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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ademijuwonlo(f): 12:04am On Apr 18, 2018 |
GeeString:Some ladies might have done Olosho for financial gains but not every Nigerian ladies....There are still good ladies out there!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 12:07am On Apr 18, 2018 |
AstroG:Don't tell me I know. Its evidence in my life. Once broke, no girl. Now OK plenty girls. Do the maths. Everybody forming nice, humble, they now take my sh!ts. Don't mind all these NL girls forming here, I have seen more and more pretty girls sweep my friends palour, wash plate cook and serve us food while bending down. As in first class slay angels lolz all in a bid to get married. They are predictable, very predictable and foolish. It is easier for a camel to pass through the eyes of a niddle than for you to get a good girl but I wish I do The person who said "in love and war all is fair" and the other who said "love is wicked" ain't wrong. 14 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Shugavee(f): 12:07am On Apr 18, 2018 |
IamD18:so preparation for a mans future n neglecting female child is okay to you n u expect me not to blame socitial pressure!!! How abt being old with out marriage n being who u wanna be!!! U think women no like better thing "How will people see me"?? Is the mean reason women run into marriage!! U can hv kids without marriage!! U know! So?? That's what men do!!! Biologically is there anything like marriage?? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 12:08am On Apr 18, 2018 |
ndubueze92:I won't say much even though I still stand by what I said. Maybe I just haven't explained better. Buy, take, marry carry on. Free world |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:08am On Apr 18, 2018 |
KOPT33: my oh my! God bless you for this bro. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:09am On Apr 18, 2018 |
I dated a girl for two years who just got married two months ago. We cohabited for a while, even though it was some of the best times I had in recent memory, I still shudder to think that if I married a woman I: 1- I will lose my personal space. One hour away from her (I work in my home office) she would come and disturb me. Lord! Just one hour 2- Women are too emotional for my liking: she could read the silliest meanings into the most mundane things. I refuse to let explaining myself become a customary feature of my life. 3- Tears. Tears. Tears: at a point, I wondered If I was that bad because I really wasn't doing anything that I couldn't take from anyone 4- Food: I am yet to meet a woman that can match my skills in the kitchen, or have the same eclectic taste for food like I do. I am not interested in changing my cuisine because of any woman 5- Attention: women and attention: ants to honey. I am by nature a very emotionally detached person. I don't want to start relearning how to live my life. 6: Responsibility: I have my life's work. If I get married, I would become weighed down significantly, I would always have to account for somebody. I say NO to that, for now. There loads and loads of things that I cannot mention, but the joke is on anyone who tells me to "go and marry." Since I screamed at my friends for telling my that crap, it has subsided quite a bit. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by lilyheaven: 12:10am On Apr 18, 2018 |
GeeString:Tomorrow now, we will be viewing your pre- wedding collections Because am seeing you falling deep inside love |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:12am On Apr 18, 2018 |
At 27 i think i am nt ready, i wil wait til 30. Bt i dnt just knw au i wil tel my girl dat is my plan. She is 26. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:12am On Apr 18, 2018 |
IamaNigerianGuy: What happened to finding a balance between the rosy and the turbulent marriages out there. Anyway, to each his own. We go dey alright last last 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by IamD18: 12:12am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Shugavee: You had to pick a line you flawed without carefully reading where I bracketed that I didn't dispute the fact that women need to build their future. I'm yet to see you buttress a point on how the society pressurize women on marriage. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Angel1696: 12:12am On Apr 18, 2018 |
my greatest prayer since when I was a kid till now is God rpls remember what u said in your word that whoever that finds a wife as find a good thing and obtained favour from the lord God pls am still waiting for my wife as Adam waited for eve and Isaac waited for Rebecca . |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Shugavee(f): 12:14am On Apr 18, 2018 |
IamD18:its right there!! I hv Explained enough but u wont see it cause u don't wanna see it!!! Modified * U said biologically a women need marriage cause her body would be worn out at somen certain age!!! N i asked where in biology is marriage the cure to that!! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by SoapQueen(f): 12:15am On Apr 18, 2018 |
OfficialDad: Chai! OfficialDad you too?? Rotfl! Na today I know say most of the guys on Nairaland are just boastful. I can't stop laughing. Abeg, go carry your baby o.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Daboomb: 12:16am On Apr 18, 2018 |
abiolamitodun: Just look at the landscape and see what women have done to men...in general (screaming rape where the sex was consensual, screaming sexual assault just for appreciating or whistling at a beautiful woman, e.t.c) Look at what wives have done to their loving husbands - from our black sisters lifted from poverty in their village, transported to America by the sweat of their husband, only to "open-eye" and eventually put the man in prison using trumped up charges) Look at how wives plan their divorce, even before they get married - some women even time-it to coincide with when the husband has just been paid some New Year Upfornt, so she can get maximum payout Look at how wives have deprived their husbands, of the love of their children, using the Police to harrass them out of the family home Look at how a wife who probably never worked, is now empowered to throw the husband out of t he home he sweated for, all his working life Look at how wives cheat (not necessarily wives alone) on their husband, with virtually 'anything that has a prick'! They now sit back, collecting alimony and child support, while using some of the money to support another gigollo, toy-boyfriend. Look at how wives have now taken a passion for murdering their husband, even in their sleep! So, as a man, when you look at all these "marriage/wife problems", l am sure you will ask yourself: IS IT WORTH IT? These are just some of the reasons why Men just decide to have a baby, without all the 'dangers' of being married to the woman. It is not an issue of 'getting scared', it is about Men borrowing themselves, some sense. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:19am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Daeylar: money, love, kids, many things women can gain from marriage. I cant even list them all here! |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:19am On Apr 18, 2018 |
