BJ means Bolaji, I no understand what you're talking about Biko

Offpoint:

Even saw your moniker on the entrance door, but this time it wasn't abbreviated' it was written in full and in bold font. "Blow-Job-Girl-One". how did your moniker got there?

Lalas247:


match is on .. CNT read this right now

lols... you're a very funny person..
I understand your ways now..

you've been pretending ...

prechbills1:


lols... you're a very funny person..
I understand your ways now..

you've been pretending ...

Pretending to be ?

Wow

He no Even get mind, he took small potion which he's immune system could fight and survive, he's even afraid of death, he should have taken it all nonsense ,any way free ticket to hell, no objection

AreaFada2:


My dear anatomically, deek is not equivalent to a woman's bum. So bum for bum.

Unless you were born in UK technically you can be stripped of UK passport under current legislation. Maybe not for a sexual offence warranting 24 months imprisonment. But it happens for certain crimes.

My dear, only men will know if women grab a man's bum or not. Maybe not in public, but in offices, it happens. In that same UK. I have seen it o.

Rapists do not necessarily need a learning curve or apprenticeship. Most just do the small stuff until the opportunity for a bigger one comes up. Deterrence is good. But it doesn't deter those who cannot control their behaviour.

My argument was not even against the punishment but the double standard of it.

You have put the stereotypical argument forward that women never do such. Really? How can you be so sure. You know every woman in this world?

Lagos police announced just recently that cases of domestic violence in court with women as suspects are more than those of men as culprits. I guess many people out there still argue that only men abuse women domestically. Now consider the shame & stigma a man has to overcome to admit that his wife is beating him up at home. So only very few men come forward. Still the figures are still so high.

Same with sexual abuse of children. The belief out there is that it is men who do it. I was shocked by what I heard a few years ago. I was discussing with a group of 9ja guys from about 25 to 45 years old. More than have casually said they first had sex with a far senior woman around age of 12 to 15. They were mostly one "auntie", like a neighbour looking after them, an in law, etc. Women that were married or had a boyfriend. Shocking.

I have written about this many times over the years here.

Born in Germany actually ... so I can only be stripped if I neutralised ... I didn’t birth certificate is European ... so the can deport me to Germany last last
But can’t be stripped even if I commit murder
You said it yourself , rapist do small stuff till opportunity arrives ... do u know who that guy could have raped ! So I could have saved several souls hence why He served his time ..

I don’t know every woman but if you did a poll you will find men do it more and if women do maybe in America l.. I’m just speaking on England and Nigeria. I’m just saying I have never seen a woman grab a main deek at Lagos island or here ... even if u ask any female she will be like it does nothing for us anyway ...
was I not in Lagos few weeks back .. even at the airport see them grabbing my arm all sorts of bushery

It is not shocking to see Lagos police announce such trash .. havent you noticed the respect men don’t have for women main,y in Africa but some are coming out of the cave Naija refuse too .. its like they have condition their citizens to see women as lesser being .
I was watching a gender reveal party where the man walk off cause it’s a girl ! Can u imagine ! You will NEVER SEE SUCH HERE! NEVER

If men don’t come forward that’s simply their misplaced Egos working has nothing to do with females ... if a guy press my yansh again I will do the same thing why ? I didn’t give him any consent to do so

Even as a Man, U slap a chic on the road ... my dear u will get locked up ! If a man slaps a woman in Nigeria what happens nothing! So I understand why they treat women that way .. cause they have been conditioned to do so ...Lawless Country
Shalom

Lalas247:


Born in Germany actually ... so I can only be stripped if I neutralised ... I didn’t birth certificate is European ... so the can deport me to Germany last last
But can’t be stripped even if I commit murder
You said it yourself , rapist do small stuff till opportunity arrives ... do u know who that guy could have raped ! So I could have saved several souls hence why He served his time ..

