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My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by makapella(m): 6:42pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
Hello Nairalanders,i really need your advice on this one.. Im so confused ryt now..please dont mind my writting pattern. I hv been dating this girl for many years now,almost close to 6 years..we love ourselves so much and hv sacrifised a lot for each other..i would been long married to her but its quite unfortunate that my parents dont hv any iota of likeness for her. She has really been there for me,stood by me even when i didn't hv "shi shi".i cant start naming the things we hv done for each other now. The problem is,i was aware for a period of three months..we didnt really communicate as we used to..during dat period,a guy she claimed was a friend was always visiting her,keeping her company n stuff n i knew about it cos he is a "church guy" n i trusted him n even liked him.. Three months later,she tells me dat she has missed her period n dat she did it just twice cos she was carried away n he showed her much love and care and was even appreciated by d guys family. Now she is four months pregnant n she is begging me dat she doesnt want to loose me..she cries everyday dat it was a mistake.. Im so confused right now..i love her so much but i cant father another man's child oo n my family will totally hate her now.. Please what do i do?Genuine suggestions please.its a true life story oo.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by Olalan(m): 6:45pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
OP how can you be confused except you feel you aren't man enough to get another that will be loyal to you, except you don't mind marrying a cheat and fathering another man's child. BTW with this development your family will totally hate her and you wouldn't like the consequences 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by 0ubenji(m): 6:46pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
Did it twice and she says it's a mistake... ![]() She MIS the 1st one and TAKE the second one to make it a mistake.. She had to double check to confirm how sweet a mistake that was ![]() ![]() ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by thesicilian: 6:46pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
How many more years did you expect her to wait for you? |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by bujebudanu1(m): 6:47pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
Girlfriends and boyfriends problem story on nairaland since morning Hian If u can't father another child just forget her. Shikena |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by Ab025(m): 6:48pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
Your parents dislike for her has been vindicated As for what you should do.......i won't advice you on that, if you still don't know what to do.... Keep on waiting for my advice! 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by bujebudanu1(m): 6:49pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
0ubenji: Spot on broda.I feel u 2 Likes
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Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by IamD18: 6:49pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
What an old man/woman can see while sitting, a young mugu cannot see it while standing. What should you do? Take this complain to your parents, especially your mother. I promise you, your life will never remain same with their reaction. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by 912(m): 6:54pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
I keep telling people that a chic and a dude cannot be "close friends" without smashing. All these chics that claim to have male best friends will never say the truth that it's just another name for friends with benefits. Anyway, op take heart. But you sef wicked. How can you date a girl for six years without moving forward and you still want her to be loyal. Don't you know that she is risking too much just by being in that kind of relationship that is heading no where? I think she is silly for begging you. You that couldn't do anything when she was faithful to you, what can you do now apart from putting all the blame on her. 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by Nobody: 6:56pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
You better thank God that you didn't marry a LovePeddler. Whores everywhere. She's a kind of wife that will turn your gateman to her companion and comforter when you travel. |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by keezy125(m): 6:56pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
the earlier you understand all the bitches r the same the better for you (trust no girl) , av gat nothing to tell u, u knw what you want for urslf but since ur family dnt like her, I think u have to ditch her because u dnt mess with family becus of a woman |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by MissRaine69(f): 7:01pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
There is nothing to be confused about here. She got impatient and stepped out, she knows the father of the baby she is carrying she can call him and do all the crying. She had unprotected sex with someone, not once but twice what did she think was going to happen? Because I suppose you had not proposed or stated that you would marry her definitely she found an alternative. Now if things had worked out with the alternative, you would not hear from her but it seems things did not work out so she has you as a back up plan. Now since you have stated that bringing up someone else’s child is not something you want to do then keep walking and don’t look back. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:01pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
makapella: ISSUE #1 why are you still dating her then?! you either follow your parents and give up on that babe OR you grow some balls and marry her..... but you cant continue wasting her (and your) time. She has really been there for me,stood by me even when i didn't hv "shi shi".i cant start naming the things we hv done for each other now. ISSUE #2 yet you are not willing to stand by her and do whats right?! The problem is,i was aware for a period of three months..we didnt really communicate as we used to..during dat period,a guy she claimed was a friend was always visiting her,keeping her company n stuff n i knew about it cos he is a "church guy" n i trusted him n even liked him.. ISSUE #3 whether she done it twice OR hundred times does NOT change the fact about her deceitful untrustworthy nature... that girl willingly went to open her leg and get mounted by a man, so ask yourself this simple question: can you trust such woman in the future, when you will be again away from one another? Now she is four months pregnant n she is begging me dat she doesnt want to loose me..she cries everyday dat it was a mistake.. ISSUE #4 you have already LOST HER, but she is just confused and dont know about it, and also the reason she did is solely because of her....so she doesnt need your forgiveness, she needs a reality check. as for you fooling yourself thinking that your forgiveness can change anything here is a joke. you lost that babe a LOOOONG time ago, accept it and be done with the misery. Im so confused right now..i love her so much but i cant father another man's child oo n my family will totally hate her now.. ISSUE #5 what are you "supposedly" confused about?! the deed is done, you guys are done, the "bastard" baby that you are trying to accept as your own is in the belly already. what more indication do you need that you guys are done?!?!?!? Please what do i do?Genuine suggestions please.its a true life story oo.. FINAL ISSUE should you even ask? you must be a NL troll. 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by MissRaine69(f): 7:02pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
