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Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by SirToby(m): 4:08pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Good evening friends. It all started with malaria two weeks ago and i used Lonart, i was relieved for some period and i started feeling feverish again. I ran a test and it confirmed Malaria is still positive, and the doctor prescribed P alaxin, i used it but i started feeling restless and uncomfortable since saturday, i have not been Sleeping well, even in my short sleep i have nightmares. i started using Piriton two days ago but i have not been feeling alright, my mind is so heavy and my heart beats so fast, i can't just sleep. I have tried to calm myself down and my friends also have spoken to me but it has not been working and i just don't know what to do. IN ADDITION: I'm a pastor's child and similar thing happened to me last year, i was so sick that i could not sleep for days, i remember i prayed and promised God never to have any intercourse with any woman till i marry if i can be healed and start having a good sleep. But the fact remains i'm not a wayward child and the last time I had sex prior to that prayer was 2015. But two weeks ago, i was tempted and i could not resist the urge and i had sex with a lady but the sickness has already began prior to the sex but it has not Metamorphosized to sleeplessness and restlessness. I have asked God for forgiveness and i sincerely promise him never to do such again and i'm ready to stand by it this time. I knelt on the alter after Sunday service to make the vow. But i'm scared maybe God is punishing me for breaking my vow with him the first time and he wants me to confess to my parents that are pastors. Please i need reasonable advise, i'm so scared to sleep whenever i wants to, my eyes are so red as i'm typing now due to lack of sleep. And which medicine can i talk or what can i do to put my mind at rest. Thanks Friends. 18 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by donstan18: 4:10pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
You didn't sanctify the sex you had with that lady. You should have prayed before sex, we should always remember to call God in every enjoyment we do, for he is our provider. Always pray before sex by saying. Bless us oh Lord, and bless this our gift, which we are about to receive and enjoy, out of your bounty and goodness, through christ our lord. Amen! 403 Likes 29 Shares |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by UDUJ(m): 4:11pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
![]() ![]() I will explain in detail once I get home. ![]() 172 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by SirToby(m): 4:11pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
donstan18:Bro i'm serious. i need help. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Nobody: 4:26pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Wanted to say something until I read the spiritual aspect. What to do I know about the spiritual. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Headlesschicken(m): 4:28pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by SirToby(m): 4:35pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
UDUJ:Thanks bro. I'll be waiting for you |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by mistyebby(f): 4:46pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
donstan18: Wonderful. Marital or premarital sex?? ![]() So if you pray before, what will you do afterwards? 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by SirToby(m): 4:47pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Grayjoy:Just advice me on how i can calm down and have a sound sleep. The last time you had a good sleep was on Friday. |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by donstan18: 4:51pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
mistyebby: Both partners will pray again saying. We give you thanks almighty God, for this and all your benefits, you who live and reign forever and ever. Amen! 68 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by mistyebby(f): 4:51pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
SirToby: I agree with Uduj, its in your head. Be patient and let him explain. But have you been idle lately? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Nobody: 4:52pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
![]() So You Are Joking with God. What You Dont Know Is That God Has A Very Low Sense Of Humor.... He Forgave You First Time And You Went Back Again... Right Now, God Will Be Telling The 24 Elders "This Boy Thinks I'm his Mate"... 92 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Nobody: 4:58pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
SirToby:Stop being anxious abt slp. Don't just rush urself to bed. U can as well seek medical attention, that is when u'll know what is actually wrong. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by minexpo(m): 5:10pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
My guy...you are just broke. ... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by highpriestess: 5:16pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
DeadRat:lool 12 Likes |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by TonyeBarcanista(m): 5:18pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
DeadRat:Lols you de use God de play? 61 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by MissRaine69(f): 5:23pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Goodness me where do you start? What’s more pertinent here Malaria Your dreams The fact that you had sex Praying Insomnia? 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Preshy561(f): 5:25pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
malaria always comes with terrible dream, the last time I had malaria,it wasn't funny in my dream. 10 Likes |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by SirToby(m): 5:29pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
mistyebby:yeah in my head i agree. i have been a little bit idle. i'm a lil bit weak due to lack of good sleep. i have work to do but no motivation to do it, eyes are always red. last time I had a good sleep was on Friday. |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by SirToby(m): 5:33pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
DeadRat:So scary. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Jabioro: 5:43pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Nothing do you,get one devana drink,call the babe again this time around measured you drill the bore hole perfectly.No roforofo,clean and dried hole should be your watch words by then you will be weak and tired..sleep go cover your eyes like a little baby.As for your sin with God,He had not noticed anyone yet except if you hav gone for 7 by 70 equal 490 sins in a day, (remebered how many times l must offended you before it become a sin) therefore your sin record is empty . 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by UDUJ(m): 5:57pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
