Are Nigerian men really crude and unromantic?

Maybe and maybe not but the gist out there is that Nigerian men are not romantic, generally speaking. The topic - how unromantic the average Nigerian man is - came up during a discussion I had with a friend a couple of days back. So, is it true the average Nigeria guy is not romantic? Even in bed, it is rumored, that they just want to dive in and dive out and tell themselves they have done a good job. Seriously, some say Nigerian men are crude and unromantic and hasty in bed and again this is generally speaking.

"Bhet why na bros?"
Could it be they do not have the necessary touch and skills? Or perhaps many men do not bother to observe the body language of their woman to know what she wants? Or maybe just too busy chasing after too many women at the same time to be able to please any one of them? Or it could just be that you are so busy chasing after money that other “things” are now busy chasing after your woman? Little wonder the issue of DNA is now becoming a big one among some married couples because married women are getting the attention they lack at home from other sources outside the home. Yes, you heard me right, it is happening - some other person is about to take your woman and you do not even know it. Now i see you going "huh"? I promise you if you stop to look and listen long enough, there are things that you will see and hear even without her showing you or saying a word.


Your money or your love?
I would say both! Perhaps African men believe the only thing an African woman wants from them is money or material things. We definitely want money and all the other good stuff (sorry ladies for letting it out. Y’all know that I know what we know, right?) but sometimes, money alone is not just enough. Money and other material things will not, cannot replace the love and care and warm embrace that you are supposed to provide for your woman on a regular basis.

So what now?
Let us look at 12 very simple things you can do for her and with her. You can be creative and come up with your own stuff but I guarantee you, these simple suggestions will endear you to her and keep her happy - I should know #wink

1. Start with the easiest - buy her a dozen thongs or whatever style of panties it is she likes to wear. And some bras too won’t be a bad idea. Oh, you do not know her size. Shame on you. Anyway, in case you do not know what they look like,here are a few samples. Okay, so it does not have to be a dozen but you get the idea.



2. Buy her a great perfume. You can decide to splurge some good money on that or you can get a simple yet nice one – it is the thought that counts. The cost is totally up to you. Go with what you can afford but do not step it down if you know what I mean.

3. Give her a bath. Run a warm bubble bath for both of you every weekend or every other weekend or as often as opportunity presents itself and give her a body scrub while in the tub (get a gentle body scrub).
4. Massage her feet sometimes. Oh the soothing effect of a foot massage cannot be described! Those feet get tired from standing or from walking around all day long at home or at work.
5. You can rub some sweet smelling cream/lotion all over her body some nights before you tuck her into bed. Better still, give her a body massage with a good massage oil and thank me later for the ‘consequences’


https://annispiration..ca/2018/04/12-simple-romantic-things-naija-men.html

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Give your life to Christ first

And then what else?

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Give your life to Christ first

Abeg, who is this? That post is for husbands.


@Topic : I wish our men will read and learn. Good write up!