because the “push present” she got was not expensive enough.
The husband paid bride price most probably bore a very large percentage of the costs for the white wedding. His salary pays most of the bills if not all why then should a woman expect and in some cases demand a “push present?”
Was the child not conceived by two people?
Your thoughts on this matter.

What d'fvck is "Push Present"?

how?

This is a relatively new word in the vocabulary of Nigerians, although I stand to be corrected

Hope our people won't turn this into another avenue for jamboree like the now famous

Baby showers

Bridal showers

Before -pre wedding pics

And so on

JasonScoolari:
Lol ...Seriously Raine, I don't understand the "push present" but whatever it is, she should accept the "push present" and be grateful.

"Push present" refers to what the husband is supposed to buy his bride for pushing out their child(ren).

never marry a broke lady..

donstan18:
What d'fvck is "Push Present"?

A gift to appreciate her for pushing your baby

Indeed...so wat if twas thru CS

Divay22:

A gift to appreciate her for pushing your baby

Tell me something
Is the baby not her own as well?
Like seriously, was she hired to push the baby?
I'm not understanding

LostMyZeal:
Indeed...so wat if twas thru CS

It matters not
She still wants one

greiboy:
This is a relatively new word in the vocabulary of Nigerians, although I stand to be corrected

Hope our people won't turn this into another avenue for jamboree like the now famous

Baby showers

Bridal showers

Before -pre wedding pics

And so on

This is an issue I have come across a fair few times now now
Happens abroad, happens in Nigeria

Preshy561:
how?

The new mother wants to be given a present ( an expensive one) for pushing the child out hence push present.

CosmicJames:

Tell me something
Is the baby not her own as well?
Like seriously, was she hired to push the baby?
I'm not understanding

Lol.. Maybe she feels it belongs mainly to the man and again the man might have been spoiling her with gifts, so she was expecting something much more expensive.

But if one can't appreciate something small, i don't see why something big should be given to that person next time.

MissRaine69:

This is an issue I have come across a fair few times now now
Happens abroad, happens in Nigeria

It is not entirely new in the Nigerian society though, I have seen certain rich men buy expensive gifts such as the latest vehicle for their wives for giving birth to a male child.

My only concern now is the entitlement mentality that might come with it as the word and its meaning spreads among Nigerians.

You know how our women are with these things

Divay22:
A gift to appreciate her for pushing your baby

For real? It happens?

donstan18:


For real? It happens?

Lol.. Yeah!
Some men do it, but it would have made more sense if the man brought her the gift willingly ,but upon asking and she got it but still didn't appreciate it, not cool at all.

Divay22:

Lol.. Yeah!
Some men do it, but it would have made more sense if the man brought her the gift willingly ,but upon asking and she got it but still didn't appreciate it, not cool at all.

That seems weird to me, never heard of such.

Like, do women value such that much?

donstan18:


That seems weird to me, never heard of such.

Like, do women value such that much?

Some do

nonsense... gift her for giving birth to a child

smh

how the hell did we end up here

I used to think it's very uncalled for, especially with so many women jumping on the bandwagon, all in a bid to outdo themselves.

Maybe it's the name that makes it look that way, but nothing wrong in appreciating a new mum. She doesn't have to demand for it, but even if she does and it's what he can afford...let her have it.
She just wants to feel loved and appreciated.

If you are in a relationship with people who value the act of giving and receiving gifts, you should expect things like this.

i used to think nigerian women were the problem, now i know its the nigerian men who have theproblem of standing ready to agree to any crazy...smh

MissRaine69:


The new mother wants to be given a present ( an expensive one) for pushing the child out hence push present.

lool

MissRaine69:
because the “push present” she got was not expensive enough.
The husband paid bride price most probably bore a very large percentage of the costs for the white wedding. His salary pays most of the bills if not all why then should a woman expect and in some cases demand a “push present?”
Was the child not conceived by two people?
Your thoughts on this matter.

Ehn she should remain there. When she's tired she will be the one begging to leave.

I don't understand the kind of people society is harbouring these days. Which one come be push present again??

If na like that, I also want my own "Penetrate Present " ...

It's not easy to keep penetrating her till she got pregnant.....

Nonsense....

Ishilove:

Ehn she should remain there. When she's tired she will be the one begging to leave.

I don't understand the kind of people society is harbouring these days. Which one come be push present again??

I taya oh ishi.. you'll demand for a gift for giving birth to child when the time comes

pocohantas:
I used to think it's very uncalled for, especially with so many women jumping on the bandwagon, all in a bid to outdo themselves.

Maybe it's the name that makes it look that way, but nothing wrong in appreciating a new mum. She doesn't have to demand for it, but even if she does and it's what he can afford...let her have it.
She just wants to feel loved and appreciated.

If you are in a relationship with people who value the act of giving and receiving gifts, you should expect things like this.

which gift will the man receive for penetrating her?

Is the kid not for both of them?

ubunja:
i used to think nigerian women were the problem, now i know its the nigerian men who have theproblem of standing ready to agree to any crazy...smh

lol.
ubunja you're just remembering that.. Nigerian men are the real cause of all these entitlement mentality.. imagine giving a lady gift because she gave birth to a child as if no be una two get the child

TheUpsetGirl1:


which gift will the man receive for penetrating her?

Is the kid not for both of them?

He penetrated her, she carried the pregnancy for 9mths and birthed the baby. I really don't know how the mind of a pregnant woman works, but I currently see nothing wrong in appreciating a new mom.

pocohantas:


He penetrated her, she carried the pregnancy for 9mths and birthed the baby. I really don't know how the mind of a pregnant woman works, but I currently see nothing wrong in appreciating a new mom.

funny thing is.. naija men are the cause of all these entitlement mentality..

gift ko gift ni
After the 9 months you'll expect me to pay school fees and everything and you're still looking for gift.. even if I've 20m intact I won't give you single penny.

TheUpsetGirl1:


funny thing is.. naija men are the cause of all these entitlement mentality..

gift ko gift ni
After the 9 months you'll expect me to pay school fees and everything and you're still looking for gift.. even if I've 20m intact I won't give you single penny.

Your choice dear. Some of us do not care...

Naija men are not altruistic anyway. Most give for reasons that are not in anyway 100% genuine.