A successful Jamaican born United States citizen minister and entrepreneur male who has been living in the United States for 30 years of his life desires to relocate to Nigeria. This Jamaican man wants to start a family and raise them in Nigeria. He is 41 years old, never been married, and has no children. However, he would like a female who could obviously love him and build a life with him, but also give him children without risk. Here are the questions?
1. Would a Nigerian woman even consider marrying this man?
2. What is the safest age for him to consider in a wife?
3. What is the youngest age for him to consider and the maximum age for him to consider?
4. Would a mother and father bless an union with their daughter to this man?

Please, keep it professional. I really appreciate the honest feedback. Always trying to learn and understand the culture!

Are u talking about yourself?

1. Definitely u will find the woman you desire the moment u relocate yourself in Ng.

2. Juz dont go below 30.

3. 30 & up, depending on ur preference .

4. I think u have to build their trust first, not bcoz ur a foreign it doesn't mean ur intentions are pure & u have u be ready for the bride price as well..

Good luck in ur search & may u find the best lady that will u love for the rest of ur life..

Thank you for your reply QueenSuccubus!

Yes, I am relocating to Lekki November this year. I have decided to build my international headquarters for my companies there in Lagos. I have totally fallen in love with Nigeria and have decided to make it my base. Now, after years of building, I am ready to settle down. So I have seen this 10 years age appropriate difference on other posts. Bride price? I seriously dont think that would be an issue! I am more concerned with finding someone who can compliment who I am. But I really want to have children too, and I do not want childbearing to be a burden on her body. That is why I was asking the appropriate age. In America, females frown on having children once they have passed thirty. Is this the same mindset in Nigeria?

QueenSuccubus:



Are u talking about yourself?

1. Definitely u will find the woman you desire the moment u relocate yourself in Ng.

2. Juz dont go below 30.

3. 30 & up, depending on ur preference .

4. I think u have to build their trust first, not bcoz ur a foreign it doesn't mean ur intentions are pure & u have u be ready for the bride price as well..

Good luck in ur search & may u find the best lady that will u love for the rest of ur life..

Thank you for your reply QueenSuccubus!

Yes, I am relocating to Lekki November this year. I have decided to build my international headquarters for my companies there in Lagos. I have totally fallen in love with Nigeria and have decided to make it my base. Now, after years of building, I am ready to settle down. So I have seen this 10 years age appropriate difference on other posts. Bride price? I seriously dont think that would be an issue! I am more concerned with finding someone who can compliment who I am. But I really want to have children too, and I do not want childbearing to be a burden on her body. That is why I was asking the appropriate age. In America, females frown on having children once they have passed thirty. Is this the same mindset in Nigeria?

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avled:
Thank you for your reply QueenSuccubus!

Yes, I am relocating to Lekki November this year. I have decided to build my international headquarters for my companies there in Lagos. I have totally fallen in love with Nigeria and have decided to make it my base. Now, after years of building, I am ready to settle down. So I have seen this 10 years age appropriate difference on other posts. Bride price? I seriously dont think that would be an issue! I am more concerned with finding someone who can compliment who I am. But I really want to have children too, and I do not want childbearing to be a burden on her body. That is why I was asking the appropriate age. In America, females frown on having children once they have passed thirty. Is this the same mindset in Nigeria?

Well, I'm not a Nigerian so i have no idea when it comes to their female mindset of giving birth after 30 ...I think it's all depends on every individual regardless of her race & nationality...

QueenSuccubus:



Well, I'm not a Nigerian so i have no idea when it comes to their female mindset of giving birth after 30 ...I think it's all depends on every individual regardless of her race & nationality...

What nationality are you? Do you live in Nigeria?

avled:


What nationality are you? Do you live in Nigeria?

Im from the Philippines... #ProudAsian

Nope, i never been to Ng. So, i have no idea what it looks down there..

QueenSuccubus:



Im from the Philippines... #ProudAsian

Nope, i never been to Ng. So, i have no idea what it looks down there..

LOL. Ok. Im wondering how you could answer the original question with any intelligence.

avled:


LOL. Ok. Im wondering how you could answer the original question with any intelligence.

Well, let's say i observe...

And not only that, there's alot of Nigerians here in Asia as well..

QueenSuccubus:




Well, let's say i observe...

And not only that, there's alot of Nigerians here in Asia as well..

lol. Nigerians are everywhere. They are great migrants.

avled:


lol. Nigerians are everywhere. They are great migrants.

Yeaaah...I agree with you...

Btw, why u chose Nigeria ? I mean what attracts you that made u fall in love & decided to settle down there?

QueenSuccubus:


Yeaaah...I agree with you...

Btw, why u chose Nigeria ? I mean what attracts you that made u fall in love & decided to settle down there?

The answer is simply for this one. God told me to go to Nigeria! I accepted the assignment. After that, I researched the country and extremely fell in love with the country.

