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Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by Junny04(m): 11:15am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Guess the guy didn't listen to the audio because if he did he would realize that the man started the whole stuff judging from the aspect where she refused him the first time because she was having her period...also judging from the fact that the man said she missed the opportunity when he tabled it for her..... 4 Likes |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by delishpot: 11:16am On Apr 10, 2018 |
boolet: Yinmu! You already were cutting those sex for mark lecturers some slack. I hope every lecturer who collects bribe(in cash or kind) both males and females will be kicked out of our institution. 2 Likes |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by Junny04(m): 11:20am On Apr 10, 2018 |
delishpot:The dude is confused...trying to bring out justification where there is none...even if she offered herself, Is he meant to accept?...aren't lecturers meant to be morally upright to train the leaders of tommorow.....? ..to make it worse, he is a married Reverend... Shame on him and those defending him 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by Mires: 11:21am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Jascon4: Agreed! It's so unfortunate what the society has turned into these days more especially in this era where social network has adversely affected students academic performance. I am not here to exonerate the prof but if the truth must be told, every human has different level of resistance to crime, be it sexual pervasion or the rest. Indeed, the prof is a human and none of us could attest his level of resistance. We can only boast of our own and not even that of our compatriots, colleagues or brothers. As an insider in academic environ, I want to categorically say that most of the sexual pervasion on our campuses are initiated by female students who either want to have sex with male lecturers for marks, fame or money. Unfortunately, lecturers are hardly disposed with money to the point of leveraging it on sex. During my NYSC several years ago when I was for the first time to officially be assigned courses to lecture both HND and ND students, as if I knew before what I was about to faced then, I decided that I must maintain my integrity and etiquette on the job. It wasn't only shocking but I couldn't still believe how some of the female students approached me on the premise of ready to do anything for marks. I could recall one of them insulting me when I said "No". She even reminded me the day my mother gave birth to me. That I shouldn't feel as Mr Lecturer. That I am a common corper wee. Lol. Sincerely, I couldn't wait for the NYSC year to be over to leave that Polytechnic. I saw a different academic environment in relation to where I was trained. Today, when I look at the rate at which nepotism has taken the order of the day in employment of young academics in our universities and polytechnics in relation to some wayward girls on our campuses, I weep for our country.. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by Kotodoctor: 11:22am On Apr 10, 2018 |
delishpot: You still don't get the point do you? It's s given that lecturers are currupt. However allowing young female student get away with this, ultimately exempt them of blame. Is like asking in case of adultry, we're is the man? Women true like playing the victim card. I have seen this first hand in my school days. Am Not making a case for lectures. Far be it from me. But women on there part should learn to take responsibility. We all know they are two state away from innocent. This even translate to the Labour market. You look at the banks and it dominated by women, mtn offices nkor. Yet everyone act like they are there on merit list. Women know what they want, most times they end up using us. Men are the real victimes here. Because when a woman decide to exact her powers on a man, it take the grace of god to resist.Am just being honest. However, when it comes into the open, they are too a shame to admitt. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by boolet: 11:30am On Apr 10, 2018 |
delishpot:Not at all Mr. I am condemning the givers as well. Don't give, don't take. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by dollynnn(f): 11:34am On Apr 10, 2018 |
free this man biko....they re both Adults. He didn't fail her intentionally, she got what she submitted as her answers.He didnt approach her nd tell her what he wanted rather she went to meet him...she should av accepted her failure honorably but she preferred to manoeuvre her ways..if the lecturer had promised her A or B ,she would av jumped at the offer! I need to defend this man! |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by SAMBARRY: 11:35am On Apr 10, 2018 |
HeyCorleone:exactly |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by SaroWiwa: 11:48am On Apr 10, 2018 |
I don't agree that the girl is playing a victim here. If you ever school in Nigeria, you will know that this is a common trend among the male lecturers. Yes not everyone can pass a course at the same time, but what is the lecturers' motives? There are lecturers who set their exams to make sure many fail. The more people that fail, the more students will meet them for assistance (blocking/sorting) either paying in cash or kind, to pass. You know the rest. I know of morally upright lecturers, students hardly fail their exams and if you do and resit for the exams, you are sure to pass. With such ones, you can never try to tempt them, takeless of incriminating them in this kind of embarrassing situation. If strict measures are not taken against this kind of lecturers, our educational system will continue to go down. Every students must not graduate, that's why we have school drop outs and WAF. Everybody must not go to school, they may be better in something else. The lecturers are supposed to fish that out and not to succumb to their sexual advances to keep them in the academic environment. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by Jascon4: 11:56am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Mires: Nice. You said you weren't trying to exonerate the professor, but your narrative says otherwise. The man in question had two choices, indulging his inordinate desire and simply saying NO. Saying NO, would not cause him any bodily pains or any form of suffering to justify the ease at which he embraced such practice. I ask again, if saying yes had come with the death penalty, would he have said yes? This further buttresses my point, that it was a matter of choice and he deliberately wanted to do it. There is nothing to blame but himself. 3 Likes |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by delishpot: 11:57am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Kotodoctor: I get your point and believe me when such cases are made public I will condemn the woman. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by delishpot: 11:59am On Apr 10, 2018 |
