Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by stepo707: 11:00pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Suffering from guilt and shame.happened to me in 2012...until I confess to my pastor, that's when I felt peace..In this your case it's ur parent.They would be disappointed but they won't beat you....Also you need to stay away from things that will make you fall back again e.g Never being alone in same room with a girl, Never watch porn |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Damicares(f): 11:00pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
donstan18: You didn't sanctify the sex you had with that lady.
You should have prayed before sex, we should always remember to call God in every enjoyment we do, for he is our provider.
Always pray before sex by saying.
Bless us oh Lord, and bless this our gift, which we are about to receive and enjoy, out of your bounty and goodness, through christ our lord. Amen! |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by EMMAG4E14: 11:01pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
bros why are u worring go and get ur self 2 bottles of 33 or star. then u will sleep well, live God for this matter pls. 1 Like
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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Damicares(f): 11:01pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
donstan18: You didn't sanctify the sex you had with that lady.
You should have prayed before sex, we should always remember to call God in every enjoyment we do, for he is our provider.
Always pray before sex by saying.
Bless us oh Lord, and bless this our gift, which we are about to receive and enjoy, out of your bounty and goodness, through christ our lord. Amen! That is an insult to God. Geez! |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Cutehector(m): 11:01pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
The power of pussyy |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Innov8ve1: 11:02pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Stop sleeping with dirty girls ehn
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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by RealGucci: 11:02pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
i no fuc again two married women dey disturb my nos 3idi nla dey wan see me men i no fuc or love again. i wan be self homo now naija girls are useless |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Yoshy: 11:03pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
UDUJ: SirToby please don’t bring religion into this. God is not punishing you for any activity you feel you did ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png)
You suffer from Anxiety. Anxiety is a mental health disorder and affects over 60% of Nigerians but because of the way our society is designed we decide not to treat it cause of the supposed stigma attached to such. When people think of anxiety, they think of worrying and stress. They think of fears and a feeling as though something is going to go wrong. Anxiety is seen in thoughts and actions.
But anxiety has a tremendous physical component, and one of the key contributors to those physical sensations is long term stress. This Stress has a tremendous impact on your health, and one of the most common conditions is feeling ill.
The stress from anxiety can cause feelings of very genuine sickness. These feelings often mimic the way illnesses make you feel. Your stomach can feel like it's rumbling and you may even feel like you are having fever or malaria. Feeling sick may be a sign that you've fallen ill, but it can also be a clear sign of anxiety.
When we are stressed and the stress is a prolonged one (e.g. grief), it is physically very hard on the body to maintain this stress response for a prolonged period, so we have to find ways to take our body out of this stress response. Some of these ways are spending time with friends, counselling, medication, mindfulness, making sure we eat and sleep enough, massage, hypnosis etc. There are lots of different things that can help.
Anxiety can weaken your immune system, increasing the risk of suffering from mild illness.
Feeling ill is something that often causes concern. Some people feel so sick that they vomit or experience profound nausea that keeps them away from their activities. Some people experience more than just nausea as well. They may experience other symptoms that are similar to catching a fever, malaria or flu. They may feel like their organss are swollen, or their tongue is dry. They may feel lightheaded. They may even cough or experience severe stomach discomfort, like indigestion.
When anxiety is causing these symptoms, they're not dangerous. Anxiety is simply your body's misfiring of the body's natural fight or flight response, and the way your body reacts is designed to make sure that you know you're supposed to be fearful. The problem isn't the signals themselves, the problem is that you're experiencing them all the time, often when it is inconvenient. People feel these symptoms for different reasons:
Situational anxiety is actually natural. It's inconvenient, but it's natural. Back in school, if you felt severe illness before a big test, it's because you genuinely feared that test. While tests shouldn't provide that fear, the reaction is not unexpected.
But on the other hand, the one you should fear and what I think you have is Feelings of chronic illness from anxiety which is even more problematic, because when your anxiety won't go away, the feeling of being ill won't go away either. It becomes something that makes you feel worse about your health, saps your energy, and can ruin each and every day (all symptoms you are feeling now).
My recommendation: go to the clinic and see a trained therapist. He will prescribe some good anti-depressants. You will be okay. ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png)
You're knowledgeable on this, are you a doc or therapist? Thar is most likely the diagnosis here. |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by deolurexy1(m): 11:06pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
donstan18: You didn't sanctify the sex you had with that lady.
You should have prayed before sex, we should always remember to call God in every enjoyment we do, for he is our provider.
Always pray before sex by saying.