I don’t know every woman but if you did a poll you will find men do it more and if women do maybe in America l.. I’m just speaking on England and Nigeria. I’m just saying I have never seen a woman grab a main deek at Lagos island or here ... even if u ask any female she will be like it does nothing for us anyway ...
was I not in Lagos few weeks back .. even at the airport see them grabbing my arm all sorts of bushery

It is not shocking to see Lagos police announce such trash .. havent you noticed the respect men don’t have for women main,y in Africa but some are coming out of the cave Naija refuse too .. its like they have condition their citizens to see women as lesser being .
I was watching a gender reveal party where the man walk off cause it’s a girl ! Can u imagine ! You will NEVER SEE SUCH HERE! NEVER

If men don’t come forward that’s simply their misplaced Egos working has nothing to do with females ... if a guy press my yansh again I will do the same thing why ? I didn’t give him any consent to do so

Even as a Man, U slap a chic on the road ... my dear u will get locked up ! If a man slaps a woman in Nigeria what happens nothing! So I understand why they treat women that way .. cause they have been conditioned to do so ...Lawless Country
Shalom

Lol@Lala,

Again bum for bum. I'd rather you report to the police than grab his. If you did you might send the wrong message that you're secretly enjoying the mutual grabbing.
What I meant to point out is that many myths about things women do or don't do have been busted. Though many still insist. From infidelity, violence, fraud etc.
Despite being "Trump's shithole", things are changing gradually in 9ja and across Africa.

A lecturer soliciting sex for marks has just been suspended and being investigated. NGo's promoting women issues are coming up. Give ordinary people some credit, if not govt. Compared to Saudi where they were holding a conference on Women and gender equality and no women were invited. Yet the West dare not criticise them.

All those your German people sha. It was the only country in Western Europe where I never saw black doing decent jobs about 22 years back. No bankers in bank shops, black bus train drivers or train drivers rare, receptionists, none, police and immigration none. Aside Arabella Kisbauer & one black/mixed race guy like that, no black face on TV. Yeah one guy acting immigrant in a soap. On Showbizz Tic Tac Toe, Darkman & Hardaway.

Schroeder with the Greens govt tried sha, maybe not so much on economics but on liberalisation. Things have improved since. Dual citizenship was almost previously impossible except for people whose birth countries back then didn't allow renouncement of nationality like Iran & Venezuela?

Langsam aber sicher wird alles besser. Auch in Afrika. In Nigeria um genau zu sein.

Lalas247:

Pretending to be ?

you're a very treacherous person.

Lalas247:


Born in Germany actually ... so I can only be stripped if I neutralised ... I didn’t birth certificate is European ... so the can deport me to Germany last last
But can’t be stripped even if I commit murder
You said it yourself , rapist do small stuff till opportunity arrives ... do u know who that guy could have raped ! So I could have saved several souls hence why He served his time ..

I don’t know every woman but if you did a poll you will find men do it more and if women do maybe in America l.. I’m just speaking on England and Nigeria. I’m just saying I have never seen a woman grab a main deek at Lagos island or here ... even if u ask any female she will be like it does nothing for us anyway ...
was I not in Lagos few weeks back .. even at the airport see them grabbing my arm all sorts of bushery

It is not shocking to see Lagos police announce such trash .. havent you noticed the respect men don’t have for women main,y in Africa but some are coming out of the cave Naija refuse too .. its like they have condition their citizens to see women as lesser being .
I was watching a gender reveal party where the man walk off cause it’s a girl ! Can u imagine ! You will NEVER SEE SUCH HERE! NEVER

If men don’t come forward that’s simply their misplaced Egos working has nothing to do with females ... if a guy press my yansh again I will do the same thing why ? I didn’t give him any consent to do so

Even as a Man, U slap a chic on the road ... my dear u will get locked up ! If a man slaps a woman in Nigeria what happens nothing! So I understand why they treat women that way .. cause they have been conditioned to do so ...Lawless Country
Shalom

why should I pay money before marrying a lady and won't see her as a lesser human ?
If a lady slaps a man on the road in the UK will she be jailed??

prechbills1:


why should I pay money before marrying a lady and won't see her as a lesser human ?
If a lady slaps a man on the road in the UK will she be jailed??

If the guy reports it ...

One stabbed her bf a few times poured hot water on him while he was sleeping ... she is still serving time

The issue is not tha law favours solely ladies but men don’t report these crimes or abuse

prechbills1:





you're a very treacherous person.

