Hello admin,

Please hide my identity. People will judge me for what I am about to say now but I have thought about this long enough and I believe that it might be the right decision for me to take but first,I want to seek your advice to help me make a more objective decision.

I remarried again last year in June. I was married to my boyfriend of 10 years. We were married for two years before we divorced. Lets call him Sani. Sani was the love of my life. My true first love. He was everything I dreamed off. Hence we dated right from secondary school to uni and got married in my final year. We have a beautiful son too.The only problem we had was that we were always quarreling. And most times this leads to physical violence. While we dated,when we fought,Sani will come and beg me and I will forgive him and we move on. But after marriage,anytime we fight,he will refuse to apologize. This really put a strain on our marriage and in anger,I filed for divorce. I was so angry that he didnt fight for us anymore.

After the divorce,I met my fiance now. Lets call him Amin. Amin and I have been dating for about seven months and he has proposed to marry me. He is nice to me and my son. When Sani realized that I was getting serious with Amin,he began to try to win me back. One area that Sani knows is my weakness for him....Read full story from:
https://livelystones.com.ng/my-ex-husband-excites-mehe-is-fun-dangerous-but-my-fiance-is/

if your ex was "that" great, you would still be with him today, and not divorced.... so open your mind and stop living in lala land!

Do you know how many people have died from domestic violence? They died at the hands of the one who claimed to love them.

z11111:
Hello admin,

Please hide my identity. People will judge me for what I am about to say now but I have thought about this long enough and I believe that it might be the right decision for me to take but first,I want to seek your advice to help me make a more objective decision.

I remarried again last year in June. I was married to my boyfriend of 10 years. We were married for two years before we divorced. Lets call him Sani. Sani was the love of my life. My true first love. He was everything I dreamed off. Hence we dated right from secondary school to uni and got married in my final year. We have a beautiful son too.The only problem we had was that we were always quarreling. And most times this leads to physical violence. While we dated,when we fought,Sani will come and beg me and I will forgive him and we move on. But after marriage,anytime we fight,he will refuse to apologize. This really put a strain on our marriage and in anger,I filed for divorce. I was so angry that he didnt fight for us anymore.

After the divorce,I met my fiance now. Lets call him Amin. Amin and I have been dating for about seven months and he has proposed to marry me. He is nice to me and my son. When Sani realized that I was getting serious with Amin,he began to try to win me back. One area that Sani knows is my weakness for him....Read full story from:
https://livelystones.com.ng/my-ex-husband-excites-mehe-is-fun-dangerous-but-my-fiance-is/

Sure, if it didnt work b4, what the guarantee it would now

MrBrownJay1:
if your ex was "that" great, you would still be with him today, and not divorced.... so open your mind and stop living in lala land!

I guess u are in a dilemma

serious dilema

miracle956:
I guess u are in a dilemma

It's indecision or not knowing what is good for her

Kumar4india:
serious dilema

Another word is confusion.

Samuelgr8:
It's indecision or not knowing what is good for her

Hmmm

I thought same too

MrBrownJay1:
if your ex was "that" great, you would still be with him today, and not divorced.... so open your mind and stop living in lala land!