CSTR1003:
smh.

Dencia must have hurt herself trying to think.


The places chimamanda have entered and dominated , dencia would be chased away with police dogs.


Attention seeking bleacher that does not know her level.

Shut up
Where have entered in your miserable life?

djl:



Adonbilivit!!!! So u mean Dencia no know her level but Chimamanda know her level talking trash about Hilary's bio?

chimamanda endorsed her during the elections.

Many voted for her because chimamanda said so.

1stola:

Shut up
Where have entered in your miserable life?

A lot of places I am certain you will not enter.

Sarang:


Lol violence are known to be done by cowards. You know what's cute? It's the ability to hold back anger

Please see my signature

See this one.

Then what's feminism/gender equality if I can't do to you what you did to me

PierreDeFermath:
Hilary Clinton referred to herself in her twitter bio as Wife,Mother,Grandmother, former presidential aspirant,hair expert,Flotus,etc while her husband's bio states Former US president,etc. and so Chimamanda boiled that Hilary shouldn't be that submissive as to calling herself wife,mother ,etc . like why didn't her husband refer to himself as husband,father,etc

It seems Shery Argov is not single anymore.... http://www.lipserviceink.com/interviews/2016/3/15/olgipgmxf8y51j2i4lc5o5lm9xlgqa

Ramon92:
This made me remember something back then in my uni days when I was dating a girl. Initially she was cool and was normal and things were fine. Love things you know..

All of a sudden, she started acting weird with some behaviors like she wanting to control me. I like confident girls but not one that'll use it to manipulate and turn men into lapdogs and menu. She'll read my texts and won't reply till hours later, won't return my calls and when she comes around she insist I go cook for her.
She started mentioning words like trust and confidence and all those feminist shiit. I didn't grab what's happening at first and I come de wonder what's happened, so I tried to get to her to know what's up.

That's how one day I went to her hostel and I called her when I was by her door. Got in and she was reading a book which she hid as I got inside. I shaa got the book when she went out and pretended not to know anything. The book, WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES BY SHERRY ARGOV..

Cos me I be avid reader sef, I got the pdf myself and wanted to know what the book is about. Geez, that's one of the vilest books I've ever read. It's practically a step by step guide on how to emasculate a man, turn him into a sissy all in the name of feminism and a man proving his worth to a woman.. I never got halfway with the book to realise what was going on with my then relationship..

It was crazy cos I was already falling for the shit and drama. Decided to use the book as a weapon and doing the exact opposite.. I don't need to tell you the result. I really now got to see her as one very insecure girl who hangs on to anything to validate herself. Same with her friends..

And that's how it's been with most girls I've been with later. They're confused, get bitter and aggressive when they can't manipulate a man and will do anything to validate themselves and that's what these fake feminists are all about.

See this Chimamanda now, married with a kid but still getting upset at a fellow woman for no reason, someone who understands what it is to be a real woman. By the way, I checked up on that Sherry ARGOV and discovered that she lives alone, maybe that says it about her..

Guys, please don't fall for their feminist gimmicks. guys that haven't seen what a woman truly is are those that carried away by these bullshitss. A woman will always remain a woman..

CSTR1003:

chimamanda endorsed her during the elections.

Many voted for her because chimamanda said so.

lwkmd.
Africans never seize to amaze me.

If you're a person that fears God and loves the truth, be wary of these people that rave about gender equality. The Bible is unequivocal on the issue, A WOMAN AND A MAN ARE NOT EQUALS. You can question God or challenge Him to a debate if you don't agree but it is how God have ordained it and with good reason. These people are the kind that are not comfortable referring to someone else as lord and savior. Always atheists. Chimamanda is also pro-homosexuality. The Bible is very clear, For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior - Ephesians 5:23. This is why relationships capsize and marriages flounder, two kings can't rule the same kingdom or occupy same throne. The Bible is clear, 'Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands as to the Lord - Ephesians 5:22.' CE version reads, 'A wife should put her husband first, as she does the Lord.' Those who know better than God can go on with their gender equality campaigns. Equality and emancipation are two different things. There's a reason it's right to submit to authority even though they're human beings like us. This is where I stand.

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CSTR1003:

You would be surprised to know chimamanda actually shapes opinions in America.
You can ask Beyonce herself.

The gap between Clinton and chimamanda is not so steep compared to the gap between chimamanda and dencia.
And Clinton is an American, a former first lady .

Chimamanda does not even own a US passport which she could get easily, and has no intention of getting one at least according to her.

If she was an American born and brought up, Michelle Obama would have nothing on her.

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Keep deceiving yourself. Chimamanda my balls.

Sarang:


I concur.. ofcourse.. equality means equality

do you think feminism includes telling a woman what to prioritize in her social media bio?

Sarang:


Can you argue without being sentimental? I only direct people to see my signature and it is left for them on their part to either see or not.. Can you grow up a bit? Everyone musn't agree with ya, you know..

lemme grow up?
you need to grow up first.. every thread you enter you must post that see my signature, isn't that spamming?
can't you do that on one thread in a week?

and what I'm I sentimental about?

one of the reasons I don't like dealing with African ladies with their unlimited childishness

prechbills1:


To me, feminism is about equal financial responsibilities and equal social opportunities..

most Nigerias don't understand this, especially the women.....truth be told, Nigerian women aren't ready for gender equality

CSTR1003:
smh.

