really..but have not really dated..but have done a lil countless "mmm"..please what am i?

Fourwinds:
the reason why I keep saying girls should stop dating especially during their teen years....date when you know you are ready to settle down simple ....but greedy, materialistic, money and sex starve individuals won't agree

Can you please just stop this? What happened to dating because you truly love someone? Sometimes, a girl may be nothing close to what you mentioned above and she would still get laid off. It's life. Don't just speak from your perspective.

Chikita66:
Even guys that don't have future plans for you come under the guise of dating you just for sex.

chai Chikita you are going to be very sweet to kane Ooh! you caught my eyez and my mind too!

vicben27:
chai Chikita you are going to be very sweet to kane Ooh! you caught my eyez and my mind too!

Tarrrrrrr! .

MissRaine69:


It’s a two way street just as you argue men are abusing women and dumping them all over the place

What of the women that fleece a man and then leave him when he has nothing?
What is that called?

Women who rely on a man for everything if he can’t hit it what’s the point there has to be some reciprocation that happens it’s difficult to argue otherwise

Some men would like to know what to expect before they get married liken it to test driving a car sometimes you test drive and think maybe I will get this car and then a few months later you realise that the traction control is actually quite bad and you look for another car or you buy it and realise this car costs way too much money let me downgrade.

No one is used some women attach themselves to a guy who has never promised them anything if he has not promised you anything why are you disappointed when nothing happens? While others will ignore the one who wants to be with them for then cause he has no cateans go with the one who is fvucking you, your friends and your aunties and sometimes your mother too! How is that going to end well?

Sex is mutually beneficial don’t make out like the guy was the only enjoying things and the woman can always do no. To apportion blame to men only is ludicrous.

It takes two

girl you get sense oooo....To be sincere if this case was presented to God, His judgement will be similar to this...no bias just the way it should be...Cheers!!!!!

donstan18:
What do I think?

I think you dated a guy who you gave an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere. But the guy properly took advantage of you and dumped you after countless sex.

You garrit

happney65:


And whats the big deal in having sex?Hunnn?What of the time we also spent chasing you?The dates etc?As in what do you people take yourself for?A big deal?The moment you fucck them just once,they start thinking you owe them marriage.if you dont marry them,they've being dumped be that..Shioor

Why should you Bleep a lady that you don't have future plans for, after you ask about their bodycount, don't you know that is how ladies body count increases?

Yes ke!
Wots d essence of dating?

you think only guys dumb girls. wake up ,girls also use and dumb a guy... some of them you are dating ther husband ar outside the country...

not all guys hv the intention of Using and dumping.
girl might misbehave along the line. ..


I hate the word that guys are using girls.. Abeg take note, they use themselves.. the girl for no gree date am Nah..

prechbills1:

Even girls that don't have future plans for you come under the guise of dating you just for money .

Your own is to troll ladies here and there

donstan18:
What do I think?

I think you dated a guy who you gave an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere. But the guy properly took advantage of you and dumped you after countless sex.

After your exile in Mars, you're probably here for revenge...

You bad I swear.

flimzy24:
.keep quiet.And is dating an automatic ticket to gold-digging for u broke ladies.That is all u ladies can offer not even a tangible advice. Fish brains

My brother, don't mind them. As if dating is not an automatic ticket for them to make all the requests that even their parents can't afford. The one that annoys me most is when they tell you that they've been using their great-grandmother's phone.

Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?

pls substantiate your opinion or are u just opinioning for opinion sake?

Don't mind these girls.
Sometimes I'll be on top of a girl and her fiance would call but she would be forming sleepy or busy.
My last date(2016) cheated on me with a secondary drop out when I was awaiting for NYSC. Fučk u ladies!!!

ceeroh:


Same here

Chikita66:
Tarrrrrrr! .

taaar for were now! Chikita? me that girls are dieing for any how, but l dont give a rat asss about them! you have been doing me yori since l saw your sweet pix! l can just fly now n go n bring you the moon ooh!! Chikita Bebie just be my Sun soo that we rise in the morning a light up this dark world Dont allow Lala/Seun Stop our love! even that Dullard Buhari can not stop from loving you chai.

Bla bla bla...typical dumb Nigerian broke ass who thinks all women are broke and have fish brains like them.

flimzy24:
.keep quiet.And is dating an automatic ticket to gold-digging for u broke ladies.That is all u ladies can offer not even a tangible advice. Fish brains

[quote author=ikombe post=66654284]

True talk

I have always asked my self why does guys between 15 - 25 years date. Niggas who are not really ready to settle down with whom they are dating .

Maybe i am just saying dis because am single or i just love to ponder over things i can wrap my heads on >:


Is it love or lust [/quote
My friend you are not far from the truth, 95% of ladies or guys between 20-- 25 years principally date out of lust and for sex. They don't have plans for themselves neither are they mature for relationship and it challenges. The point for them is eat this one,get another eat and look a better one to still eat. With the female folks always loosing. You hear things like pass me the microphone when I finish I will pass to the next and they (the ladies) feel like am a slay queen, men are dieing for me.

nextstep:
OP, I agree with everything except the "free" part.

