DrinkLimca:
Lol it's very obvious that there is something strange about her..

Was she born into wealth?
Or her dad got the job when they were nothing?

most rich ladies that are stingy were ones poor and were stingy when they had no money so that ability lives with them..

I'm talking about the ones we refer to as princess, the ones that even had their nails done for them..

In school when i pocketed my second semester school fees because my girlfriend paid for it and for all my text books even without asking me..

mehnn it was like I'm in telemundo.. lol

Cindy God bless you wherever you are...

Ladies like that don't care about a guys money..

Ladyhippolyta88:

Check the thread I also commented and some people also gave some nice advice and not everyone insulted you.
I must say some still had the Africa mentality.

Opentokwowledge:
JAMB question number 1; What do you understand by African mentality and what are the things you feel are wrong with it?

Liliyann:
People should realize that marriage is not for everyone!
It is not a guarantee for happiness and not a do or die affairs!!
It pains me when I see people talking about marriage like an achievement which is not!
God knows I won't stress myself over a man!

Ladyhippolyta88:


I avoided quoting you because I don't want to be a part of the argument.
Fortunately for me I don't share your view like I told caps you are conservative and I am not.
It is an African and middle east mentality because some parts of the world has moved on.
You seem to hold to the patriarchal societal view which some people do not believe in.The only thing constant in life is change so hold your opinion and let me hold mine.

Opentokwowledge:
Is my attempt at written English that unintelligible to you, or are you just plain apathetic towards anything coming from my auspices?

Lol @auspices and attempt at written English.

The thing is you are unpredictable and you write in an ambiguous way. Pity is I am not a patient type, If I come across ambiguity, my relationship with the person who made such sentence will determine if I think deeper, ignore or reply with whatever first comes to my mind. sorry about that .

I saw one of your chats with Xhosa, if I was the one I would have either ignored you or reacted negatively but she took it well until you came out you were pulling her legs. I still can't get the rationale behind you typing sentences with more than one meaning but want I know is, it's not the best. it pass out wrong messages mostly.

Sorry for the epistle

Safiaa:
darling I live in the western world, and the traditional household is very current. Loads of ‘ stay at home mums’ as they call it and providers being men. It’s not an African mentality, just want to make that clear. You’re entitled to your opinion nethertheless.

Ladyhippolyta88:

Not really sis it depends on the area.

DrinkLimca:
this your blue font is annoying..

Don't you know it causes pains in the eyes of those that uses laptops to surf nairaland?

baba!!! na wao!!!

When i see your comments, I close my eyes and just click past it.. for real..

Lol...Take a survey on this thread dude, how many people read, replied and quoted my posts. how many have complained?

Be the judge of yourself, and I really hope you don't push it further. You wouldn't want me to type how insignificant your opinion is, would you?

Ladyhippolyta88:

To me any society that is not progressive in it's approach to issues or isn't liberal I term it backwardness and a lot of Africa societies are not openminded to change.

Safiaa:
Yes really love. It’s not an African mentality, the traditional household began from the western world, so how is it an African mentality. Doesn’t make any sense please, but carry on.

RuthDaniels:
Lol...Take a survey on this thread dude, how many people read, replied and quote my posts. how many have complained?

Be the judge of yourself, and I really hope you don't push it further. You wouldn't want me to type how insignificant your opinion is, would you?

Safiaa:
why are you surprised? I’ve always had these thoughts, I always stay stuff like this. One of my popular threads talks about women not dating broke men, so you shouldn’t be surprised. What bothers me is that you keep on bringing a particular situation up, and you know this is not the second or third time. Just stop doing that please.

Opentokwowledge:
Got the logic. You're like since Africa is backward, then microcosms that make it up must be too. Intelligent but that doesnt always hold true . Some African norms and costumes especially those relating to marriage and the likes if adhered to undiluted can be very potent to cure most of the maladies peculiar to those we have wrongly/ inaccurately copied from the West. I can't shout!

DrinkLimca:
They don't use laptop to surf,, do they?

mtchewww

Lol....Well my fonts, my data, my problem.

Keep scrolling, your stop has never added a value in the first place. Why are you hissing? You chop snail?

RuthDaniels:
I have relatives in Ibadan, a lot of them. Lol Ibadan mesi ogo. Hain My cousins can insult . I remember when I got admission, I spent some time with them before getting my own place. Their way of life was strange to me at first, so free, insult flying here and there. At first I used to pick offenses but later when body mix well, I give them back hotter than they dished They thought me bad things oo . What I admire though is they don't take things to heart. I love them so much.

Ibadan people are peaceful and accommodating, they are funny too. I love them a lot. Just that they can abuse .