SirToby please don’t bring religion into this. God is not punishing you for any activity you feel you did ![]() You suffer from Anxiety. Anxiety is a mental health disorder and affects over 60% of Nigerians but because of the way our society is designed we decide not to treat it cause of the supposed stigma attached to such. When people think of anxiety, they think of worrying and stress. They think of fears and a feeling as though something is going to go wrong. Anxiety is seen in thoughts and actions. But anxiety has a tremendous physical component, and one of the key contributors to those physical sensations is long term stress. This Stress has a tremendous impact on your health, and one of the most common conditions is feeling ill. The stress from anxiety can cause feelings of very genuine sickness. These feelings often mimic the way illnesses make you feel. Your stomach can feel like it's rumbling and you may even feel like you are having fever or malaria. Feeling sick may be a sign that you've fallen ill, but it can also be a clear sign of anxiety. When we are stressed and the stress is a prolonged one (e.g. grief), it is physically very hard on the body to maintain this stress response for a prolonged period, so we have to find ways to take our body out of this stress response. Some of these ways are spending time with friends, counselling, medication, mindfulness, making sure we eat and sleep enough, massage, hypnosis etc. There are lots of different things that can help. Anxiety can weaken your immune system, increasing the risk of suffering from mild illness. Feeling ill is something that often causes concern. Some people feel so sick that they vomit or experience profound nausea that keeps them away from their activities. Some people experience more than just nausea as well. They may experience other symptoms that are similar to catching a fever, malaria or flu. They may feel like their organss are swollen, or their tongue is dry. They may feel lightheaded. They may even cough or experience severe stomach discomfort, like indigestion. When anxiety is causing these symptoms, they're not dangerous. Anxiety is simply your body's misfiring of the body's natural fight or flight response, and the way your body reacts is designed to make sure that you know you're supposed to be fearful. The problem isn't the signals themselves, the problem is that you're experiencing them all the time, often when it is inconvenient. People feel these symptoms for different reasons: Situational anxiety is actually natural. It's inconvenient, but it's natural. Back in school, if you felt severe illness before a big test, it's because you genuinely feared that test. While tests shouldn't provide that fear, the reaction is not unexpected. But on the other hand, the one you should fear and what I think you have is Feelings of chronic illness from anxiety which is even more problematic, because when your anxiety won't go away, the feeling of being ill won't go away either. It becomes something that makes you feel worse about your health, saps your energy, and can ruin each and every day (all symptoms you are feeling now). My recommendation: go to the clinic and see a trained therapist. He will prescribe some good anti-depressants. You will be okay. ![]() 141 Likes 13 Shares
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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by mistyebby(f): 5:59pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
SirToby: If you are idle, try get busy. When you done with work, see movies, listen to music, chat, come on Nairaland Then it could be nutritional deficiency. So take lots of fruits like orange, banana, pineapple, berries, nuts, vegetables and most important milk or yoghurt before you sleep. Then write out all your worries, promise yourself not to think about them and discard it. You can also visit the pharmacy for some antidepressants recommended by a pharmacist. Also use the opportunity to check your blood pressure. If your blood pressure is normal then you are fine Just calm down okay. You will be fine. You na omo pastor, pray k, prayer is a divine reliever. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by SirToby(m): 6:01pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
mistyebby:Thanks a lot. This advise is golden. i sincerely appreciate. |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by mistyebby(f): 6:04pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
UDUJ: You are such a specialist, well said. 18 Likes |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by thedondada(m): 6:21pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Just go.for the hiv test and rest 19 Likes |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Greatzeus(m): 6:57pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
SirToby:Sir,we are biological beings and spiritual beings,as long as we are humans we will have the cause to fall into different sickness,or bodily injury or pain etc. You need to treat yourself,and stop believing the lie of the devil that God is punishing you because of sex,its a lie. There are many who also do such immoral things,but they dont fall sick after,does it mean they should keep doing it ![]() If you want to be good,be good,not cause you are afraid of hell or judgement. If you want to serve God,serve God not because he will punish you if you dont,but because " You were created to praise him,worship his majesty and give glory to his name"....Buchi 19 Likes |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by SirToby(m): 7:09pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Greatzeus:Thanks brother. i sincerely appreciate. just remember me in your prayers, i need a good sleep. Thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by SirToby(m): 7:17pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
UDUJ:Thanks brother. i will act accordingly. sincerely appreciate. i need your prayers also. Thanks. |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by lenghtinny(m): 7:38pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
donstan18: 5 Likes
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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Precious111(f): 7:57pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
SirToby:From the little I know one of the side effects of Malaria drugs Is that it makes one restless, it caused heavy breathing for me too. I actually think it's the malaria. Then stop making Vows You can't keep to God, if you did it in an Ogun/sango shrine, I believe you will resist the urge and you will even overcome it Self, If you strongly believe it's your vows to God, ask God to forgive you, confess to your parents if you feel the need to, Don't be scared of your parents Afterall you broke the vows You made to God without fear of him killing you. And then if you make a new vow keep to it. About the malaria drugs, if it has finished in your system, you will stop feeling all you mentioned above. I was there last week and it was frustrating... 7 Likes |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by rex444(m): 8:04pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
I don't know but test for hepatitis 1 Like |
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