Divinehealer:


He has probably raped most, if not all of them.

seriously.

He didn't know you have a mind like this?

for him to be making advances to u, is normal, so far there is no blood tiles btw u both, but sending you out and not leaving you when you begged him that you don't want it, is insane of a man

why would I want to have sex when a Lady beg me she's not in mood for it, I will look stupid when I force myself to have it


my brain is in my head, not in my legs now

OmoAlata1:
Ehhhh, You seem like a rapist apologist. Like the type that will marry your rapist for apologizing bc he is nice. Orisirisi

Lol.
This is a shade you've thrown at me but I'm in such good spirits this morning so I'll laugh it off.

We're cool this morning but maybe tomorrow, you won't be this lucky Enjoy this win while it lasts.

Happy Sunday.

SIRTee15:


Yes she did....
Listen young man....
There's no assumption in relationship....
It's either u are dating or not.....
There's no grey area....
Even at that, it's still within her right to decide if she wants u guyz to spend the night together or not......
For ladies, this things take time n they don't appreciate being rushed into what they are not prepared to do.....

we obviously don't belong to the same world cos I've never collected a date confirmation letter from any lady since i was born.

makydebbie:
After going through five pages of this thread, I can confidently say there is something definitely wrong with our generation. I weep for what my future children will be exposed to. God give me strength to handle them in this 21st century of high libidos and rapists.

Imagine after reading the story, some idiots are still blaming the girl. You all are mad.

shut up and get LOST!

pedrilo:
Reminds me of my ordeal with a female in d same abj.
I fell in love with a colleague, we started out as friends. She always asked for financial assistance and I do sort her out sometimes.
On a certain Friday after work, she asked me to buy yam, potatoes and onions on my way to her crib cos we planned seeing after work and my place is very far from hers.
Got to her place past 8pm wit her yams etc, we both went out to buy fuel for her gen which I paid for, then returned to her place, ate togeda and started gisting.
At exactly 11:46pm, she asked to know wat time I intend to go bak home and I was surprised!
This babe changed it for me and said I cnt pass the nyt in her house. I was beyond embarrassed!
I called a friend to come n pick me wit his car and he did.
I left her place with few drops of tears. I was seriously hurt.

very funny

pocohantas:


Nawa o. Nke a gwuru m ike
It's Sunday here, what day is it where you are?
Pornday?

Lol.

I was being open nau

Seriously though, I find it strange when guys do this. There are a million ways to "cum" nau

I should be leaving for church in 30 mins time. Been close to six months I stepped foot in one. Catch ya lerra

TheUpsetGirl1:


I pity the ladies that are mingling with you..

Lol let’s remeber to chip in a prayer for him and those who gave him 40+ likes!!!
They all need prayers’ potential rapist and Co

You that can afford an air ticket, what happened to a 5-7k hotel?

Oloshoooooo

I'm just tired of this country...

then i think u should go back to ur village sex at the first time is a crime but money request two weeks after saying yes is not a crime abi continue

makydebbie:
After going through five pages of this thread, I can confidently say there is something definitely wrong with our generation. I weep for what my future children will be exposed to. God give me strength to handle them in this 21st century of high libidos and rapists.

Imagine after reading the story, some idiots are still blaming the girl. You all are mad.

I'm surprised that you didn't see a reason to blame the lady. I blame the girl not cos I'm a man but cos the lady was not reasonable.
U met a guy on transit and u agreed to pass night in his house at that first meeting. Are u really normal? Somebody u knew nothing about and no one knows where you are going to pass night.

Ok, let's assume she didn't meet the guy that night, won't she sort her way back to her house or get a cheap hotel to pass the night? The excuse of arriving late and her house bn far makes no sense to me. She just want to enjoy the luxury of a man taking care of her and paying her bills.

Sister, you just mentioned the generation of high libido. Don't you think that lady should also have dat at the back of her mind and apply much caution? Avoid a situation that can make u vulnerable to sexual assault.

After escaping what she described as lion's den, the same lion came back to her and she entered his car again, still in the dark. Her reason bn that there was a car coming behind and she believe that the car and d occupant will save her if the Lion roars and tend to devour her again. My sister does this assumption make sense to u?
Why didn't she wait for d on coming car and enter it if it happens to be public carb.

You were worried about how your children will cope with the future situation. Don't worry, by then they'll be so used to the situation that it'll mean nothing to them. Our parents nursed this same fear for us. Here we are moving as if nothing is happening.

Rapist sighted.....Na your Toto don expire.

AndrewDex:
What is wrong there, toto wey don expire, stupid girl.