Dencia must have hurt herself trying to think.


The places chimamanda have entered and dominated , dencia would be chased away with police dogs.


Attention seeking bleacher that does not know her level.

And I guess chimamanda must have also entered and dominated the places Clinton has? Stop equating academic excellence to wisdom. I've acquired a lot of academic qualifications but I've learnt a lot of wisdom from uneducated old people in my village, that kind of wisdom no academician can afford you. In this matter, I must confess chimamanda sounded very intelligent but very foolish

Sarang:
says who?
what has marriage got to do with feminity?
feminism is equality.. it means don't treat your sisters, mothers, wives or any woman at all like trash.. it means respect. This is what true feminism stands for,
Justice not marriage and yes equal responsibilities.. you guys be thinking like backward people sef.. Shockingly it's mostly guys that hate feminism? Why? because you need a maid in your house and not a partner right? Trash! Chimanda is a well versed and educated writer..and who is Dencia? A social media influencer? .. Pot calling kettle black..or in this case pot calling snow black

don't quote me please just go and see my signature and support my cause

Are you scared to be quoted. You want equal right but will be the same person that will shout men are the head of the family when it comes to financial aspect at home. Confused fellow.

prechbills1:


are you leaving for work?

how was your night?

My night was fine, thank you.
Once my eyes are open, work has started.
Do you support feminists? I have been reading your posts since morning I cant place your position on feminism.

Tell me what you honestly think about it.

Sarang:


There is a clear distinction between wisdom and stupidity, Nkechi bianze is mostly stupid with her posts which is why she blocked me on facebook. You see feminism can only mean one thing; Respect! If it's not respect, it's not feminism.. I hate that some women are hailing some of the stuff she writes at times too but then it is what it is.. many people love to be lead even if you are leading them into gutter Concerning Chimamanda Adichie's question, it was rude on her part to begin with, who is she to query people on what they do with their life? She's on a wrong foot when it comes to feminism at times.. Respect is being equal.. not injustice, not hurting anyone whether man or woman, just being respectful to all is all..

Please see my signature

It is not only respect but discrimination.If discrimination is reduced advocacies like social,racial,gender equality would be thing of the past.Nice one.

Sarang:
says who?
what has marriage got to do with feminity?
feminism is equality.. it means don't treat your sisters, mothers, wives or any woman at all like trash.. it means respect. This is what true feminism stands for,
Justice not marriage and yes equal responsibilities.. you guys be thinking like backward people sef.. Shockingly it's mostly guys that hate feminism? Why? because you need a maid in your house and not a partner right? Trash! Chimanda is a well versed and educated writer..and who is Dencia? A social media influencer? .. Pot calling kettle black..or in this case pot calling snow black

don't quote me please just go and see my signature and support my cause

Why wont I quote you with all these your logical, sound and valid argument? You're point on my dear. Male folks be wanting to misuse their God given authority by treating women like a piece of rag. I am a man but you need to see me and fiancee deliberating on the way forward. She's always carried along. We're a team.

dominique:
Chimanda

A staunch feminist that has been married for over 3 years and has a child, One of two things is involved

1. The whole feminist stance is a farce, she's not practising what she's preaching when it comes to her marriage

2. Her husband is a docile lapdog

I go with 1

I go with 1 & 2

CSTR1003:

A lot of places I am certain you will not enter.

Apart from different hotels, motels and brothels, where else?

martineverest:
most Nigerias don't understand this, especially the women.....truth be told, Nigerian women aren't ready for gender equality

I agree a lot of women still have some level of patriarchal mentality in them.

Notmyproblem:
Most people don't even understand where she was coming from. I think she was pointing out Hilary's hypocrisy, it's like everyone forgot how Hilary protrayed herself during her campaign and the boost she gave feminism? But then most Nigerians have short term memories and are quick to jump to conclusions without looking beyond what is presented to them.

Does her prioritizing her wife and mother role over her other achievements make her less of a feminist?

Notmyproblem:


I think most people misunderstood her it is typical of Nigerians to jump into conclusions without carefully examining an issues. She was only pointing out Hilary's hypocrisy. Did you recall what Hilary stood for during the campaign trail how she was subtly riding on the concept of a strong independent feminist against a patriarchal Trump?

and I ask again ... does prioritizing her wife and mother role make her less of a feminist or a patriarchal hypocrite?

is feminism against marriage and family?

is feminism against a woman choosing her own life and priorities?

Sarang:


Gender equality is feminism..no mistake

nah. Agree to disagree. They're both different though with one idea connecting the two, that is 'to kick against the discrimination of women'. Feminism is all about the struggle for women rights, while gender equality is trying to bridge what differentiates a male from a female. Thats what s0me feminist don't get. They should kn0w what feminism is all about before calling themselves feminists.

Sarang:


You respect people.. What you want? Don't you want to win $100 million? Go and fight Eyan Mayweather nah

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