SoapQueen: Mogbe , you go get wahala for real life ooo, soapqueen ... You know i just need to join the band nah. Did i do anything wrong? |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by IamD18: 12:20am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Shugavee: As usual with you ladies. When men argue aggressively, you all will say he's being insulting, hence your dodge. When we go civil, you'll say we don't want to see what we are suppose to see. With all due respect madam, how does the society pressurize women into marriage? how? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by AstroG: 12:21am On Apr 18, 2018 |
[color=#006600][/color] Angel1696: NNE,This is Nigeria.. I no longer believe in such tins,it worked during the olden days Now were Girls dy Open Kpekus for Anybody wea get money like Chelsea Goalkeeper 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ibietela2(m): 12:23am On Apr 18, 2018 |
We are not scared just that some of the ladies are not done slaying. Others are not ready, just few are ready and interested in getting married |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by SoapQueen(f): 12:24am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Safiaa: Babe, you tried, if they don't want to marry, let them go..Bad marriages are like plane crashes, they occur but not every time. As annoying as they may sound, I would advise that you pay them no heed. There is man we know from home. All his married colleagues laugh at him because he is not married, no kids. He is termed "wayward". Everybody and their choice. No bad blood. Leave them to marry their preferred white women. Plenty talk no dey full basket. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by opebiboy: 12:24am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Women cant be trusted so men tend to be very careful these days. They keep a long list of numerous boyfriend even after marriage opening a chance of getting them laid whenever they wake up on the wrong side of the bed 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by acehood907(m): 12:26am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Is because of money, if everyone has his own money men would not be afraid of getting marriage |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by SoapQueen(f): 12:26am On Apr 18, 2018 |
OfficialDad: I get wahala fa. Plenty wahala..That your baby and wife story was a fairytale, it impressed me. Abeg, no join gang. Preach give them instead. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Omolego: 12:28am On Apr 18, 2018 |
What if(s) & hammering on people's experiences, will only put you in a stagnant spot. Balance positive and negative and give a shot your best. You never know. #Between news this days, marriage is scary.. IamaNigerianGuy: |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by IamD18: 12:28am On Apr 18, 2018 |
SoapQueen: Just like Well, this is social media where all kinds of forged stories can be claimed real. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:28am On Apr 18, 2018 |
SoapQueen: That's all. Welcome back @ Safiaa... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:29am On Apr 18, 2018 |
SoapQueen: No, no fairytale , that's a real story.. But i just omitted the later ending though!, memories buried within is a coded word for those who would understand. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Divay22(f): 12:32am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Hmm |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Shugavee(f): 12:32am On Apr 18, 2018 |
IamD18:i ask again U said biologically a woman need marriage cause her body would be worn out at some certain age!!! N i asked where in biology is marriage the cure to that? Marriage is societal intitution!!! But puts much pressure on women than men! Emphasis on societal!!! Am sure u did social studies in primary schhol 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:36am On Apr 18, 2018 |
One of my senior bros ...a doctor is not thinking of getting married even in the nearest future. He's well into his 40s and d guy dey live large.na so he dey change girls like boxers and babes the young and old all dey fight over themselves to get his attention. I asked why he treats women like rag and he told me back then when he was much younger and didn't have much...how his girlfriend that he was about to get married to dumped him for a rich pastor. So now na chop and clean mouth im dey do and the guy is cheerful and always in a good mood.he even told me how two campus babes was fighting over him and stripping themselves naked in the street. He was laughing as he told me d story.According to him he says no lady can be faithful to u hence there is no need commiting to one. This na im ideology. The guy na real baddo i tell u. 13 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by atakamus: 12:38am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Frankly I am married but I see it as the greatest mistake I have made so far in life. The only succor happen to be my three great children. If had known the real issues that marriage brings, I wouldn't have worked into it. My marriage is eleven years. My wife feels the same way though. Marriage though is not bad but the mentality of women here in Nigeria is very terrible. I have taken the past 11 years to make my wife realise that she has to to step up so as to help in the up keep of the family. I trained her is school, she said she will not work. I have a shop opened for her, she abandoned the shop for over two years. It is now that she has started entering the shop. The issue now is that I dont know much about the financial activities in the shop. I am still expected to pay the rent of the shop. This period, I have changed and have become somehow turf on her. It is working out for me. Frankly I don't blame guys that are afraid of marrying. If not for three children, I would have walked away. Now she is petering me for a 4th child and I have told her no for now. i keep tell her she is not serious. 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by jaxxy(m): 12:39am On Apr 18, 2018 |
abiolamitodun: I'm not scared at all just want the right person irrespective of her flaws and I wont toy with that. Babymamas are for guys looking for the easy way out or not ready to settle down. |
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