Going by what exactly? What u see online or what online ppl tell u or ppl who don’t actually know me or think they do lol ok
I can see ur mentality same as others ... no worries what u think mean absolutely nothing to me .. u can unfollow n not quote anymore pls .. stick to those u believe ur friends

Have a nice day

AreaFada2:


Lol@Lala,

Again bum for bum. I'd rather you report to the police than grab his. If you did you might send the wrong message that you're secretly enjoying the mutual grabbing.
What I meant to point out is that many myths about things women do or don't do have been busted. Though many still insist. From infidelity, violence, fraud etc.
Despite being "Trump's shithole", things are changing gradually in 9ja and across Africa.

A lecturer soliciting sex for marks has just been suspended and being investigated. NGo's promoting women issues are coming up. Give ordinary people some credit, if not govt. Compared to Saudi where they were holding a conference on Women and gender equality and no women were invited. Yet the West dare not criticise them.

All those your German people sha. It was the only country in Western Europe where I never saw black doing decent jobs about 22 years back. No bankers in bank shops, black bus train drivers or train drivers rare, receptionists, none, police and immigration none. Aside Arabella Kisbauer & one black/mixed race guy like that, no black face on TV. Yeah one guy acting immigrant in a soap. On Showbizz Tic Tac Toe, Darkman & Hardaway.

Shroeder with Greens govt tried sha, maybe not so much on economics but on liberalisation. Things have improved since. Dual citizenship was almost previously impossible except for people whose birth countries back then didn't allow renouncement of nationality like Iran & Venezuela?

Langsam aber sicher wird alles besser. Auch in Afrika. In Nigeria um genau zu sein.

Na wa o
Got u speaking in another language lol nice chatting dear
Valid points all round .. this is kind of debate I like with mature minds ... not these kids that can’t communicate outside using insultive vocabulary
When I was born u are right racism was so strong my mum told her some shops they refused to serve her .. still can’t believe it ...
But yes even in France have you been there ? From the airport they chat to you anyhow .... hardly visit Germany have only two family members left there so not too bad . But you are right their law for immigrants was so strict then . Still is but ways around it

Looks like you got yourself a stalker in the moniker of prechbills1

Lalas247:

Going by what exactly? What u see online or what online ppl tell u or ppl who don’t actually know me or think they do lol ok
I can see ur mentality same as others ... no worries what u think mean absolutely nothing to me .. u can unfollow n not quote anymore pls .. stick to those u believe ur friends

Have a nice day

Lalas247:

Na wa o
Got u speaking in another language lol nice chatting dear
Valid points all round .. this is kind of debate I like with mature minds ... not these kids that can’t communicate outside using insultive vocabulary
When I was born u are right racism was so strong my mum told her some shops they refused to serve her .. still can’t believe it ...
But yes even in France have you been there ? From the airport they chat to you anyhow .... hardly visit Germany have only two family members left there so not too bad . But you are right their law for immigrants was so strict then . Still is but ways around it

Lol thanks dear.

Well, Paris is not really representative of France. I guess you've probably mostly been through Paris. Attitudes in the French Riviera: Nice, Cannes, Marseilles, and other southern cities like Perpignan, Avignon, etc are quite different. People are friendlier. You will enjoy short breaks in those areas. Generally you need to understand French attitudes first. They are generally very straight talking. What people from England and other places might find impolite. They feel being unnecessarily friendly/familiar might offend you. Plus the French are very big on formality. Like greeting people properly with the correct title, not just hi or hey.

One important trick is to learn basic French words, phrases, greetings, etc. Walk into a bakery and say " Bonjour Madame, une baguette s'il vous plait". And you will get a very warm reply & service. Even if you do not know much French. Going in and blowing Queen's English right away would immediately appear rude & disrespectful. As in WTF! I'm in my country, not UK or America.

Gokey15:
Looks like you got yourself a stalker in the moniker of prechbills1

stalker in what form?
stalking her for what?
Know things before saying trash.
I used to think her for an unbiased and intellectual person but I stopped seeing her as such yesterday.
At a particular phase of life the true intentions of everyone always play out.

AreaFada2:


Lol thanks dear.