QueenSuccubus:



Are u talking about yourself?

1. Definitely u will find the woman you desire the moment u relocate yourself in Ng.

2. Juz dont go below 30.

3. 30 & up, depending on ur preference .

4. I think u have to build their trust first, not bcoz ur a foreign it doesn't mean ur intentions are pure & u have u be ready for the bride price as well..

Good luck in ur search & may u find the best lady that will u love for the rest of ur life..

. 5...if you know you don't have enough money don't go to the east..happy married life

avled:


The answer is simply for this one. God told me to go to Nigeria! I accepted the assignment. After that, I researched the country and extremely fell in love with the country.

Uummmm ...Oh okies...

Well, good luck in ur chosen path...

mikejj:
. 5...if you know you don't have enough money don't go to the east..happy married life

lol. Money....I doubt that will be an issue. lol

QueenSuccubus:



Im from the Philippines... #ProudAsian

Nope, i never been to Ng. So, i have no idea what it looks down there..

. naxo..thunder of day b4 yesterday is still available

QueenSuccubus:




Uummmm ...Oh okies...

Well, good luck in ur chosen path...

Thank you so very much.

mikejj:
. naxo..thunder of day b4 yesterday is still available

Hahahahhahaah...what i gonna do with ur thick thunder sha ?

Nawa for u ooo...

so my man,my advice for you is simple,go for love, marry for love,love will keep you strong,.. we have beautiful and good ladies in Nigeria search well..and one day u will even want to invite your brothers from Jamaica to come and marry here,,Nigeria women are not like america women OK..even in their forties they can still give birth thank you.

QueenSuccubus:






Hahahahhahaah...what i gonna do with ur thick thunder sha ?

Nawa for u ooo...

you are not going anywhere o .this Nigeria!!!..we dey here together??

mikejj:
so my man,my advice for you is simple,go for love, marry for love,love will keep you strong,.. we have beautiful and good ladies in Nigeria search well..and one day u will even want to invite your brothers from Jamaica to come and marry here,,Nigeria women are not like america women OK..even in their forties they can still give birth thank you.

Even in their forties...i love it....all my brothers are in America....And honestly, they would have to come to believe it. America has sold a very incorrect image of Africa and most Americans, especially African Americans or anyone that has roots in Africa who live in America has believed the false news of Africa. But the 1% has a plan for this transfer of negative image power. It is my prayer that the 99% will one day experience Africa and fall in love with HOME.

Where in Nigeria are you located?

mikejj:
. naxo..thunder of day b4 yesterday is still available

So explain this to me please

avled:


Even in their forties...i love it....all my brothers are in America....And honestly, they would have to come to believe it. America has sold a very incorrect image of Africa and most Americans, especially African Americans or anyone that has roots in Africa who live in America has believed the false news of Africa. But the 1% has a plan for this transfer of negative image power. It is my prayer that the 99% will one day experience Africa and fall in love with HOME.

Where in Nigeria are you located?

. i base in Fct bro...how about you

mikejj:
. i base in Fct bro...how about you

Ok. That sounds great. I am based in Atlanta, Georgia. What do you do in Abuja?

avled:


Ok. That sounds great. I am based in Atlanta, Georgia. What do you do in Abuja?

hustling bro....

mikejj:
hustling bro....

ok. So what are you currently hustling?

avled:

ok. So what are you currently hustling?

life

@OP. I guess this post is about you so here's my response

1)Sure! As long as you are responsible, presentable and have good intentions towards her.

2) Since you want children, it is advisable you go for someone below the age of 30. Severe birth complications are more common with older mothers. However, with proper medical care, it shouldn't be too much of a problem.

3) 25-32

4) It all depends on the type of family she's from. There are families who won't accept a man from other ethnic groups in Nigeria talk more of someone that's not a Nigerian. There are also others who don't care about ethnic group, nationality etc.

Finally OP, never ever flaunt your wealth. It will attract the wrong set of people.
I pray you find a good woman.

avled:
A successful Jamaican born United States citizen minister and entrepreneur male who has been living in the United States for 30 years of his life desires to relocate to Nigeria. This Jamaican man wants to start a family and raise them in Nigeria. He is 41 years old, never been married, and has no children. However, he would like a female who could obviously love him and build a life with him, but also give him children without risk. Here are the questions?
1. Would a Nigerian woman even consider marrying this man?
2. What is the safest age for him to consider in a wife?
3. What is the youngest age for him to consider and the maximum age for him to consider?
4. Would a mother and father bless an union with their daughter to this man?

Please, keep it professional. I really appreciate the honest feedback. Always trying to learn and understand the culture!

1. yes
2. If u mean age diff. Then 6yrs is ok....which is 35.
3. 28 and shouldn't exceed 38!
4. Of course!! My opinion though!

@OP Like the lady above me said...don't flaunt ur wealth try to gain trust 1st!