Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by freecocoa(f): 12:49am On Apr 20, 2018 |
lefulefu: i enjoyed reading op's story..i wonder why u no enjoy d Tory. Because I'm a woman of substance with sense, and all I see, is a blawdy misogynist coming up with yet another lie, to discredit women. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by k9ine(m): 12:51am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Preventing Heartbreaks 101 Don't ever train a girl through school, thinking she will marry you. Train only the one you have fully married.
I have witnessed the fall out. One poisoned the food he and his ex ate and both died. One told the boyfriend she can't marry a carpenter, yet it was the carpentry money that saw her thru schooling in UNIBEN. The third one at a nearby street, was informed by his girlfriend that she can't marry a bus driver, that she wants to quit the ralationship, the guy had paid school fees up till her final year.
Since you were training her, what was her father doing? Guys will never learn, don't do it. Eight out of ten guys who trained their babe in school will have a stab to the heart. Hearken to my voice o you guys and save your life. 5 Likes |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by MetalJigsaw(m): 12:55am On Apr 20, 2018 |
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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by olivia269: 12:57am On Apr 20, 2018 |
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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 12:58am On Apr 20, 2018 |
GeeWire: My advise to guys out there is, make it a priority to take good care of your family before any useless girl. Don't be decieved Girls nowadays are evil.
#selfmade #Geewire says so Humans are wired to be evil. |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Marshalxv(m): 12:59am On Apr 20, 2018 |
okorro1: Lemme get this straight, your story is too long so I merely skimmed through buh you say God did it for you so you're now bigger than the guy, the girl cheated on you with abi? Lemme now ask you a question do you think God did it so you can live a half ass life? I don't think so � , God fixed you up so you can have better opportunities � so don't be lazying about being a monster, better get up find a good shirt and a tie maybe, put on good pants (don't look at me like that I mean trousers) and go out and find yourself a great lady there are so many out there... Remember you can't wear black everyday of your life just cos when you were little you lost a dear one so Oga bath, dress up nice, put on cologne and go out and stay out till you find a woman... Lemme coman be going now Find a woman? so she can come and reap where she did not sow Abi? auntie kolework! 2 Likes |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Rexnegro(m): 1:17am On Apr 20, 2018 |
GeeWire: Pardon any typos, incorrect grammars and all, I'm lobotomized as I write.
I was brought up from a Godly home. I couldn't hurt a fly. I lost my dad in 2013 and my mom wasn't financially capable to fend for me and my siblings. Everyone in the family abandoned us, from my dad's siblings to his cousins, including those he helped when he was alive.
I began to struggle in skul because of insuficient funds. I was very intelligent. I was the best in my class but I had to drop out because I couldn't cope anymore, I couldn't read and understand with an empty stomach.
When I dropped out I met this cute girl on an old chatting site (name witheld, clue: a South African owner dating site) and we got talking and we started dating in few weeks. I loved her so much that I could slap my mom to be with her.
One day she asked me to send her airtime lol me that was jobless and broke, so she told me how can I be broke and claim I have a girl friend. This inspired me and I started doing business same month and the first transaction I made 5k ( jeeeez 5k was like a million dollars to me then) and then some days after I made 20k in one day NOTE: IT WAS LEGIT NO FRAUD WHATSOEVER. I started growing financially and my girlfriend was very proud of me and vowed she will be with me for ever.
I started supporting my mom and siblings once in a while and then I entrolled in a university and single handedly paid my school fees and everything. I was sending my girlfriend about 10-20k every week for upkeep. I paid her hostel school fees from year 1 till year 4, she attended a private University so the fees was expensive but I did it for love. because of her I stopped taking care of my family, I abandoned them because she encourage me to do so indirectly. My mom cried bitterly several times and would tell me I am dating a witch but I'll yell at her and quarrel with my mom.
I tried to have sex with her severally but she told me she was a virgin and she will not have sex till she's married, wow this made me more in love with her so she used that as a weapon to keep me. I never cheated on her and I promised to marry her as a matter of fact I engage her.
