am sorry to break it to you, but there’s nothing going on between you. Same applies if she’s always responding with emojis only. If you are not even receiving enthusiastic responses to your texts. it’s a pretty clear sign that it’s time for you to move on. 5. She never wants to come to your place yet you’ve known each other for a while. Meeting in public is kinda fine if it’s the first date – most women prefer to meet in a public place at first just to make sure you’re not creepy or dangerous. But if she continuously insists on hanging out in public places, it’s a bad sign. She doesn’t want to get intimate with you. 6. She only texts or calls when she needs a favor. Sometimes girls “use” guys for favors and then magically disappear when they don’t need anymore “help”. You may see it as being a cool and nice guy by helping her out, but you also have to be smart enough to recognize when “helping her” is becoming too much a pattern, you’re getting nothing in return, and she says things like, “Aww you’re so sweet and such a great friend!” 7. She avoids being alone with you. Maybe she does make time to hang out with you but it’s always in a group setting. Even if it’s in a house, she only meets you when there are friends and other people around. It’s always in a spot where she won’t be one-on-one with you. This means she’s trying to avoid giving you the opportunity to make a move and/or she doesn’t want to lead you on. 8. She keeps complaining about other men to you. Does she use you as a therapist? Does she go on and on about how other men are assholes and dogs? How she can’t stand the way this guy or that guy treats her. Has she even told you how she “wishes more guys were like you?” Don’t be too hopeful. She’s actually friend zoning you you. She wishes more guys were like you, because she’d never actually date you.Why is she wishing for a guy like you, when she has you right there? It’s a platitude. She’s not that into you. When she just wants to vent about her feelings for an hour and doesn’t want to do anything sexy afterwards, dump her. source: https://omgvoice.com/relationships/time-wasting-girls 53 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by ipobarecriminals: 7:21pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
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Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by Perfectnumber6(m): 7:35pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Can't say much my Ex had all these traits and thought i would be patient forever with her. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by xpressng(m): 7:42pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Perfectnumber6: it hurts bruv I've been there too. worst part is she always wanted me to put a hole in my purse for her 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by Perfectnumber6(m): 7:52pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
xpressng:. It is well with us, mine deliberately blocked me on all her social medias, but I just felt I loved her so she over stretched the rope i gave to her and was still asking me for money which sometimes I just use my mind, but when I told her it was over just few days ago she thought I was joking. She's gonna keep calling me but it would be too late. These girls are wicked and heartless and they don't feel any remorse atall , just because they felt you loved them right. 49 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by xpressng(m): 7:59pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Perfectnumber6: painful ah swear. but learn never to make the same mistakes you made again. I have learnt my lessons and I had to learn it the hard way. but now I'm a pro. download this PDF and read meet other ladies. search on google for Neil Strauss - the game.pdf download and become a pro send less, spend less, and have them drooling. regards xpress 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by Nobody: 8:02pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Very true 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by Perfectnumber6(m): 8:06pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
xpressng:. I will do that now bro, I learnt the hard way too, for a girl to have suddenly decided on her own that she doesn't want to be intimate with me anymore, but she can open her mouth to still be asking for financial assistance I mean that's so absurd. 5 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by Xinjin: 8:17pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Y 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by MrRichmond: 8:18pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Girls will never smell this thread.. op don open their nyash ![]() 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by xpressng(m): 8:21pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
[quote author=Perfectnumber6 post=66571499]. I will do that now bro, I learnt the hard way too, for a girl to have suddenly decided on her own that she doesn't want to be intimate with me anymore, but she can open her mouth to still be asking for financial assistance I mean that's so absurd.[/quote I bet she is fvcking someone else now. the only reason she still speaks with you is for the gains and nothing more. I bet she showed the signs but you didn't see em. never have one chick bruv. go out meet women but don't ask them out just be friends with em till you finish reading that PDF. get in touch I will give you more PDF free so a brother can learn 14 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by Perfectnumber6(m): 8:31pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
[quote author=xpressng post=66571761][/quote]. According to her she said she wants to be closer to God and become Churchy. I choosed to believe her though. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by xpressng(m): 8:44pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Perfectnumber6: I feel your pain bruv. if there was nothing to hide why block you on all social media. even my pastor is on Facebook bruv. and you said you believed her.? oh my, well it could be 50-50 true or false. but hear me she's playing you bruv. she has your balls and now using it as her play thing. block her on all social media. send less. note that in every relationship the one that love less controls the relationship. guard your heart. there are other women out there who needs you bruv. you too handsome to be held Ransome.lol note don't ever tell a woman you love her. the best you can do is show her. and not go sing praises. don't take her calls. don't reply her messages. just let her go. find someone else. always have at least 3. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by Nobody: 8:46pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
I strongly disagree. 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by davida222(m): 8:53pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
[quote author=xpressng post=66571761][/quote]. ![]() |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by Perfectnumber6(m): 8:56pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
xpressng:. Yeah this is true she knew i loved her so much and am the kinda guy that hates to double date it not just in my DNA. And i tried to please her, well I am just gonna feel it for a while but believe me am a strong character and sooner or later she would run back begging. 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by xpressng(m): 8:58pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
davida222:please I'm sorry can't give that out here. but you can mail me and we will talk protectmymails@protonmail.com |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by xpressng(m): 9:07pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Perfectnumber6: oh no. you need experience with women now bruv before one keeps you in lock and band as a wife. so you need to have friends female friends. you not gonna date them you just gonna learn how diff ladies behave. believe me you would always have this problem. women of these days are cruel bruv. reorganise you DNA bruv. once you love one woman you start acting needy and clingy and the life in relationship will die gradually. 7 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by rex444(m): 9:57pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Whoever raised this topic really did hit the nail at the head...I barely saw any female folk comment ....it's so true but Bros,when u get a new device,first thing is backup files n folders,they are like files n folders after I lost 10k dolls .....we all learnt the hard way 5 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by siegfried99(m): 8:37am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Hmmm 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by Nobody: 9:22am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Church sister once played smartness with me Thank God I'm now free 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by xpressng(m): 1:03pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
derprince: that's good to know. let's be liberated all of us. don't make the same mistakes again. |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by xpressng(m): 8:45pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
rex444: don't make the same mistakes again. |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by Vikky014(f): 9:06pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
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Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by greatjoshy(m): 10:14pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Okay...... Hmmmmm now I know. Lemme call her now and warn here well 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by SamuelTurner(m): 10:15pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Generations of Nina, Manchester city, Barca, Arsenal and Buhari Confused 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by tokrizy: 10:15pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
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Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by MrRhymes101(m): 10:15pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
This thread is funny... Wedding MC |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by Nobody: 10:16pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Forget story. If she is not giving you the nunu on the steady, she is just wasting your time. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by Nobody: 10:16pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
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Re: 8 Signs She's Just Wasting Your Time by nathan26: 10:17pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
True. 1 Like 1 Share |
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