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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Opentokwowledge: 9:42pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
DrinkLimca:Lol. The secret code to heaven is "don't make me feel stuupid".IYKYK |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Opentokwowledge: 9:44pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:JAMB question number 1; What do you understand by African mentality and what are the things you feel are wrong with it? |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:46pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Opentokwowledge:To me any society that is not progressive in it's approach to issues or isn't liberal I term it backwardness and a lot of Africa societies are not openminded to change. 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 9:47pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Liliyann: Aunty, like it or not marriage is an achievement, a big one at that. It might not be an achievement to you, but it is an achievement to thousands if not millions of people, including me. I pray you get the of man you want sha |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Safiaa(f): 9:47pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:darling I live in the western world, and the traditional household is very current. Loads of ‘ stay at home mums’ as they call it and providers being men. It’s not an African mentality, just want to make that clear. You’re entitled to your opinion nethertheless. |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 9:47pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Opentokwowledge:Lol @auspices and attempt at written English. The thing is you are unpredictable and you write in an ambiguous way. Pity is I am not a patient type, If I come across ambiguity, my relationship with the person who made such sentence will determine if I think deeper, ignore or reply with whatever first comes to my mind. sorry about that . I saw one of your chats with Xhosa, if I was the one I would have either ignored you or reacted negatively but she took it well until you came out you were pulling her legs. I still can't get the rationale behind you typing sentences with more than one meaning but want I know is, it's not the best. it pass out wrong messages mostly. Sorry for the epistle ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:48pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Safiaa:Not really sis it depends on the area. 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by donstan18: 9:48pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
It's no news that some persons are masturbating and killing themselves because of the first comment in this thread. I'v gotten more than 3 mentions from the affected and from the non-affected, the only person that will find my comment offensive is a fellow who hates the truth. Ladies should stop prioritizing marriage in their life, it's disgusting and irritating. Be focused and productive, not tomorrow the same set of dumb ladies will start crying and screaming that men are oppressing them wehereas they were busy chasing preeq during their youthful age. If you mentioned me out annoyance and I didn't reply you, just know that you are very very useless, wayward and that nature has done more harm on you, so I won't bother to worsen your case. I have conscience |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Safiaa(f): 9:51pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Yes really love. It’s not an African mentality, the traditional household began from the western world, so how is it an African mentality. Doesn’t make any sense please, but carry on. |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 9:52pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
DrinkLimca:Lol...Take a survey on this thread dude, how many people read, replied and quoted my posts. how many have complained? Be the judge of yourself, and I really hope you don't push it further. You wouldn't want me to type how insignificant your opinion is, would you? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Opentokwowledge: 9:53pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Got the logic. You're like since Africa is backward, then microcosms that make it up must be too. Intelligent but that doesnt always hold true . Some African norms and costums especially those relating to marriage and the likes if adhered to undiluted can be very potent to cure most of the maladies peculiar to those we have wrongly/ inaccurately copied from the West. I can't shout! |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:54pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Safiaa:I can counter your claims and yes we have heard of the stay at home mothers even members of the quiverfull movement and the duggar family hold that view. You would agree that the stay at home mothers are as well conservative and in my post I talked on liberalism. It is no argument some parts of the western society not all and its mainly conservatives that hold the traditional view so what are we not saying. 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 9:54pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:They don't use laptop to surf,, do they? mtchewww |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 9:57pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
It's fine Safiaa: |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:57pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Opentokwowledge: Your opinion what works for A cannot work for B. It is my personal belief and not any western mentality.Some African societies do not let you think outside the box and when you do they term you with different names. I can't argue I need a good night rest. 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 9:57pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