Fast forward to 2016 we lodged in a Hotel just to chill and in the mid night my spirit said I should check her fone and read her whatsapp messages. Oh goddamn what I saw almost made me run mad. She was cheating on me with a guy that is richer than me. Dey even had sex damn I felt like killing her but I kept my cool and when she woke up I told her and we broke up for good. But damn I had spent millions on this bi*ch but I let her go.
I was traumatized, I felt like killing myself but what kept me alive was same year I had a contract with some west African countries and millions of Naira was coming in. Funnily enough same time we broke up I made couple millions from the contract and became a baller. I couldn't stay at home because I wasn't mentally fit due to what happened so I had to lodge in a Hotel and I spent heavily carrying different Girls, I could have sex with 4 Girls in a day, I started drinking and doing all sorts of things Although I was making more money from my contracts... I lodged in the hotel for up to 1 year without any investment, I did so just to keep myself busy and not do something stupid like taking my life. The contract crushed and money gone....
I was left with nothing and with shame I went back home and my mom and siblings embraced me and welcomed me back home and I narated all that happened. And the government changed the system of everything, I tried and tried but couldn't do anything to generate money from the west Africa countries. My mom started taking care of me.
I met one of the guys I helped when I was financially buoyant. Good news he had made money online and I asked him how he did it and he taught me all and I started and become a boss but this time with wisdom of Solomon. I have given my life to Christ, I now take care of my mom and siblings and God and been with me..
Now I am financially OK but I can never love again, I hate Girls. I wonder if I'll ever get married. I just dispise Girls. And for the first time I have not had sex for months.
I tried as much as possible to cut the story short. I can never love again sha... God did it and I am now bigger than my ex gf's bf, wiser and living my dreams. Glory be to God.
Push this to the front page let them know why we young rich n*ggas remain single even with all the cash.
I told my parents that they got 10 grandchildren that they should not disturb me, am their last born out of six, bro most girls are seen as sex objects cos of experience like this Ur own which is just one out of many.... wish to have kids but don't marry. and if am to marry then definitely not a Nigerian girl by the special grace of God. hope u doing great now bro... #JahBlessYou 1 Like |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by propanet(m): 1:32am On Apr 20, 2018 |
[s] okorro1: Lemme get this straight, your story is too long so I merely skimmed through buh you say God did it for you so you're now bigger than the guy, the girl cheated on you with abi? Lemme now ask you a question do you think God did it so you can live a half ass life? I don't think so � , God fixed you up so you can have better opportunities � so don't be lazying about being a monster, better get up find a good shirt and a tie maybe, put on good pants (don't look at me like that I mean trousers) and go out and find yourself a great lady there are so many out there... Remember you can't wear black everyday of your life just cos when you were little you lost a dear one so Oga bath, dress up nice, put on cologne and go out and stay out till you find a woman... Lemme coman be going now [/s] |
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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nkechinyere11: 1:41am On Apr 20, 2018 |
This one na tori. Na who wan believe am. |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Toyorsih(m): 1:50am On Apr 20, 2018 |
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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by greggng: 1:52am On Apr 20, 2018 |
unconditional help. Don't expect something from anyone you are helping. Only politicians practice that. I trained a lady up to university level and she graduated. I discovered somethings I cannot cope with and we broke up. For instance she always steal my money and whenever I asked she denies. Note that we are just two in the flat . Only she and I. She wants me to believe thief do visit while we are out. However one day I pretended to be drunk and I signed on all the money I left in my pocket. When I woke up 7k was missing and I did ask her and she denied. 5 days later I met a woman that sells provision and she told me my girl gave her 5k to keep for her . She asked if I could take the money to her cos she is traveling the next day. I collected the fund only for me to discover that it was part of my stolen money. The signature was intact. I sent her packing and my mum begged but I refused for one reason. I don't want to give birth to a thief as a child. Her problem could be in her DNA. Note, I use to give her money to buy what she needs. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by opebiboy: 1:53am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Women prefer guys who treat them like shit. Dont ever show weakness around a woman 1 Like |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by rattydon: 1:54am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Show us pishure or adonbilivit |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Elparaiso(m): 2:13am On Apr 20, 2018 |
True, at least once in our stay on Earth, we meet an angel that we fall head over heels for. But for fuuk sake, you abandoned the one woman that means everything to every sane man for a strange creature you met? You really need cane.
