0ubenji:
Did it twice and she says it's a mistake...

She MIS the 1st one and TAKE the second one to make it a mistake..

She had to double check to confirm how sweet a mistake that was

makapella:
Hello Nairalanders,i really need your advice on this one.. Im so confused ryt now..please dont mind my writting pattern.

I hv been dating this girl for many years now,almost close to 6 years..we love ourselves so much and hv sacrifised a lot for each other..i would been long married to her but its quite unfortunate that my parents dont hv any iota of likeness for her.

She has really been there for me,stood by me even when i didn't hv "shi shi".i cant start naming the things we hv done for each other now.

The problem is,i was aware for a period of three months..we didnt really communicate as we used to..during dat period,a guy she claimed was a friend was always visiting her,keeping her company n stuff n i knew about it cos he is a "church guy" n i trusted him n even liked him..
Three months later,she tells me dat she has missed her period n dat she did it just twice cos she was carried away n he showed her much love and care and was even appreciated by d guys family.

Now she is four months pregnant n she is begging me dat she doesnt want to loose me..she cries everyday dat it was a mistake..

Im so confused right now..i love her so much but i cant father another man's child oo n my family will totally hate her now..

Please what do i do?Genuine suggestions please.its a true life story oo..

keezy125:
the earlier you understand all the bitches r the same the better for you (trust no girl) , av gat nothing to tell u,
u knw what you want for urslf but since ur family dnt like her, I think u have to ditch her because u dnt mess with family becus of a woman

912:
I keep telling people that a chic and a dude cannot be "close friends" without smashing. All these chics that claim to have male best friends will never say the truth that it's just another name for friends with benefits.

Anyway op take heart. But you sef wicked. How can you date a girl for six years without moving forward and you still want her to be loyal. Don't you know that she is risking too much just by being in that kind of relationship that is heading no where?

I think she is silly for begging you. You that couldn't do anything when she was faithful to you, what can you do now apart from put all the blame on her.

MissRaine69:

All bitches? Including the one that gave you life?

makapella:
Hello Nairalanders,i really need your advice on this one.. Im so confused ryt now..please dont mind my writting pattern.

I hv been dating this girl for many years now,almost close to 6 years..we love ourselves so much and hv sacrifised a lot for each other..i would been long married to her but its quite unfortunate that my parents dont hv any iota of likeness for her.

She has really been there for me,stood by me even when i didn't hv "shi shi".i cant start naming the things we hv done for each other now.

The problem is,i was aware for a period of three months..we didnt really communicate as we used to..during dat period,a guy she claimed was a friend was always visiting her,keeping her company n stuff n i knew about it cos he is a "church guy" n i trusted him n even liked him..

Three months later,she tells me dat she has missed her period n dat she did it just twice cos she was carried away n he showed her much love and care and was even appreciated by d guys family.

Now she is four months pregnant n she is begging me dat she doesnt want to loose me..she cries everyday dat it was a mistake..

Im so confused right now..i love her so much but i cant father another man's child oo n my family will totally hate her now..

Please what do i do?Genuine suggestions please.its a true life story oo..

IamD18:

Bitches and whores don't give life.

Do you even have a life as a person, not to talk of giving someone life.

For you to attack the word 'Bitch', it means you are guilty

MissRaine69:

[s] Guilty of what? Having a life is irrelevant here!
Oh please I am not one of your bog standard basic individuals that you usually encounter in your day to day nothings. If one uses the word “ all” that denotes no distinction. [/s]

IamD18:


What a derail mechanism!


How do bitches give life?

Tell us

makapella:
Hello Nairalanders,i really need your advice on this one.. Im so confused ryt now..please dont mind my writting pattern.

I hv been dating this girl for many years now,almost close to 6 years..we love ourselves so much and hv sacrifised a lot for each other..i would been long married to her but its quite unfortunate that my parents dont hv any iota of likeness for her.

She has really been there for me,stood by me even when i didn't hv "shi shi".i cant start naming the things we hv done for each other now.

The problem is,i was aware for a period of three months..we didnt really communicate as we used to..during dat period,a guy she claimed was a friend was always visiting her,keeping her company n stuff n i knew about it cos he is a "church guy" n i trusted him n even liked him..

Three months later,she tells me dat she has missed her period n dat she did it just twice cos she was carried away n he showed her much love and care and was even appreciated by d guys family.

Now she is four months pregnant n she is begging me dat she doesnt want to loose me..she cries everyday dat it was a mistake..

Im so confused right now..i love her so much but i cant father another man's child oo n my family will totally hate her now..

Please what do i do?Genuine suggestions please.its a true life story oo..

Tosinex:
Are you mad or just extremely stupid

Olalan:
OP how can you be confused except you feel you aren't man enough to get another that will be loyal to you, except you don't mind marrying a cheat and fathering another man's child.
BTW with this development your family will totally hate her and you wouldn't like the consequences

MissRaine69:

As I am not your bitch not am I a representative of what you address as “bitches” I am under no obligation. Secondly this “ What a derail mechanism!“ is not a cohesive construction and therefore it means nothing.
It would have read better if you had said “ what kind of derailment” or “what kind of derailment mechanism is that?”
But alas you are too busy focused on calling out “bitches”

IamD18:


Does it change the fact that you haven't cleared us on how bitches give life.


He made his comment saying we should trust no bitch, that they are all thesame, you started crying and mastubnating over the comment claiming that bitches gives life.

Tell us biko, stop dodging the question.

How do bitches given life?
How many fellows have you given lives?



People are viewing to learn from you on how bitches give life, don't let them down.

IamD18:
What an old man/woman can see while sitting, a young mugu cannot see it while standing.

What should you do?

Take this complain to your parents, especially your mother. I promise you, your life will never remain same with their reaction.

MissRaine69:



This best illustrates this conversation. I have simplified it as much as I can.

lefulefu:

i can imagine wat his mom would say to him