Safiaa:
It’s not an African mentality love, it’s how it should be. People from all over the world still belive in the traditional household. Centuries ago households all over the world carried this concept so how can you call it an ‘African mentality?’ Everybody is entitled to their opinion, let me just say that.

Ladyhippolyta88:


Your opinion what works for A cannot work for B.
It is my personal belief and not any western mentality.Some African societies do not let you think outside the box and when you do they term you with different names.
I can't argue I need a good night rest.

RuthDaniels:
Lol....Well my fonts, my data, my problem.

Keep scrolling, your stop has never added a value in the first place. Why are you hissing? You chop snail?

greiboy:
lol

That is the thing about my ibadan people oo, we have poisonous mouth filled with the most lethal venom.

However, I don't possess such lethal weapon, my mouth and ability to insult is below average . I am very different

Although, I possess the accommodating and loving spirit of an ordinary ibadan man


So where are you from.

Speaking of Loving, kikikikiki there is this kind of loving Ibadan people are expert at. . I won't go further



I'm from Ogun State

RuthDaniels:
Lol @auspices and attempt at written English.

The thing is you are unpredictable and you write in an ambiguous way. Pity is I am not a patient type, If I come across ambiguity, my relationship with the person who made such sentence will determine if I think deeper, ignore or reply with whatever first comes to my mind. sorry about that .

I saw one of your chats with Xhosa, if I was the one I would have either ignored you or reacted negatively but she took it well until you came out you were pulling her legs. I still can't get the rationale behind you typing sentences with more than one meaning but want I know is, it's not the best. it pass out wrong messages mostly.

Sorry for the epistle

Opentokwowledge:
A mix of both theories then, As for me and that Xhosa girl, we go way back and our correspondence is more than meets the eye. When I type, respond verbatim. It would help!

I am too plain to be ambiguous, sarcasm isn't my forte. When you type, be straight forward. It would help!

Safiaa:
Giving money to someone on their birthday is completely different to providing for someone financially. How much did I give you on your birthday, 5k? Is that really a lot of money, I don’t think so luv. You’re like my bro, not my boyfriend. I don’t understand why you keep on bringing that up as I did that out of my kindness. I’ve never once preached feminism ever, so please piko dey your lane.

RuthDaniels:
I am too plain to be ambiguous, sarcasm isn't my forte. When you type, be straight forward. It would help!

donstan18:
A lady at 20 years........I have 3 rich fresh boyfriends.

A lady at 25 years.........Men are scum.

A lady at 29 years........Women should know their worth, marriage isn't compulsory.

A lady at 33 years..........Marriage is not for everyone, I hate being controlled by a man.

A lady at 36 years.....…Only God knows the best for his people, he never forsakes his people.

A lady at 40 years......You'll see her rolling and crying on the floor in churches

You tried to elevate and advise ladies, but ended up proving to us that marriage is and will continue to be the top priority of a typical African women, your thread's body reeks marriage and relationship only.

**For God sake, is that all you women live for?

**How many times have we seen a lady create thread on how to empower ladies in business or jobs?

**Must every advice to ladies be revolving around marriage and love?

**Is that all you all v'got to achieve in life?

**Can't you all for once think of being productive and competing in political positions, rather than focusing your goals in marriage, love, sex, virgin, heartbreak, boobs and ass?

**The same set of ladies advocating for self worth and marriage now instead of productive things will come tomorrow to cry that men are oppressing them, while they used all their time to advocate for marriage and single life.

**What will happen if you advice them to know their worth in business or creative field, do you know how much the world cherish and crave for women with business and creative ideas

You all are a big disgrace to this nation

Go to universities and see female students prioritizing relationship and making marriage a bone of every of their discussion

This thread is another prove that MARRIAGE is the top priority of Nigerian women.
And until women start having sense about that, men will continue to use and regard you all as sex objects.

RuthDaniels:
Speaking of Loving, kikikikiki there is this kind of loving Ibadan people are expert at. . I won't go further



I'm from Ogun State

Opentokwowledge:
I am not attending a party that promises to be boring. Like, sorry beech!

Its not a do or die thing, we can be parallel lines

RuthDaniels:
Its not a do or die thing, we can be parallel lines

Opentokwowledge:
I understand more than you think. But you should always bear it in mind You'll always have to pay when you dare to be different; Every system, African or even ethereal has a way of dealing with its radicals! You either weather it and carve your own niche or submit to its whims!

greiboy:
I don't know the kind of loving you are talking about

@ ogun

? egba? egbado?

He is denying ... Now I'm suspecting you



You didn't believe when I typed I'm from ijebu? lol won't be surprised though