Spend whatever on whomever, na your pocket. Your family should always be Numero Uno. Never forget it's family first, bro. Family first. 1 Like |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by jchemy1: 2:19am On Apr 20, 2018 |
GeeWire: My advise to guys out there is, make it a priority to take good care of your family before any useless girl. Don't be decieved Girls nowadays are evil.
#selfmade #Geewire says so gwire show me love abeg |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by LadyHeaven(f): 3:00am On Apr 20, 2018 |
sirusX: Did you just compare yourself with your ex gf's boyfriend?? That's a low point for me.... rather wish her well and move on. Life is too short to look back when there are better things ahead. Even if he was still richer, that doesn't define you
It's always a good thing to remember family....cz there are homes in which you always have them there for you despite what happens....especially those who pray on your behalf
You shouldn't let anyone determine your happiness, and learn to be strong through what life throws at you. All the sex in the world didn't make up for what you lost with your ex....that road has been taken by many
When you spend money on someone else, be convinced that it's money within your budget limit and not just to impress. Never assume that money equals loyalty from anybody
It's good that you're investing and built yourself strong...just take time and be open to other ladies around you. You never can tell when/where you meet a lady that becomes more than a blessing to you...and even thank God that your ex left you
You will then understand that everything you went through happened for a reason...and that lady you thought was was the best thing in your life was just a learning point to make you a better man
Grow in grace!! wow, no matter how silly and childish nl becomes sometimes one still gets lucky to read a reply that just makes the heart feel peaceful... Grow in Grace to bro 1 Like |
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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by BlackPantherxXx: 3:05am On Apr 20, 2018 |
My observations:
1. Like 40% of readers know this is a stupid, made-up story. More people can identify fiction
2. Another 40% are still gullible and give heart-felt detailed advise to Nollywood movie scripts
3. The remaining 20% are lazy idiots who:
(a) believe in a fictional story, (b) beg the OP to show them the ropes exposing themselves to scams.
I kept waiting and waiting for the OP to claim he became richer than Bill Gates all through his story
NAIRALAND is such a funny place 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by okorro1(f): 3:09am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Ogaonos: wat u saying is wat guys online normally say is nt realistic wen i had my own luv issues DT wat guys online were saying move on beta 1 dey.den u jam anotha runs gal because dem plenty nwadays.until I vex cum dey hangout wit soft mature players cum notice sey luv na game nd babe no fancy luv.so d op my guy I knw d feeling u passing thru.but 1 thin 1 wan tell u is ladies are like DT nowadays but one thin u must observe is nowadays Neva fall in luv wit university gal most of dem are players nd immature relatnship need mature gal nd like soft players alot op wen next u jam babe again try check her young fullness nd maturity nd don't fall 4 church gal it doesn't exist most of dem na hypocrite na church married woman na dey exist 4 nairaland guys if u are emotional weak or a fool in luv try nt 2 single date u Neva strong 4 it double date is key 4 u nd have female friends 2 stop u 4rm being a womanizer. 4 d op na wen a lady invest in u na em she luv u.try watch d series empire nd observe cokie nd lucus or so u undastand wetin I dey talk
Hmmmm i didn't say he must fall in love or fall Mugu for another one oh I'm saying love is like a business deal sometimes it falls through sometimes it doesn't but you don't stop trying and every time you do you learn new things... |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by okorro1(f): 3:15am On Apr 20, 2018 |
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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 3:53am On Apr 20, 2018 |
GeeWire: Pardon any typos, incorrect grammars and all, I'm lobotomized as I write.
I was brought up from a Godly home. I couldn't hurt a fly. I lost my dad in 2013 and my mom wasn't financially capable to fend for me and my siblings. Everyone in the family abandoned us, from my dad's siblings to his cousins, including those he helped when he was alive.
