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I Need Adv by Nobody: 12:42pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
There is this guy,I know in mg neigbourhood,he recently asked me out,I really need candid opinions,I know if I agree,it would most likely need to marriage so I need to be sure,I told him to give me a week and I would get back to him,here is why need the advice,l.he is my landlords brother and though he has an apartment of his own which he chose not to rent out,u won't call him rich,he is just there,2.previously both of us were always at loggerhead before,we were bitter enemies and we dealt with each other 3.he just came out of a bitter relationship,the girl dumped him and he loved her dearly The thing is,I won't say I love him,I don't,but I like him,he is the gentle responsible type of guy I like,who also racks sense,but the ish is that,we both are young,he is 28 and I younger by few years,so it isn't because am getting older that I am considering him,its just that with experiences around me,from my friends and relatives,I have come to realise happy marriage entails more than love,I want peace in my home,so I need a responsible guy,I am just afraid of being a second fiddle,he loved that girl,don't want to live an another girls shadow,I knew he was attracted to me even bbefore the relationship crumbled,but he was responsible enough to steer clear,so do I refuse or accept based on my reasons |
Re: I Need Adv by Nobody: 12:46pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Jeeezz.... I need panadol. |
Re: I Need Adv by Nobody: 12:50pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
nma24:Tell me what to do na |
Re: I Need Adv by Sunnymatey(m): 12:58pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Frm the word' responsible', l will say give him a trial. He is heart broken and needs a shoulder to lean-on to speed up the healing process, l think if u make yours available, he will be there for u. |
Re: I Need Adv by Nobody: 1:01pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Sunnymatey:Okay,thanks for the advise,I just don't want to be hurt,when I must have fallen in love with him |
Re: I Need Adv by MBush(m): 1:01pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Don't date him... |
Re: I Need Adv by Nobody: 1:04pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
MBush:Care to expantiate |
Re: I Need Adv by MBush(m): 1:06pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
andergirl:would have loved to, but lazy to type long... Mention me somewhere sometime again, I will help... |
Re: I Need Adv by warisogeophysics(f): 2:05pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
andergirl:I dnt get . first u dnt want to date him because he might nt be rich? 2nd reason is understandable but doesn't matter 3rd reason it wud be a lil hard at frst but d relationship can still work with efforts from you both am talking from experience |
Re: I Need Adv by Nobody: 2:15pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
andergirl:Date him and see how it goes |
Re: I Need Adv by Nobody: 2:22pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
nma24:nice advice...may your pvccy never run dry |
Re: I Need Adv by Nobody: 2:23pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Enuguboy4nsk:Not funny at all... |
Re: I Need Adv by Nobody: 2:41pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
warisogeophysics:Money ain't my problem,he can take care of his family when he begins one,plus I have my money too so that's not d problem,am worried,if he is coming to me for financial stability,the guy is very calculative,he can't tell me he loves me now so I can't believe it,you can't love two persons the same time,I guess both of us are going into it for calculative reasons if I choose to agree. |
Re: I Need Adv by Nobody: 2:44pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Enuguboy4nsk:Irresponsible bigot |
Re: I Need Adv by pxDharniel(m): 2:55pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Op, you don't need any advice. You have the right answer already. This is not the right time to have a romantic relationship with him even if you want to because you confirmed that he deeply loved his ex and was dumped by her so he's probably on rebound trying to avoid the pain of the breakup. Give it some time, monitor him to make sure he's over his ex and if he still feels the same about you then just give it a trial but use your head. |
Re: I Need Adv by storge: 8:48pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
andergirl: What later happened? Please share |
Re: I Need Adv by Nobody: 8:58pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
storge:Imagine!after so many years!well of course we aren't together . |
Re: I Need Adv by storge: 5:03am On Apr 17, 2018 |
andergirl:Thanks, was just curious... It could have not been an "of course" though... I was expecting some fairy tale news |
Re: I Need Adv by Nobody: 12:40pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
storge:Hahah,abi |
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