keezy125: All bitches? Including the one that gave you life? 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by anonymuz(m): 7:06pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
912:you just said the bitter truth.i like that. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by IamD18: 7:09pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
MissRaine69:Bitches and whores don't give life. Do you even have a life as a person, not to talk of giving someone life. ![]() For you to attack the word 'Bitch', it means you are guilty ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by onecornerboy(m): 7:09pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
THAT WHY I DON'T PACKAGE BABES WITH MALE BESTFRIEND I PREFER HER WITH FEMALE BESTFRIEND(S) CUZ AM ONE GIRL BESTFRIEND IN MY AREA AND I KNOW THE BRE*ST AND YANSH WEY I DEY PRESS AND ME CANT STAND SEEING MAH GIRL CALLING ONE DUDE BESTFRIEND. FVCK HIM |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by Nobody: 7:10pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
makapella:
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Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by Nobody: 7:15pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
Are you mad or just extremely stupid ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by MissRaine69(f): 7:22pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
IamD18:Guilty of what? Having a life is irrelevant here! Oh please I am not one of your bog standard basic individuals that you usually encounter in your day to day nothings. If one uses the word “ all” that denotes no distinction. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by IamD18: 7:27pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
MissRaine69: What a derail mechanism! How do bitches give life? Tell us 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by MissRaine69(f): 7:35pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
IamD18:As I am not your bitch not am I a representative of what you address as “bitches” I am under no obligation. Secondly this “ What a derail mechanism!“ is not a cohesive construction and therefore it means nothing. It would have read better if you had said “ what kind of derailment” or “what kind of derailment mechanism is that?” But alas you are too busy focused on calling out “bitches” 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by SoapQueen(f): 7:36pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
makapella: As saddening as this story, I won't feel 100% sympathy for you. You guys feel you can just leave your woman for three months and waltz back into her life from nowhere. Not minding the emotional trauma you would have put her through. Casting doubts in her mind, she might have felt you will drop her like hot potato after "eating" her for 6 years. Still, I'd blame her, 3months is to short a "window period" to wean yourself of a man you claim to love, 6 years for that matter. She didn't have to get a rebound immediately. Everything is so messed up now. I feel sorry, for you and for her. Love lost. The ball is in her court, not yours. Honestly, I can't advice my brother to marry a girl in this situation. (but then you aren't my brother) Best wishes! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by Espada10: 7:36pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
He is seriously asking us on what do i do 1 Like
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Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by makapella(m): 7:52pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
Tosinex:none of d above..im just messed up emotionally now |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by makapella(m): 8:01pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
Olalan:exactly..Now my mum may not even want to hear her name being mentioned.. Let me quickly add that i took an oath with her years back when i was still young and stupid..i know this will cause a lot of name calling but i was in love..very serious oath like dz oo in a beach..please easy with the insults that will follow and tell me the way forward |
Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by IamD18: 8:04pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
MissRaine69: Does it change the fact that you haven't cleared us on how bitches give life. ![]() He made his comment saying we should trust no bitch, that they are all thesame, you started crying and mastubating over the comment claiming that bitches gives life. Tell us biko, stop dodging the question. How do bitches give life? ![]() How many fellows have you given lives? ![]() People are viewing to learn from you on how bitches give life, don't let them down. ![]() 6 Likes
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Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by MissRaine69(f): 8:09pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
IamD18: This best illustrates this conversation. I have simplified it as much as I can. 1 Like
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Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by Nobody: 8:10pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
IamD18:i can imagine wat his mom would say to him ![]()
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Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by IamD18: 8:17pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
MissRaine69: Itiboribo ![]() ![]() 5 Likes
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Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by IamD18: 8:19pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
lefulefu: Na jux two words she go drop give am..... Em brain go reset ![]()
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Re: My Girlfriend Of Many Years Is Pregnant For Someone Else by 234GT(m): 8:32pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
Let her go. She is a scammer Most ladies are scammers. |
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