I began to struggle in skul because of insuficient funds. I was very intelligent. I was the best in my class but I had to drop out because I couldn't cope anymore, I couldn't read and understand with an empty stomach.
When I dropped out I met this cute girl on an old chatting site (name witheld, clue: a South African owner dating site) and we got talking and we started dating in few weeks. I loved her so much that I could slap my mom to be with her.
One day she asked me to send her airtime lol me that was jobless and broke, so she told me how can I be broke and claim I have a girl friend. This inspired me and I started doing business same month and the first transaction I made 5k ( jeeeez 5k was like a million dollars to me then) and then some days after I made 20k in one day NOTE: IT WAS LEGIT NO FRAUD WHATSOEVER. I started growing financially and my girlfriend was very proud of me and vowed she will be with me for ever.
I started supporting my mom and siblings once in a while and then I entrolled in a university and single handedly paid my school fees and everything. I was sending my girlfriend about 10-20k every week for upkeep. I paid her hostel school fees from year 1 till year 4, she attended a private University so the fees was expensive but I did it for love. because of her I stopped taking care of my family, I abandoned them because she encourage me to do so indirectly. My mom cried bitterly several times and would tell me I am dating a witch but I'll yell at her and quarrel with my mom.
I tried to have sex with her severally but she told me she was a virgin and she will not have sex till she's married, wow this made me more in love with her so she used that as a weapon to keep me. I never cheated on her and I promised to marry her as a matter of fact I engage her.
Fast forward to 2016 we lodged in a Hotel just to chill and in the mid night my spirit said I should check her fone and read her whatsapp messages. Oh goddamn what I saw almost made me run mad. She was cheating on me with a guy that is richer than me. Dey even had sex damn I felt like killing her but I kept my cool and when she woke up I told her and we broke up for good. But damn I had spent millions on this bi*ch but I let her go.
I was traumatized, I felt like killing myself but what kept me alive was same year I had a contract with some west African countries and millions of Naira was coming in. Funnily enough same time we broke up I made couple millions from the contract and became a baller. I couldn't stay at home because I wasn't mentally fit due to what happened so I had to lodge in a Hotel and I spent heavily carrying different Girls, I could have sex with 4 Girls in a day, I started drinking and doing all sorts of things Although I was making more money from my contracts... I lodged in the hotel for up to 1 year without any investment, I did so just to keep myself busy and not do something stupid like taking my life. The contract crushed and money gone....
I was left with nothing and with shame I went back home and my mom and siblings embraced me and welcomed me back home and I narated all that happened. And the government changed the system of everything, I tried and tried but couldn't do anything to generate money from the west Africa countries. My mom started taking care of me.
I met one of the guys I helped when I was financially buoyant. Good news he had made money online and I asked him how he did it and he taught me all and I started and become a boss but this time with wisdom of Solomon. I have given my life to Christ, I now take care of my mom and siblings and God and been with me..
Now I am financially OK but I can never love again, I hate Girls. I wonder if I'll ever get married. I just dispise Girls. And for the first time I have not had sex for months.
I tried as much as possible to cut the story short. I can never love again sha... God did it and I am now bigger than my ex gf's bf, wiser and living my dreams. Glory be to God.
Push this to the front page let them know why we young rich n*ggas remain single even with all the cash.
I don't know why some guys still make it a priority spending on ladies just to impress her. if she want you to spend at least she should spend on you too. your left your family because of a girl what kind of foolishness is this? 1 Like |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 4:00am On Apr 20, 2018 |
amykwuba: Sorry dude ur story is a sorry case, I really feel for u, but u can't because of one girl treat others like monsters and see dem as Gold diggers, there are still responsible God fearing girls out there like Cee cee are you being sarcastic? |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by fajob: 4:01am On Apr 20, 2018 |
GeeWire: My advise to guys out there is, make it a priority to take good care of your family before any useless girl. Don't be decieved Girls nowadays are evil.
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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 4:05am On Apr 20, 2018 |
freecocoa: Mumu story from a mumu writer.