Bless us oh Lord, and bless this our gift, which we are about to receive and enjoy, out of your bounty and goodness, through christ our lord. Amen! God help you sir |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by pedrilo: 11:07pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
dis one no get mind mumu pikin |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Our Sins Is Always Forgiven In The Sight Of God, Even In Darkest Time. Promises Is like a virgin, but once is broken, it cant be put back together, I guess you fancied it. That was why it went the LEFT way and shit happened and now you are sorry. Bro! Just dont go near promises if you cant stick to it. In other words, sex is like the brain. It is fancied in the eyes of we beings. And people dont know what power it has. Which is not meant to be toyed with anyhow.
In conclusion and solution, You Have To Empty Your Mind First, and go ask for forgiveness from God, you will be suprised when he answers you. and i won't advice you to keep a promise to him if you cant keep to it. - Just Do You, Thats All. |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Op all i can say is that one of those ladies u slept with ..one of them probably has a spiritual husband.it is the spiritual husband that is probably dealing with u. |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Damzy007: 11:09pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Probably your conscience just condemened what you have just done, omo pastor for that matter. |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by belcom10(m): 11:09pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
SirToby:
Just advice me on how i can calm down and have a sound sleep. The last time you had a good sleep was on Friday. , restitution. Tell your parent since ur dad is a pastor. May God Almighty helps us to overcome temptation. Ijn. Amen. |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by addikt(m): 11:10pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
He wants medicines so he can sleep...I would have advice you to take shots of alcohol now buthat yout said you're a pastor's child |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by chronique(m): 11:10pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
SirToby: Good evening friends. It all started with malaria two weeks ago and i used Lonart, i was relieved for some period and i started feeling feverish again. I ran a test and it confirmed Malaria is still positive, and the doctor prescribed P alaxin, i used it but i started feeling restless and uncomfortable since saturday, i have not been Sleeping well, even in my short sleep i have nightmares. i started using Piriton two days ago but i have not been feeling alright, my mind is so heavy and my heart beats so fast, i can't just sleep. I have tried to calm myself down and my friends also have spoken to me but it has not been working and i just don't know what to do.
IN ADDITION: I'm a pastor's child and similar thing happened to me last year, i was so sick that i could not sleep for days, i remember i prayed and promised God never to have any intercourse with any woman till i marry if i can be healed and start having a good sleep. But the fact remains i'm not a wayward child and the last time I had sex prior to that prayer was 2015.
But two weeks ago, i was tempted and i could not resist the urge and i had sex with a lady but the sickness has already began prior to the sex but it has not Metamorphosized to sleeplessness and restlessness. I have asked God for forgiveness and i sincerely promise him never to do such again and i'm ready to stand by it this time. I knelt on the alter after Sunday service to make the vow.
But i'm scared maybe God is punishing me for breaking my vow with him the first time and he wants me to confess to my parents that are pastors. Please i need reasonable advise, i'm so scared to sleep whenever i wants to, my eyes are so red as i'm typing now due to lack of sleep. And which medicine can i talk or what can i do to put my mind at rest. Thanks Friends.
You nor just get yourself at all. Abeg shift make person see road. |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by talk2bity: 11:12pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
U need serious prays |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by SpikenardSlim(m): 11:13pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
According 2ur statement, on the physical lets describe it in medical terms called "INSOMNIA" i.e inability to fall asleep. You could seek 4 further medical consultations and ask for prescriptions that d source of help 4rm my view of understanding. All is well 1 Like |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by BeeBeeOoh(m): 11:15pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by joan1678(m): 11:16pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Raphchuks: 11:16pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
donstan18: You didn't sanctify the sex you had with that lady.
You should have prayed before sex, we should always remember to call God in every enjoyment we do, for he is our provider.
Always pray before sex by saying.
Bless us oh Lord, and bless this our gift, which we are about to receive and enjoy, out of your bounty and goodness, through christ our lord. Amen!
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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by stonekc(m): 11:17pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
lol...u are asshole....cant stop laughing donstan18: You didn't sanctify the sex you had with that lady.
You should have prayed before sex, we should always remember to call God in every enjoyment we do, for he is our provider.
Always pray before sex by saying.
Bless us oh Lord, and bless this our gift, which we are about to receive and enjoy, out of your bounty and goodness, through christ our lord. Amen! |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Teeboi56: 11:18pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
U ave committed promiscuous U we need to ask forgiveness from God before ur life can be settled Quote me |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by sarcasticdude(m): 11:20pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Abeg if u didn't read a single letter in this useless thread like me #blessup |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by computerglobal(m): 11:20pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by nosagold(m): 11:22pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Pray and fast. My Lord is merciful. I know He will have mercy. |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by sarcasticdude(m): 11:22pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Kill him plzz ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif)
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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Zivaharry(m): 11:24pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
DeadRat:
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So You Are Joking with God. What You Dont Know Is That God Has A Very Low Sense Of Humor....
