Your problem is the prophecy. If there was no prophesy you would be married by now except you don't have the things a woman look for in a man or you dey standard of the woman you want above your level.
Live your life as if there's no prophesy (those prophesy ain't real), in no time you'll be married.

I remember my parent taking me to a church and one of their Elemi (prophet/seer) said I'll impregnate a girl that year ..... me wet u just finish university , dey enjoy my bachelor life. 4 yrs after, all na wash

RickRansom:

It's the law of Moses at work. There are some things I wrote up there that, in the sight of ordinary language users, are wrong. I owe no one any explanation.

By mere reading ur posts, I can guess ur problem! ITK-u too know. Just come down a notch, nobody knows everything! And, knowing everything, never took anyone to heaven.

U probably do or stay in a place, where u don't get to meet d kind of girls u'll want to date? Or, u probably, can't afford them


Better make do with d available, or just get out of d country(overseas would be best). U also have sexy eyes, which is why d singles can't look u in d eye n d married wonder, if u can actually do anything in bed

I will advice you to go back to the pastor. He is powerful. he can help you locate her. Are you sure the woman you seek is not me? where do you stay?

When w v lazy lady's plenty for Naija

LuvSwollenPussy:
The only way to free urself from d bondage of that prophesy is to live as if u didn't hear it or you didn't believe in it. Just live ur life on. By the time a lady takes in for you, you would realize that d prophesy actually came to pass.

I'm serious. Something similar has happened to me before too. When I got tired I started living my life like d prophesy was just a lie. Before I knew it, when I did a recheck of my life, I realized d prophesy actually came to pass.

Hmm,there are a lot of prophesies concerning a particular issue of which I,myself have tried to take step to actualise that prophesy but no way. I think I just have to live as if I didn't receive any prophesy because in my life I have never imagined or dreamt of that.
I just pray the prophesy comes into reality because it is a good one.

The highest prophecy I respect and believe is the one that comes thru dreams. I do not believe any man can close his eyes and start talking, they ll just psyche you that is all, pray on ur own, pray for God to show you things in ur dreams and let Him give you the wisdom to interpret it. for church vision forget it.

godfrey01:



one thing you didn't mention.. are you working? do you have a well paid job ir good business you are doing if the answer is no, bro its the reason why the women younhave met are running away from you.

Gbam! You hit the nail on the head.

Prophesy or no prophesy, If those things mentioned by this bros up there is not visible in your life? Forget it, no single lady will look at you twice.
It's not by fine alone o.

Fine will not pay house rent or place food on table or pay hospital bills.

So Op, man up!

Don't hide prophesy.

RickRansom:


Unemployable, lazy youth!

please it's not everything that you have to reply. Just ignore that guy. U will find ur soulmate amen!

feodan:
Helo bro hw are u doing ?
im also into printing business, which machine do u ave ? Nd where's ur press ?

half cord machine @ile-ife osun state, do u also av printing machine too and which type?

Nkepris:
I will advice you to go back to the pastor. He is powerful. he can help you locate her. Are you sure the woman you seek is not me? where do you stay?

DM me on my WhatsApp no.. looking for a girl who we can grow together if u r for real shaaa

RadicallyBlunt:
That means buhari prophesy that you're a lazy Nigerian youth will affect your hardworking life too.

How can I say f#ckkkkkkk you bubu in calabar language?

adetoroamos:
half cord machine @ile-ife osun state, do u also av printing machine too and which type?

wow ! Wat a great oppourtunity 2 be a boss of ur own. I celebrate u sir. Actualy i am a kord operator, but i left my job becuz i gained admission last year 2 a federal uni. But i'm nw @ home becuz of 50k 2 complete my sch fee payment, its will close on monday so im already planing 2 quite skul and relocate 2 ph or abj.

feodan:
wow ! Wat a great oppourtunity 2 be a boss of ur own. I celebrate u sir. Actualy i am a kord operator, but i left my job becuz i gained admission last year 2 a federal uni. But i'm nw @ home becuz of 50k 2 complete my sch fee payment, its will close on monday so im already planing 2 quite skul and relocate 2 ph or abj.

everything still dry for here as I just open recently that all my savings for food almost finish now... na God face I fey luk make customer show next week cos this week don go already

adetoroamos:
everything still dry for here as I just open recently that all my savings for food almost finish now... na God face I fey luk make customer show next week cos this week don go already

God will surely make a way, customers are coming ijn. Where exactly are u in ife becuz i ave some relative in ife also ?

lets see your pics to actually know if you're what you said you are

I think you should pray about it and God will give you direction on what step to take next.. or you could still call the person that gave you the prophecy for more clarity

Sir, that someone you've not met from Adam told you of happenings in your life present and in the future with much precision doesn't make him or her a prophet of God. People with familiar/demonic spirit do such too as evident in Acts 16:16, most calling themselves prophets are not of God. Never let them to tamper with you head, you don't screen or check spiritual things with your head(brain and mind) but with your spirit. Scriptures instruct on trying every spirit for false ones are all over the place (1 John 4:1-6). Once anyone is coming your way, please either walk out or shut them off, especially in parks. Your life is of much value to you, don't give it off cheap and allow all sorts into it.