Well, Paris is not really representative of France. I guess you've probably mostly been through Paris. Attitudes in the French Riviera: Nice, Cannes, Marseilles, and other Southern Cities like Perpignan, Avignon, etc are quite different. People are friendlier. You will enjoy short breaks in those areas. Generally you need to understand French attitudes generally. They are generally very straight talking. What people from England other places might find impolite. They feel being unnecessarily friend/familiar might offend you. Plus the French are very big on formality. Like greeting people properly with correct title, not just hi or hey.

One important trick is to learn basic French words, phrases, greetings, etc. Walk into a bakery and say " Bonjour Madame, une baguette s'il vous plait". And you will get a very warm reply & service. Even if you do not know much French. Going in and blowing Queen's English right away would immediately appear rude & disrespectful. As in WTF! I'm in my country, not UK or America.

It takes a long time before one can integrate into the French system.

@embolded Marseilles is a very nice city.. always warm

Lalas247:

If the guy reports it ...

One stabbed her bf a few times poured hot water on him while he was sleeping ... she is still serving time

The issue is not tha law favours solely ladies but men don’t report these crimes or abuse

"Your thoughts ".

Men report such crimes but are usually ignored or tagged as "weak" and "pussy niggas" by the authorities.


End of conversation.

prechbills1:


It takes a long time before one can integrate into the French system.

@embolded Marseilles is a very nice city.. always warm

True @ bolded.

Honestly it's fairly difficult integrating into Western societies. What immigrants interpret as having integrated is actually just feeling at home or comfortable in the adopted country. But still various races lead more or less parallel lives. Having a couple of native friends or going for a drink with a few work colleagues hardly change that. True integration requires a massive change on the part of the immigrant. If you have a strong attachment to African values, you will never really integrate. That is why the earlier you leave Africa, the more you'll integrate into a new country. If you have relocated to different countries within West at different ages, you will even notice that you were able to adjust more easily when you were younger.

Omosalewa moving to London at age of 39 and Ikechukwu moving to Atlanta at age 43 will really never integrate.

AreaFada2:


True @ bolded.

Honestly it's fairly difficult integrating into Western societies. What immigrants interpret as having integrated is actually just feeling at home or comfortable in the adopted country. But still various races lead more or less parallel lives. Having a couple of native friends or going for a drink with a few work colleagues hardly change that. True integration requires a massive change on the part of the immigrant. If you have a strong attachment to African values, you will never really integrate. That is why the earlier you leave Africa, the more you'll integrate into a new country. If you have relocated to different countries within West at different ages, you will even notice that you were able to adjust more easily when you were younger.

Omosalewa moving to London at age of 39 and Ikechukwu moving to Atlanta at age 43 will really never integrate.

French culture is hard to integrate into.

Lalas247:
Wasteman 1.0

You didn’t intend to harm her but you did .... so what do you think would happen it is GBH ! And gonna do the time
He obv hit his wife .. it’s a norm within Africans and Asians here in England .... and that is why they feel women have power which is not the case ... even one slap can land a man in prison so they embrace the law ...
now he is claiming victim ... Zim men are one of the worse here for violence to their women along with Pakistanis , Indians , Chinese


It’s England not UK bush guy ....
The fact he is taking rat poison ! Really over one pussay just shows he is mentally unstable person .. well I don’t blame him cause he might pray for death if he goes prison........

Pls note ... this ain’t Africa ! British police would have carried out all checks and seen the bruises in the wife body before GBH can Ben issued ..

A guy slapped my ass in public he did 24months in prison then got deported ....... they don’t joke about ..

bruh I don't know if he was a wife basher but we all know that women run the show in the obodo oyinbo... Dem no tell me... I see am korokoro.

And women can be demons when they have control... I am not complaining though, after all nah mumu man go first go meet woman say him dey feel love for her.. If he stays on his freaking own... he won't get his ego bruised by the power of a woman abroad...

Gokey15:
Looks like you got yourself a stalker in the moniker of prechbi

lol do u know him ?
so how come ave never seen u here before .. hiding from me right ...

something about u I can't place my finger on

Franzinni:
bruh I don't know if he was a wife basher but we all know that women run the show in the obodo oyinbo... Dem no tell me... I see am korokoro.

And women can be demons when they have control... I am not complaining though, after all nah mumu man go first go meet woman say him dey feel love for her.. If he stays on his freaking own... he won't get his ego bruised by the power of a woman abroad...

so why didn't he act right in another man country ....