He Forgave You First Time And You Went Back Again...
Right Now, God Will Be Telling The 24 Elders "This Boy Thinks I'm his Mate"...
Nigerian's oooo......na God tell u say he get low sense of humor?....... |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by armpit: 11:25pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
SirToby:
Just advice me on how i can calm down and have a sound sleep. The last time you had a good sleep was on Friday. firstly,God is not punishing you. By having premarital sex, you simply chased him away from you thereby giving witches the chance to torment you. Listen, no matter the number of lab test you go through they won't see beyond typhoid and malaria even at some point they would say you are OK but within you ,you feel you are dieing. What you are going through now is WITCHCRAFT ATTACK. SOLUTION is to invite God back into your life, thank him for Jesus Christ by whom your sin was forgiven THEN start a warfare prayer against any witchcraft agent/coven attacking your life. NB- never listen to that voice that would say you are not yet forgiven. That's the liar speaking. |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Raphchuks: 11:25pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
SirToby: Good evening friends. It all started with malaria two weeks ago and i used Lonart, i was relieved for some period and i started feeling feverish again. I ran a test and it confirmed Malaria is still positive, and the doctor prescribed P alaxin, i used it but i started feeling restless and uncomfortable since saturday, i have not been Sleeping well, even in my short sleep i have nightmares. i started using Piriton two days ago but i have not been feeling alright, my mind is so heavy and my heart beats so fast, i can't just sleep. I have tried to calm myself down and my friends also have spoken to me but it has not been working and i just don't know what to do.
IN ADDITION: I'm a pastor's child and similar thing happened to me last year, i was so sick that i could not sleep for days, i remember i prayed and promised God never to have any intercourse with any woman till i marry if i can be healed and start having a good sleep. But the fact remains i'm not a wayward child and the last time I had sex prior to that prayer was 2015.
But two weeks ago, i was tempted and i could not resist the urge and i had sex with a lady but the sickness has already began prior to the sex but it has not Metamorphosized to sleeplessness and restlessness. I have asked God for forgiveness and i sincerely promise him never to do such again and i'm ready to stand by it this time. I knelt on the alter after Sunday service to make the vow.
But i'm scared maybe God is punishing me for breaking my vow with him the first time and he wants me to confess to my parents that are pastors. Please i need reasonable advise, i'm so scared to sleep whenever i wants to, my eyes are so red as i'm typing now due to lack of sleep. And which medicine can i talk or what can i do to put my mind at rest. Thanks Friends.
Dear, it could be the side effects of the drug(s) you took..... though you played God also! Stop taking the drug(s) for now: then place yourself on water therapy, enough exercise and rest. You may care for a private chat..... Cheers! |
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by emmyfizzy12(m): 11:25pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by adegeye38(m): 11:26pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
SirToby: Good evening friends. It all started with malaria two weeks ago and i used Lonart, i was relieved for some period and i started feeling feverish again. I ran a test and it confirmed Malaria is still positive, and the doctor prescribed P alaxin, i used it but i started feeling restless and uncomfortable since saturday, i have not been Sleeping well, even in my short sleep i have nightmares. i started using Piriton two days ago but i have not been feeling alright, my mind is so heavy and my heart beats so fast, i can't just sleep. I have tried to calm myself down and my friends also have spoken to me but it has not been working and i just don't know what to do.
IN ADDITION: I'm a pastor's child and similar thing happened to me last year, i was so sick that i could not sleep for days, i remember i prayed and promised God never to have any intercourse with any woman till i marry if i can be healed and start having a good sleep. But the fact remains i'm not a wayward child and the last time I had sex prior to that prayer was 2015.
But two weeks ago, i was tempted and i could not resist the urge and i had sex with a lady but the sickness has already began prior to the sex but it has not Metamorphosized to sleeplessness and restlessness. I have asked God for forgiveness and i sincerely promise him never to do such again and i'm ready to stand by it this time. I knelt on the alter after Sunday service to make the vow.
But i'm scared maybe God is punishing me for breaking my vow with him the first time and he wants me to confess to my parents that are pastors. Please i need reasonable advise, i'm so scared to sleep whenever i wants to, my eyes are so red as i'm typing now due to lack of sleep. And which medicine can i talk or what can i do to put my mind at rest. Thanks Friends.
tell ur parents, and sincerely ask God for forgiveness, and decide willfully in ur heart nt to do that again |