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If You Want Him, Go For Him by Toks2008(m): 10:40pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Gone are the days when ladies just sit and hope that guy they desire comes for them..or the days ladies love to form hard to get... These days the number of single ladies are so much that most guys who truly want to settle down don't even know which lady to go for as almost every lady they meet looks great to have as a wife. One secret I want many ladies to know is that most men at marriageable stage are so vulnerable and would readily fall for any lady who can show them she is really ready for business and this is why they say "bad girls get the good guys" but the truth is that these girls are not bad but only smart to go for that man they desire. It does not mean you are cheap and it does not mean you will automatically grant him access to sleep with you but it will go a long way to prove that indeed you are a confident lady who knows what she wants. Slide into his DM,smile at him,quote his comment and write something good about it...just show him you desire him even if you can't woo him directly and if he refuses to see the obvious...move on to another man that catches your fancy but stop waiting for any guy you desire to come for you....go for him 105 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by folake4u(f): 10:46pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
OK |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Nobody: 10:49pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Some guys will use the opportunity to tear pussy ![]() 106 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by IamD18: 10:51pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
It will be very risky for a woman to try that with a man who feels nothing for her. It'll be very very risky. 58 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Toks2008(m): 10:54pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
RadicallyBlunt: They better wake up. 29 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Nobody: 11:03pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Your last paragraph says it all. Ladies who intend to do what you advised should be wise enough not to be too direct and handle things maturely. ![]() But Mr Toks are you implying that men at this stage are confused lots who don't know what they want? Secondly what happens to the lady if this man meets another lady whom he really wish to be with even though he is married? I don't believe any sane man will not know who he wants to be with, believe me every man knows what he wants... the time it will come is what is unknown. When the desired isn't available, the available becomes the desired. But what happens if the initial desire shows up? Dang! 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Toks2008(m): 11:09pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: In most cases,When a single mature guy wants a wife...he knows what he wants but most especially he knows he wants a wife and any lady who can show him at that stage that she is worth it will have him...whether she is his choice or not is not the issue cos most people don't marry their choice anyways...its about getting married to a woman good enough to be his wife. If everyman decides to marry their choice I guess many marriages will not exist. 60 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by STENON(f): 11:10pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Alright sir |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Nobody: 11:33pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Toks2008:Spot on. 7 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Nobody: 11:34pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Its happening in many other countries but Nigeria girls and their one line mentality. 3 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by GrammarNazi1(m): 11:34pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Toks2008: ...it's... 3 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Nobody: 11:39pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
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Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Nobody: 11:48pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Nice |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by ouzo1(m): 12:47am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Op u the advertise urself abi?? 43 Likes 1 Share
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Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Bamz(m): 1:20am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Toks2008 You're right on this one. Confident girls have this positive vibe about them, however there's a thin line between confidence and cockiness. Only a few girls will message you first on social media even after frequent interaction. I'm forced to think it's a Nigerian thing. 9 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:51am On Apr 20, 2018 |
![]() Well, it sounds women these days must take a risk and try to be a little aggressive ![]() ![]() Well , i like a man who plays hard to get... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by pryme(m): 7:17am On Apr 20, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus: You mean its rare to find men that can resist you. 3 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by QueenSuccubus(f): 7:30am On Apr 20, 2018 |
pryme: Nope..Dont twist my words boi as my statement is very simple & direct. 9 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by pryme(m): 7:37am On Apr 20, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus: No gal, the ones that play hard to get must be able to resist you. Men are straight forward creatures, they go for what they can resist, and resist what they dont go for. *simpleanddirect* 9 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Divay22(f): 10:32am On Apr 20, 2018 |
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Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Rubbiish(m): 2:20pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Nobody: 4:35pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
Divay22:u sabi am o ![]() |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by philo04(m): 5:01pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
come for me and see trouble |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Foodforthought: 6:12pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
Nice thread 1 Like |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Nobody: 7:11pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
Toks2008:Lol,you may be right... But then, I think there should be a focus on some parts of your post because they require some deep thinking. A man will marry a lady who shows him she is worth being a wife, what if the lady was only acting to get the ring? Why should a man settle for who finds him worthy to be a husband and not who he finds worthy? @Emboldened, this is where you all get it wrong.. Not marrying who you really want. There is a difference between marrying the one you want and marrying the one you have. The former lasts longer because it is based on your choice which implies greater commitment. Aside love, if commitment is absent in any union or partnership it is bound to fail. I think it is easier living with whom you choose than who have to be with. Lol @every man, marriage is about two people mister toks and not one. 6 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Toks2008(m): 7:55pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: Leave rethorics biko n face reality...a lasting marriage is not as a result of a man marrying who he wants. My point is very clear and only mature single guys can relate to it. 23 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Toks2008(m): 7:56pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
ouzo1: Why do you guys think I'm still single? Abeg face front. 5 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Toks2008(m): 7:58pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
Let me call lalasticlala once again to see if this is good enough. |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Nobody: 8:03pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
Toks2008:You don't have to be aggressive Toks... There is two sides to everything, you can't just dish out advice by your own experience. Well since your thread is for mature single guys, let them go for themselves then. Funniest form of defense I've ever read ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Toks2008(m): 9:01pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: Where is the aggressiveness? Or are you reading it aggressively? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Nobody: 9:03pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
Toks2008:Of course not! Read your response before this and be the judge ![]() 1 Like |
Re: If You Want Him, Go For Him by Toks2008(m): 9:11pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: Oda naa e ma binu |
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