AreaFada2:


Lol thanks dear.

Well, Paris is not really representative of France. I guess you've probably mostly been through Paris. Attitudes in the French Riviera: Nice, Cannes, Marseilles, and other southern cities like Perpignan, Avignon, etc are quite different. People are friendlier. You will enjoy short breaks in those areas. Generally you need to understand French attitudes first. They are generally very straight talking. What people from England and other places might find impolite. They feel being unnecessarily friendly/familiar might offend you. Plus the French are very big on formality. Like greeting people properly with the correct title, not just hi or hey.

One important trick is to learn basic French words, phrases, greetings, etc. Walk into a bakery and say " Bonjour Madame, une baguette s'il vous plait". And you will get a very warm reply & service. Even if you do not know much French. Going in and blowing Queen's English right away would immediately appear rude & disrespectful. As in WTF! I'm in my country, not UK or America.

wow ! yes I was referring to Paris ... never been or stayed in the southern parts so can't say ..
maybe that was why I spoke English n they kept responding in French ... was like OK rude..
cause they do the sane here French ppl can be very arrogant .... but we are more tolerant of others here .. do u know I get orders from customers in France and not one oybce of English.. staff has to flag it up then I translate and the whole transaction is in drench but they are purchasing from an English store...

maybe its just me sha lol
not going there again ... wanna go Malaysia my friend just came bk .. said the place is so beautiful..the people... food .. view.. ahhhh

Lalas247:

wow ! yes I was referring to Paris ... never been or stayed in the southern parts so can't say ..
maybe that was why I spoke English n they kept responding in French ... was like OK rude..
cause they do the sane here French ppl can be very arrogant .... but we are more tolerant of others here .. do u know I get orders from customers in France and not one oybce of English.. staff has to flag it up then I translate and the whole transaction is in drench but they are purchasing from an English store...

maybe its just me sha lol
not going there again ... wanna go Malaysia my friend just came bk .. said the place is so beautiful..the people... food .. view.. ahhhh

Lol. Many cannot command English as they would like. For people who like to be exquisite with things, broken English won't do.

But things are changing gradually. I could never imagine Charles de Gaulle, Georges Pompidou or Valerie Giscard d'Estaing to address the US congress or give press conferences or interview in English. Macron now does.
As for Cliche, there is much of it in England towards France. Dating back from 1066 already! And vice versa. Something we people of foreign origin must be careful not to buy into. I have seen it on both sides and even beyond. Even reading books on Napoleonic wars written by French & English people, you'd think they are writing about two different wars entirely. I had to read books written by people of other nationalities not influenced by English Or French education to get a balanced view.

Consider the concept of "angry black women & aggressive black men". Many Caucasians who have never experienced it keep in their head as real.
There is something called "confirmation bias" in psychology. It is where people have a pre-conceived opinion of other people. Probably programmed by own family, environment and general cliches. We then subconsciously seek out any little evidence, behaviour or attitude that confirms those cliches. We then interpret even the most flimsy stuff as evidence of our held opinions. It happens everywhere. To everyone.

Now consider Windrush issue. That would never happen in France. France believe in "assimilation" whereby everybody in France has to be as French as possibly can. That includes the concept of French citizenship & culture. That raised the issue of headscarf that most do not understand or accept. But it applied to Christian symbols long ago already. Total separation of Church and State is over 200 years old. A fallout from history. Cardinal Richlieu was the first Prime Minister of France and in any Western country, in 1624. Compared to UK's first Prime Minister Robert Walpole in 1735. Richlieu was a very controversial political character. Historical experiences shape national politics & culture that outsiders may not know.

While multi-culturalism has worked well in Canada, it hasn't really worked well in UK. Such that people now question it. Now people have to do Life in UK test to become British. Everybody is increasingly but without admitting it moving towards "national values" model. So tolerance as claimed has to be critically examined, not just taken on the surface.

Lalas247:

so why didn't he act right in another man country ....

my dear that question pass Me o... Let me hand over the mic to Buhari

prechbills1:


"Your thoughts ".

Men report such crimes but are usually ignored or tagged as "weak" and "pussy niggas" by the authorities.


End of conversation.

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