You think it's free to pay your tfare, or to take you to cinema, or eat shawarma or ice cream? All those drinks, pocket money, hair money, recharge card, parasol money, soup and eba money (abi did you not eat part of it?) - is that free? Even my time is valuable and if I convert the time spent listening to you talk about things I don't care about, and helping you deal with life in general (escorting you to MTN office, following you to bank, following you to sort out your admission, taking you to clinic for that tummy ache, carrying your generator to mechanic, helping you carry mattress from your friend who just graduated, etc). I could have spent this time being productive making money, or improving my studies, or even just recovering from a hard day's work... but we do these things because "we like/love you"

We men pay in so many ways for relationships. I could just pay for olosho for 30 minutes of fun, and still have change and time left over for more productive and relaxing pursuits. So please don't think that women are being used for "free casual sex anytime", as if the woman is not also enjoying being in the relationship and using that to oppress her rivals.

This got me laughing real hard

SoapQueen:



Can you please just stop this? What happened to dating because you truly love someone? Sometimes, a girl may be nothing close to what you mentioned above and she would still get laid off. It's life. Don't just speak from your perspective.

love someone my a** as... what a stupid statement...how can you say you love someone when your intention is not to settle down with the person...you see why a lot of you girls incurs casualties? you are not smart nor wise...

until some of you girls redefine yourselves, you will keep hitting your head on the wall

vicben27:
taaar for were now! Chikita? me that girls are dieing for any how, but l dont give a rat asss about them! you have been doing me yori since l saw your sweet pix! l can just fly now n go n bring you the moon ooh!! Chikita Bebie just be my Sun soo that we rise in the morning a light up this dark world Dont allow Lala/Seun Stop our love! even that Dullard Buhari can not stop from loving you chai.

This is exactly what the op is talking about.

Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?

.
U r making it look as if d lady didnt enjoy sex or any reward in d relationship. As if shes a victim of sex. Yet she enjoyed d sex n d man must have given her cash or gifts too.

Chikita66:
Why should you Bleep a lady that you don't have future plans for, after you ask about their bodycount, don't you know that is how ladies body count increases?

gold digger you've been on nairaland since morning
Why should you request for money from a guy that you don't have future plans for, after you ask about that their financial status, don't you know that is how guys money decrease?

Divay22:

Your own is to troll ladies here and there

trolling which people?
they don't worth my time,, nairaland ladies are broke.

Fools die always....you fagged on sex,sex everytime till u loose yourself in it!

Fourwinds:
love someone my a** as... what a stupid statement...how can you say love someone when your intention is not to settle down with the person...you see why a lot of you girls incurs casualties? you are not smart nor wise...

until some of you girls redefine yourselves, you will keep hitting your head on the wall

What are you saying? What are you trying to tell me? Why do you think all girls are the same? I will only date someone that I love and would want to settle down with. I'm sorry, I can't play around and mess myself up. What if he doesn't feel the same way?


When you are done putting me on blast. Kindly patronize my dishwashing liquid soap. God bless you!

All men are been robbed by this ladies cos of dating, u can imaging somebody propose to his girl friend with diamond and 1,000,000. cheque. And u are there posting crack blaming young and talented boyz,

uzolexis:


Why do pple say ladies are being used and dumped after sex? Did she not also enjoy the sex? I believe sex should be a mutual agreement btw adults. If I am dating you we will have sex and if the relationship does not work, I won't feel "used and dumped" cos I enjoyed the sex as much as you did.

you deserve a cold bottle of zobo(XO)

Chikita66:
This is exactly what the op is talking about.

Lol forget that Op! after he has finished kaneing people daughters he is here claiming self righteousness! both the kaner n the kanee are guilty. lets forget about them n focus on me n you Chikita Bebie! Ooops! l thought OP was a male!

SoapQueen:



What are you saying? What are you trying to tell me? Why do you think all girls are the same? I will only date someone that I love and would want to settle down with. I'm sorry, I can't play around and mess myself up. What if he doesn't feel the same way?


When you are done putting me on blast. Kindly patronize my dishwashing liquid soap. God bless you!

just look at yourself.... what does that nursery argument in your last sentence implies? you think this is secondary school days?...

these are immature Tatum's of secondary or undergraduate students....


you heard me well....date when you are ready to settle down and nothing else simple

Fools die,expecially because of sex.

Bros no be lie u talk oo, we dey chop clean mouth and we go Waka comot.

Fourwinds:
just look at yourself.... who does that nursery argument in your last sentence with you...

these are immature Tatum's of secondary or undergraduate students....


you heard me well....date when you are ready to settle down and nothing else simple

Okay! Thank you! I still anticipate your patronage.