Also, an important balance or check of prophecy is for it to edify, exhort (encourage) and comfort (pacify or soothe) the recipient (1 Corinthians 14:3). This prophecy doesn't speak of the three, it's majorly information and instructions. Not all we hear and read is good for us, but we ought to deliberately separate the useful ones from those are not.

The Word of God is the final authority on any prophecy concerning all sons and daughters of God (Christians). I'm not with every knowledge of it though, but till date I'm yet to come across having to travel to meet your spouse. Please Sir, what if you're physically or visually impaired and you never get to travel (God forbid though!) I'm certain there's provision for your marriage even in that state Sir. Yes, you ought 'to find a wife' according to scriptures but not searching for her as though missing all over the place journey from northern to southern Nigeria. You find and see in your closet (Habakkuk 2:1), such that your recognition system is heightened to know when you meet her and do the necessary man game Sir.

Lastly, you're the first priest and prophet of your life Sir (Rev 5:10), take charge of the situation and do not let anyone else's word but God's dictate the way life pan out for you. Take God's word in prayers, confession and act accordingly too Sir. Do away with what can't make a dear God's daughter come into your life for they're all precious to Him since He want the best for them and you too.

Your new name is BEULAH Sir, the LORD delights in you and has declared your land MARRIED! I anticipate your testimony soonest.

Best wishes and my regards to the blessed and virtuous lady.

feodan:
God will surely make a way, customers are coming ijn. Where exactly are u in ife becuz i ave some relative in ife also ?

Amen

RickRansom:
I was schooling in the Western Nigeria at the time of this incident. One day I traveled to a distant city, and since the person I went there to see was not a church goer, I located a church around for Sunday service. During the service, their pastor or someone like that, who I didn't know anywhere before that day, singled me out of the crowd and said, "Don't put yourself under pressure looking for a wife. Your wife is nowhere near. She is in a very distant place, and you will travel to the place before you can meet her."

Before the actual prophesy, she said "You're not in any dating relationship and you live alone. Two people told you they wanted to start living in your apartment. Please, don't welcome them."

That is very accurate. I was living alone in a room. Two friends, who were also students, told me that they would start living with me the following semester because they wouldn't be able to afford their house rent by the time we resumed for the next semester.

But I'm not a student of that type of prophetic school of thought. So, I don't rely on the prophesy. But despite all my efforts, unmarried women kept disappointing me until I lost interest in dating. So, I no longer care about getting a wife. But my people are mounting pressure on me to get married. They then started arranging women for me. I'm handsome, and anywhere I go, girls and married women won't stop looking my direction. I'm very funny and fluent in English. After meeting those arranged for me the first time, they stopped talking to me afterwards, despite that they couldn't look at me in the face when we first met. But this is not so with married women. I can swear that two married women offered me sex of recent.
I'm 37, and tired of being not married. Is this prophesy the thing that is orchestrating my woes?

The prophecy nonsense is not your problem. What the crooked pastor did was a guess work! They usually use common stuff that happen to people. They can never tell you difficult things, like how much food you ate today or any private discussion you had with your mother or father, because they can't!!

Your problem is that you're a choosy fellow who can't make his mind up!! If you continue this way you will end up dying alone with no family of your own.

There's no perfect woman and you are not perfect either. Keep boasting about how handsome or pretty you're while you age. You're 37yr old not 27! Even if you marry today and have a child next year, when the child reaches 2yrs. old you will clock 40. At 18yr. old you will be 56!! Before the adult child clocks 25yr, you're probably dead! Let that sink in for a monent.

If you have a list of 10 things you want in a woman, cut it in half or choose only 3 good qualities in order to expand your opportunities of getting a good woman soon!

If being single is what you want, fine! After all, one doesn't need to be married to be Happy.

send me a DM with your number

MelaninGirlie:
lets see your pics to
actually know if you're what you said you are

Nothing can change your destiny, what will be would be so discard the prophecy and live your normal life. For example, see how Joseph's dream came to pass. Therefore, live your life and be opmistic. Moreover, Muslims don't believe in prophecy and if someone claimed to have seen a vision and it happen so, is still mean nothing to us cos we believe what will be would be but as you are a Christian might find it difficult to do.

You let a human being put fear into you head. You are a big disappointment. Do not let anybody dictate your destiny for you.
If you are afraid maybe you have done something in your past thats affecting your present and diverting your future. People that appear to be more useless and cursed get married.
A man cannot tell you your destiny.
Let me tell u a story when my mom was young she was involved in a ghastly motor accident that affected her pelvic and spine. The doctor said she will never have children. Well here i am number 2 of 4 and we are all healthy . If she let those words decide for her i probably wouldnt exist.