SaroWiwa: Unfortunately a few men believe that a man should never be held accountable for his moral misconduct. Just blame it on the woman. 2 Likes |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by kimoyo: 12:10pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
This lecturer no be new thing. Back in the mid/ late 90s, the fear of falling into his hands was the beginning of wisdom. Everyone prayed to pass his course at a sitting especially girls. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by Codes151(m): 12:11pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
The guy is a fool.. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by Rapsino(m): 12:12pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
delishpot:I understand ur content. But if I am single and have such encounter I will have sex. I said my mind. But believe me this girls are persistent. It's not easy the way you see it.. Maybe the main one never jam u |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by MrHistorian: 12:26pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Tozara:Are you a medical student at OAU? 1 Like |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by Opoki(m): 12:31pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Olablessinq2016: I dey here to support his dream, I once it's posted, call my name, I I always support people and their dream, I hope the song is good, not promoting violence, drug, sex, Fraud and your friend is not trying to sound like wizkid? |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by Antichristus: 12:35pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Evidence1000: Google the man’s name right now and see the shame he has brought to his family? In saner climes, his career is over. No academic institution would ever trust him. He won’t even be allowed to teach in a school. Nigeria is a country where people act with impunity. To the OP, thanks for demonstrating your lack of civility. 2 Likes |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by rabzy: 12:50pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
mekstaniac: There are lecturers that can fail you 77 times until your existence becomes meaningless. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by delishpot: 12:51pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Rapsino: shey the real Delilahs? The real endtime childrens? well if you chose to have sex with the student, that is because you feel entitled to the awuf and you make a choice to chop and clean mouth when offered not because you were too helpless to say no. Those are two different things. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by ImaIma1(f): 12:54pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Does any of this nullify the fact that the man demands for sex from students which should be against his ethics as a lecturer? Whether the girl is a runs girl or fly girl, victim or perpetrator, if the lecturer faces his work squarely and doesn't demand or accept sex from students, she won't see who to sleep with. The case her is the man taking advantage of ladies, virgin or otherwise. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by armadeo(m): 1:05pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
delishpot: You really got it. There are some lecturers in the department that she would ever dare to call and talk to like this. This man was open to suggestions and is known for this that's why she tried it and apparently they had actually discussed the issue before. Anyway that doesn't remove the stain from the girl cos she's also prone to exchanging sex for marks her grouse was the score appeared uneven to her. The lecturer is to blame in this case cos his mates have been offered and they said no but he just needed to " nack" that girl. 1 Like |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by yusman14(m): 1:12pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Pavore9:we av good schools in lagos and imo state..mayb u wanna refer to d northerners |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by yusman14(m): 1:14pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Xisnin:jail??on top wat..d gal approach him...she shud av study er books |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by 4C2215131: 1:14pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1: E go die if e read! 1 Like |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by 4C2215131: 1:18pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
delishpot: Hear ye! Hear ye!! 1 Like |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by Xisnin(m): 1:19pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
yusman14:Lecturers are not god, they can be approached for anything! Those who don't want to be approached should resign asap and get another job. This "professor" should have lost his job now and be facing jail term for corruption. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by 4C2215131: 1:19pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
mamatwiny: Talk about eating his cake and having it! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by charain: 1:21pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1:You don't read either, nowhere did the girl approach the lecturer for sex. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by Pavore9: 1:25pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
yusman14: Public or private schools?Why your limit to these 2 states? |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by armadeo(m): 1:31pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Tozara: Brilliant. I think both of them should be punished. The girl whom it should be proven offered and the prof who accepted in order to set precedence for the future. |
Re: Sex For Mark: "OAU Female Student Should Stop Playing The Victim" - Man Says by adelowor(f): 1:33pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
[quote author=Evidence1000 post=66583794] Fine! It is wrong but would they put sugar in your mouth only for you to reject it? You see, it's not everyone that has the strength to withstand temptations. [/quot Oga, which temptation? Is the lady naked before him or what, that he cudnt reject the offer. |
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