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Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by MissRaine69(f): 8:25pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
because the “push present” she got was not expensive enough. The husband paid bride price most probably bore a very large percentage of the costs for the white wedding. His salary pays most of the bills if not all why then should a woman expect and in some cases demand a “push present?” Was the child not conceived by two people? Your thoughts on this matter. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by donstan18: 8:32pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
What d'fvck is "Push Present"? 7 Likes |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Preshy561(f): 8:35pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
how? |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Nobody: 8:40pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
This is a relatively new word in the vocabulary of Nigerians, although I stand to be corrected Hope our people won't turn this into another avenue for jamboree like the now famous Baby showers Bridal showers Before -pre wedding pics And so on 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by JasonScoolari: 8:41pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
Lol ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by mrmrmister: 9:24pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
JasonScoolari: "Push present" refers to what the husband is supposed to buy his bride for pushing out their child(ren). ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 10:11pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
never marry a broke lady.. 3 Likes |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Divay22(f): 10:23pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
donstan18:A gift to appreciate her for pushing your baby 1 Like |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by LostMyZeal(m): 10:24pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
Indeed...so wat if twas thru CS ![]() |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by CosmicJames(m): 10:29pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
Divay22:Tell me something Is the baby not her own as well? Like seriously, was she hired to push the baby? I'm not understanding 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by MissRaine69(f): 10:34pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
LostMyZeal:It matters not She still wants one |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by MissRaine69(f): 10:36pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
greiboy:This is an issue I have come across a fair few times now now Happens abroad, happens in Nigeria 1 Like |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by MissRaine69(f): 10:37pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
Preshy561: The new mother wants to be given a present ( an expensive one) for pushing the child out hence push present. |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Divay22(f): 10:41pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
CosmicJames:Lol.. Maybe she feels it belongs mainly to the man and again the man might have been spoiling her with gifts, so she was expecting something much more expensive. But if one can't appreciate something small, i don't see why something big should be given to that person next time. |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Nobody: 10:44pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
MissRaine69:It is not entirely new in the Nigerian society though, I have seen certain rich men buy expensive gifts such as the latest vehicle for their wives for giving birth to a male child. My only concern now is the entitlement mentality that might come with it as the word and its meaning spreads among Nigerians. ![]() You know how our women are with these things ![]() |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by donstan18: 11:56pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
Divay22:For real? It happens? |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Divay22(f): 12:02am On Apr 29, 2018 |
donstan18:Lol.. Yeah! Some men do it, but it would have made more sense if the man brought her the gift willingly ,but upon asking and she got it but still didn't appreciate it, not cool at all. |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by donstan18: 12:08am On Apr 29, 2018 |
Divay22: That seems weird to me, never heard of such. ![]() Like, do women value such that much? |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Divay22(f): 12:12am On Apr 29, 2018 |
donstan18:Some do |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 12:42am On Apr 29, 2018 |
nonsense... gift her for giving birth to a child smh |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by lilmax(m): 1:18am On Apr 29, 2018 |
how the hell did we end up here 2 Likes |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by pocohantas(f): 1:32am On Apr 29, 2018 |
I used to think it's very uncalled for, especially with so many women jumping on the bandwagon, all in a bid to outdo themselves. Maybe it's the name that makes it look that way, but nothing wrong in appreciating a new mum. She doesn't have to demand for it, but even if she does and it's what he can afford...let her have it. She just wants to feel loved and appreciated. If you are in a relationship with people who value the act of giving and receiving gifts, you should expect things like this. 1 Like |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by ubunja(m): 1:43am On Apr 29, 2018 |
i used to think nigerian women were the problem, now i know its the nigerian men who have theproblem of standing ready to agree to any crazy...smh 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Preshy561(f): 3:27am On Apr 29, 2018 |
MissRaine69:lool |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Ishilove: 3:27am On Apr 29, 2018 |
MissRaine69:Ehn she should remain there. When she's tired she will be the one begging to leave. I don't understand the kind of people society is harbouring these days. Which one come be push present again?? 2 Likes |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by Fkforyou(m): 5:56am On Apr 29, 2018 |
If na like that, I also want my own "Penetrate Present " ... ![]() It's not easy to keep penetrating her till she got pregnant..... ![]() Nonsense.... ![]() 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:00am On Apr 29, 2018 |
Ishilove:I taya oh ishi.. you'll demand for a gift for giving birth to child when the time comes ![]() |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:02am On Apr 29, 2018 |
pocohantas: which gift will the man receive for penetrating her? Is the kid not for both of them? 2 Likes |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:03am On Apr 29, 2018 |
ubunja: lol. ubunja you're just remembering that.. Nigerian men are the real cause of all these entitlement mentality.. imagine giving a lady gift because she gave birth to a child as if no be una two get the child |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by pocohantas(f): 7:18am On Apr 29, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1: He penetrated her, she carried the pregnancy for 9mths and birthed the baby. I really don't know how the mind of a pregnant woman works, but I currently see nothing wrong in appreciating a new mom. |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 7:22am On Apr 29, 2018 |
pocohantas: funny thing is.. naija men are the cause of all these entitlement mentality.. gift ko gift ni After the 9 months you'll expect me to pay school fees and everything and you're still looking for gift.. even if I've 20m intact I won't give you single penny. |
Re: Women Refused To Leave The Hospital by pocohantas(f): 7:24am On Apr 29, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1: Your choice dear. Some of us do not care... Naija men are not altruistic anyway. Most give for reasons that are not in anyway 100% genuine. 1 Like 1 Share |
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