Another one my late grandmother always told me.
There are 3 friends they attended the same church and a prophet told them that 2 will be rich and successful 1 will never see wealth
The 2 that received the good vision sat and became lazy waiting for success. While the person that received the poor prophecy worked very hard and at the end of that same year he became successful while the other 2 were lazy and remained poor.

DO NOT LET THE WORDS OF A HUMAN BEING DECIDE YOUR DESTINY FOR YOU.

IF YOU ARE STILL AFRAID LET ME GIVE U A HINT. NEXT TIME YOU MEET SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU. GET HER PREGNANT THATS A START AND NOT THE MARRIED WOMAN. SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN'S WIFE IS A CURSE ON ANOTHER LEVEL.
YOU'RE 37 CHIN UP AND DITCH THAT PROPHETIC VISION FROM YOUR HEAD. THERE ARE GIRLS EVERY JUST FIND YOUR MATCH

I'm handsome, and anywhere I go, girls and married women won't stop looking my direction. I'm very funny and fluent in English.

Its not complete bro and that's why they are leaving. MONEY must be involved even if na u fine pass for naija

First of all, that's not a good prophecy. I may even call it a demonic attack. Any prophecy that puts fear in your heart is not of God; for fear has torment. As Job said:
For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me. Job 3:25.

meanwhile, here's how to break that chain/bondage. If you haven't given your life to the Lord Jesus Christ, try to do so immediately. And you don't even need anybody to preach to you either. If you really want a relationship with God, get your Bible and start reading from the gospel of John. I promise you, if you're sincere, Jesus Christ would reveal Himself to you before you finish reading that gospel.

Once you've given your life to Christ, then you can through fasting and prayer break that curse that was laid upon you by that woman. The bible says that "a curse without cause shall not come." Once you complete these two steps, you'll see how your relationship with women would change.


O pari

RickRansom:
I was schooling in the Western Nigeria at the time of this incident. One day I traveled to a distant city, and since the person I went there to see was not a church goer, I located a church around for Sunday service. During the service, their pastor or someone like that, who I didn't know anywhere before that day, singled me out of the crowd and said, "Don't put yourself under pressure looking for a wife. Your wife is nowhere near. She is in a very distant place, and you will travel to the place before you can meet her."

Before the actual prophesy, she said "You're not in any dating relationship and you live alone. Two people told you they wanted to start living in your apartment. Please, don't welcome them."

That is very accurate. I was living alone in a room. Two friends, who were also students, told me that they would start living with me the following semester because they wouldn't be able to afford their house rent by the time we resumed for the next semester.

But I'm not a student of that type of prophetic school of thought. So, I don't rely on the prophesy. But despite all my efforts, unmarried women kept disappointing me until I lost interest in dating. So, I no longer care about getting a wife. But my people are mounting pressure on me to get married. They then started arranging women for me. I'm handsome, and anywhere I go, girls and married women won't stop looking my direction. I'm very funny and fluent in English. After meeting those arranged for me the first time, they stopped talking to me afterwards, despite that they couldn't look at me in the face when we first met. But this is not so with married women. I can swear that two married women offered me sex of recent.
I'm 37, and tired of being not married. Is this prophesy the thing that is orchestrating my woes?

My dear go to God in prayer OK. God will help you locate her. and pls forget exposure marriage is beyond physical outlook and traits pls. What you should lookout for is a humble, peaceful and happy woman who will complete and complement you at all times. Thanks

Then pray that holy spirit should direct u to wherever she is by any means..it's just a matter of time ur prayer will be answer

LuvSwollenPussy:
The only way to free urself from d bondage of that prophesy is to live as if u didn't hear it or you didn't believe in it. Just live ur life on. By the time a lady takes in for you, you would realize that d prophesy actually came to pass.

I'm serious. Something similar has happened to me before too. When I got tired I started living my life like d prophesy was just a lie. Before I knew it, when I did a recheck of my life, I realized d prophesy actually came to pass.

pls wat if the prophesy said that he is going to be president and u the vice.will u still ask him to 4get?

Go and meet that prophet and ask her all the questions you have in your heart.. she said somethings and you confirmed it to be true..... Oga don't play with your future oh..... She will tell you what to do... And make sure you do it .

Hmmm

Ethereal0110:
Go and meet that prophet and ask her all the questions you have in your heart.. she said somethings and you confirmed it to be true..... Oga don't play with your future oh..... She will tell you what to do... And make sure you do it .

You wan make them open shop for him head. Abeg OP no try am, they will complicate your problems and drop your case once they finish milking you.

Tackle all seduction and dating fundamentals first and see how much female attention you will get.

RickRansom:


I have some reasons why I don't want to go back there. He said I should become a member of the church by looking for a branch where I came from.

If you are ready to solve your problem cry to God personally between the hour of 12am to 3am with fasting for just 3 days and pray this single prayer Oh Lord show me the street behind my marital problem. God will speak to you.

Also go for deliverance as well to break any yokes of marital delay. I will suggest MFM church for you and attend either weekly deliverance or weekend deliverance

hmmm