DrinkLimca:Lol....Well my fonts, my data, my problem. Keep scrolling, your stop has never added a value in the first place. Why are you hissing? You chop snail? ![]() |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 9:59pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:lol That is the thing about my ibadan people oo, we have poisonous mouth filled with the most lethal venom. ![]() However, I don't possess such lethal weapon, my mouth and ability to insult is below average ![]() ![]() Although, I possess the accommodating and loving spirit of an ordinary ibadan man ![]() So where are you from. ![]() |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by MrMystrO(m): 10:03pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Safiaa: You Are Gold, Just like that special lady i cherish so much and have sworn to protect with my life. Your words would be exactly what she would have said if she was on this forum. And i also sense you are very mature unlike most kids with access to the internet that are on here. Thanks For this. |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Opentokwowledge: 10:04pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:I understand more than you think. But you should always bear it in mind You'll always have to pay when you dare to be different; Every system, African or even ethereal has a way of dealing with its radicals! You either weather it and carve your own niche or submit to its whims! |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 10:04pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:I feel like whopping your ass |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 10:08pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
greiboy:Speaking of Loving, kikikikiki there is this kind of loving Ibadan people are expert at. ![]() ![]() I'm from Ogun State ![]() |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Opentokwowledge: 10:11pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:A mix of both theories then, As for me and that Xhosa girl, we go way back and our correspondence is more than meets the eye. When I type, respond verbatim. It would help! |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 10:14pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Opentokwowledge:I am too plain to be ambiguous, sarcasm isn't my forte. When you type, be straight forward. It would help! ![]() |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 10:15pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
My sister in the Lord notice I made a thread about you in your absence, you always have an unusual thought pattern, trust me I like it. You always humour me ![]() I always reference your birthday gift coz its a good sign that you have an independent mindset, trust me it's unusual to come across genuinely good and generous people Safiaa: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Opentokwowledge: 10:19pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:I am not attending a party that promises to be boring. Like, sorry beech! |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by dasparrow: 10:20pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
donstan18: In a way I cannot blame the OP for writing this long epistle on marriage. I lived in Nigeria for a few years. Don't live there anymore thankfully. Nigeria is the only country I have ever lived in where you people have a very, very, very unhealthy obsession with marriage and this goes for both your men and women. Tell a Nigerian you sincerely don't want marriage and watch their reaction for a minute. They act like you just told them you committed murder. They begin to get angry, become verbally abusive, start asking 101 questions as to why you don't desire marriage. They go as far as saying "You must marry oooo!!!" Honestly, I have never witnessed anything like that in my life before. In the developed world, marriage is an individual choice and not something you shame, coerce or pressure people into. That is satanic, evil and wrong in all ramifications. It makes you Nigerians look like psychopaths. Like, what the hell? Then again, maybe most of you are psychopaths who knows? And then you wonder why domestic violence is so rampant in many Nigerian marriages if not most along with chronic infidelity. I don't know about you but if I were to be forced/pressured/coerced/shamed into getting married, I would give that bloody Nigerian spouse hell on earth. I don't excel in anything that I genuinely have no interest in, marriage included. What you people do to your young men and women in regards to forcing them into marriage can get you in trouble with the law in more advanced climes. It baffles me that you Nigerians get away with so much Shyte! No wonder your country is a complete mess and embassies don't want to give many of you visas. You people have no respect for people's basic human right. Some people don't want to live a sexually active life perhaps due to child sexual abuse trauma. Some don't want kids. Some don't want to deal with another person's liability. Some have a phobia for sexually transmitted diseases, some have a phobia for pregnancy and the excruciating pain of labor, some are asexual, some are homosexuality. So marriage isn't for everyone and neither is parenting. The day you Nigerians come to term with this facts, news of husbands killing their wives and vice versa will significantly reduce in your country. News of parental abuse or neglect will reduce as well. Trust me. Nigerians should focus on raising healthy and wholesome families not families where domestic abuse and violence along with chronic infidelity and STDs are the order of the day. Besides, many of you are mentally and emotionally unstable. Many of you Nigerians have no business getting married to begin with. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 10:23pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: ![]() ![]() @ ogun ? egba? egbado? |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 10:25pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Opentokwowledge:Its not a do or die thing, we can be parallel lines ![]() |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by highqueen(f): 10:25pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Opentokwowledge: 10:27pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:What's the fun in that? |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:28pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Opentokwowledge:Excuse me sir but how does the epistle you wrote there correlate with my submission? You clearly did not understand my point. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 10:32pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
greiboy:He is denying ![]() ![]() You didn't believe when I typed I'm from ijebu? lol won't be surprised though ![]() |
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