highpriestess:

who are you asking,are we her? are she we?she us we? is she us?

infact,us we she? she is we??

biko,not everything you bring to social media.

highpriestess:

who are you asking,are we her? are she we?she us we? is she us?

infact,us we she? she is we??

biko,not everything you bring to social media.

thesicilian:
No she's not becoming a leech. She was already a leech long before she met you.

tee59:
That girl of yours is a lair and can't be trusted. She sees you as a maga that can be manipulated. Stop been a father Xmas.She is taking your love for granted. She only loves your money and not you.

CorGier:
Sooner or later, you gon have to toughen that magnanimous heart of yours.
For your information, always being in a haste to lend a helping hand is indeed not only a sign of weakness but neediness.
Relationships like this rarely ever end well as you find yourself giving not because you want to but solely because you feel you have to. In the end it's you who's left hurting when things turn sour cos they ain't never gon be a commensurate level of reciprocity from her part - at least not the way you feel you deserve.

Never go that extra mile brah, even if you're up for it.

highpriestess:

who are you asking,are we her? we are she ?are she we?she us we? is she us?

infact,us we she? she is we??

biko,not everything you bring to social media.

Jamie90:
Ok, I'm in a relationship with this girl and ever since, she's been needing one sort of help from me.

She is always putting herself in precarious situations which could easily have been avoided, and when she does, I am expected to become the Savior.

For clearer emphasis:she used the money her aunt gave her on her needs and she pleaded that I should help her refund her aunt which I did. I also help her out with her numerous frivolities.


Just yesterday, her dad told her about his problems and she promised to be of help. She doesn't live with her dad,rather, with her aunty. Her aunty gave her her ATM to make a withdrawal and she withdrew extra 3k which she gave her dad.

Her unsuspecting aunty later told her that her bank balance should be more than that, and that she will be going to the bank to complain about it.


My girl immediately rushed to her saviour (me) for help, that she will pay back (story for the gods).I have told her countless number of times that she can only give what she has, however, she never heeds my advice


So guys, if I decide not to help her, am I not justified

highpriestess:

who are you asking,are we her? we are she ?are she we?she us we? is she us?

infact,us we she? she is we??

biko,not everything you bring to social media.

highpriestess:

who are you asking,are we her? we are she ?are she we?she us we? is she us?

infact,us we she? she is we??

biko,not everything you bring to social media.

greatnaija01:
BREAK DOWN

you are not a BOYFRIEND... but a BOY ATM.

She is using you to clear up her debts THEN when there is no more debt she would give u a soothing tale to BREAK UP with you, or ALLOW you marry her just for FINANCIAL PROSPECTS....

Pls ask yourself.... WHAT MADE YOU ENTER RELATIONSHIP WITH HER? Is it her BEAUTY? BRAINS? CHARACTER? SHAPE? or PITY?

Because relationship is not ADOPTION and you are already being a MALE NANNY for her and her family....

SEE, a girl in NEED will make you BLEED.

If you leave her she will date a guy that can HELP her... that is how she is CONFIGURED... but she may END UP FALLING FOR A GUY who has no cash and then YOU WOULD BE SHOCKED HOW HER MOUTH WOULD CHANGE... and HOW she would be UNDERSTANDING and want to suffer together with Him...

You MUST be Blind to keep dating a guy that can LISTEN TO YOUR WISE ADVICE.... So IF SHE DIDNT CHARM YOU or you are not under some spell because of her beauty or BODY.... then DELIVER YOURSELF and FLEE.... from every APPEARANCE OF EVIL.

SOCIETY has damaged the aura of RELATIONSHIP by music and movies where they paint to us that the GUY MUST ALWAYS TAKE CARE OF THE EVERY NEED OF THE LADY....
You are already a victim bro.... its time for PRISON BREAK

Chikita66:
You can't tolerate my kind of shite but you can tolerate your girlfriend's beggarly kind of shite. Interesting!

highpriestess:

who are you asking,are we her? we are she ?are she we?she us we? is she us?

infact,us we she? she is we??

biko,not everything you bring to social media.

Jamie90:



Thanks for your advice, I am truly grateful.

However, I must correct something; I am not a victim cos I am not compelled to help.


Whatever happened to the word frivolities which I used in my post. It means that I help her with things that are worthless to me.

Now, her recent demand of 3k is not so worthless to me, that's why I am taking an exception to it

UDUJ:

You no well at all

highpriestess:

goodevening,our dog is missing this night.
the cute dog.

Jamie90:


I am going to shoot you off my thread

CorGier:
Sooner or later, you gon have to toughen that magnanimous heart of yours.
For your information, always being in a haste to lend a helping hand is indeed not only a sign of weakness but neediness
Relationships like this rarely ever end well as you find yourself giving not because you want to but solely because you feel you have to. In the end it's you who's left hurting when things turn sour cos they ain't never gon be a commensurate level of reciprocity from her part - at least not the way you feel you deserve.

Never go that extra mile brah, even if you're up for it.

UDUJ:

My sweet pretty queen
You've been causing trouble in the other thread
How has your day been

highpriestess:
who are you asking,are we her? we are she ?are she we?she us we? is she us?
infact,us we she? she is we??
biko,not everything you bring to social media.