I just knew your story would be bullshit at reading that, you were willing go slap your mum to be with her, talking about how you abandoned your family to please her, my friend you are a mofo with your fake stupid a$$ story.
You spent millions indeed! C'mon gerrout of here make we see road. you dey mind the goat?? he think we're kids.. he said he could slap his mum because of a girl! jesus |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 4:08am On Apr 20, 2018 |
freecocoa: Because I'm a woman of substance with sense, and all I see, is a blawdy misogynist coming up with yet another lie, to discredit women. some ladies do that in reality, we shouldn't act as if that's not true. Naija ladies can be unpredictable 1 Like |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 4:12am On Apr 20, 2018 |
greggng: unconditional help. Don't expect something from anyone you are helping. Only politicians practice that. I trained a lady up to university level and she graduated. I discovered somethings I cannot cope with and we broke up. For instance she always steal my money and whenever I asked she denies. Note that we are just two in the flat . Only she and I. She wants me to believe thief do visit while we are out. However one day I pretended to be drunk and I signed on all the money I left in my pocket. When I woke up 7k was missing and I did ask her and she denied. 5 days later I met a woman that sells provision and she told me my girl gave her 5k to keep for her . She asked if I could take the money to her cos she is traveling the next day. I collected the fund only for me to discover that it was part of my stolen money. The signature was intact. I sent her packing and my mum begged but I refused for one reason. I don't want to give birth to a thief as a child. Her problem could be in her DNA. Note, I use to give her money to buy what she needs. Are her parents dead? guys and impression... smh |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by HeWrites(m): 4:20am On Apr 20, 2018 |
kdfinest: these gals aint loyal. But come to think of it, which online biz your friend introduced you to? I may have interest too oga, u can message here pls. You see Gee and Wire you still come ask questions |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Ishilove: 4:47am On Apr 20, 2018 |
freecocoa: Because I'm a woman of substance with sense, and all I see, is a blawdy misogynist coming up with yet another lie, to discredit women. How anyone can believe this mediocre and predictable piece of Onitsha market literature is beyond me. That is why we must trumpet the need for people to read more because the comments i have read on this thread is quite disheartening. 3 Likes |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 5:05am On Apr 20, 2018 |
dondemex: Come which business are you doing. That's what I'm interested in He's a yahoo boy / internet fraudster isn't it obvious? His disclaimer about doin' legit business was to deceive gullible ones. What stupid "West African contracts" by a boy below 25 living in hotels & fvckin' up to 4 girls in a day? Is that how business is done? A boy that had barely nothin' to eat suddenly networked many West African countries in that short space of time. Really? That's straight up Gplus. |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by zolajpower: 5:35am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Cutehector: U sabi lie eh I swear ,u dey with me sir/ma. Infact ur head dey dear. Dont blame him ,just blame the mod. Just try post a more inspiring and honest thread and see if it will see the light of the front page. |
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by tribalmall: 5:40am On Apr 20, 2018 |
sirusX: Did you just compare yourself with your ex gf's boyfriend?? That's a low point for me.... rather wish her well and move on. Life is too short to look back when there are better things ahead. Even if he was still richer, that doesn't define you
It's always a good thing to remember family....cz there are homes in which you always have them there for you despite what happens....especially those who pray on your behalf
You shouldn't let anyone determine your happiness, and learn to be strong through what life throws at you. All the sex in the world didn't make up for what you lost with your ex....that road has been taken by many
When you spend money on someone else, be convinced that it's money within your budget limit and not just to impress. Never assume that money equals loyalty from anybody
It's good that you're investing and built yourself strong...just take time and be open to other ladies around you. You never can tell when/where you meet a lady that becomes more than a blessing to you...and even thank God that your ex left you
You will then understand that everything you went through happened for a reason...and that lady you thought was was the best thing in your life was just a learning point to make you a better man
Grow in grace!! Rubbish, nothing happened for a reason when you spend money on ingrate. Guy need to stay wise n do not spend of freaking hoes that do not appreciate it. Every other shii you wrote is bs. |