Before you begin to feel smart she got to Abuja at after 11, almost 11:30. Didn’t start chatting with Seyi immediately Incase you didn’t read the story well, I had gone out to talk to cab men and all that. And I put it to you that cab from Nyanya to the airport during the day is within 3k to 3,500 don’t bother arguing, I’ve used them too many times, and how much do you think those cab men will take by that time of the night? Plus it’s not about getting to Nyanya, I was to proceed to keffi, by the time I get to Nyanya which should be around 1am or almost 1pm is it your car that will take me to keffi? Mtcheeeeew

RalphJean:


Nope. The ladies around me would ask me to take them to Nyanya from Wuse.

Why would the lady in your crooked story not pay 1,000 to take “drop” to Nyanya?
Infact, she can even get normal “along” shared taxi.
And why didn’t she callti ask Seyi to come and take her to Nyanya?
How far is Nyanya from Wuse?


I think you need to pity the lady with the lie lie story

Meanwhile I don’t need pity like what you are saying, never asked anyone to bring this story to nairaland for people like you to run for mouth. It was for my twitter timeline but people won’t mind their business.

RalphJean:


Nope. The ladies around me would ask me to take them to Nyanya from Wuse.

Why would the lady in your crooked story not pay 1,000 to take “drop” to Nyanya?
Infact, she can even get normal “along” shared taxi.
And why didn’t she callti ask Seyi to come and take her to Nyanya?
How far is Nyanya from Wuse?


I think you need to pity the lady with the lie lie story

We’re you reading from the back of your phone? Where in that story did I say I met Seyi that night? Or you didn’t see the part where I said we’ve been talking on phone and chatting? Please are you also aware that I was headed to keffi which is in Nasarawa state? You really don’t have to comment on everything.

Psoul:


I'm surprised that you didn't see a reason to blame the lady. I blame the girl not cos I'm a man but cos the lady was not reasonable.
U met a guy on transit and u agreed to pass night in his house at that first meeting. Are u really normal? Somebody u knew nothing about and no one knows where you are going to pass night.

Ok, let's assume she didn't meet the guy that night, won't she sort her way back to her house or get a cheap hotel to pass the night? The excuse of arriving late and her house bn far makes no sense to me. She just want to enjoy the luxury of a man taking care of her and paying her bills.

Sister, you just mentioned the generation of high libido. Don't you think that lady should also have dat at the back of her mind and apply much caution? Avoid a situation that can make u vulnerable to sexual assault.

After escaping what she described as lion's den, the same lion came back to her and she entered his car again, still in the dark. Her reason bn that there was a car coming behind and she believe that the car and d occupant will save her if the Lion roars and tend to devour her again. My sister does this assumption make sense to u?
Why didn't she wait for d on coming car and enter it if it happens to be public carb.

You were worried about how your children will cope with the future situation. Don't worry, by then they'll be so used to the situation that it'll mean nothing to them. Our parents nursed this same fear for us. Here we are moving as if nothing is happening.

You people will not read but will rush to comment, where in that post did she say she met him on the plane, they didn’t just meet and they’ve been chatting and talking on the phone.

EgunMogaji:
She needs to stop being an alarmist.

He was not a friend but a complete total stranger that she met on a plane.

She made a series of bad choices.

Karu is my ex boyfriends place and he was already seeing another girl. It would be totally inappropriate to bump in on them.

degamonn:
I am not in support of Seyi's action. But if you can get a cab to wuse from the airport at that hour, it means that you could equally get a cab to AYA and from that point to karu at any hr of the night. My question is that knowing well that Karu is safer, why did you opt for Seyi's place?

She didn’t just meet him, they’ve been talking and chatting before that day.

Psoul:
Sometimes, the way women reason scares me to death. You just met this guy, he asked u to pass the night wt him, u agreed. He wanted to rape u, push u out of the house at that wee hour. Came back to u ask u to enter his car, u agree because u think that the next car coming behind u will rescue u if he tries to be funny. Nawaa for women.

You are the one who needs brain, where did I type that he is a complete stranger. Go and read again MFKR.

narttis1:


Exactly my thoughts. If this story is true then the lady is the most stupid person who ever lived. You went with a complete stranger and after your ordeal you still sat in his car. What if the car behind overtakes his car?
We seriously need to donate money for a brain transplant for this lady. She's completely brainless.

MsLalasticlala:



Biko it's all guys... U in particular.... I will enjoy a lesbian rape me than a stupid man... I hate men with passion, why will the hegoat want to sleep with her In the first place... With his smelling dick

A lesbian to rape you with what? With Love Machine? I guess you hate your father too?

The first question I will always ask in all these types of situations is, where are your parents and what the hell are they doing for you you to be found in this situation. Because I can read between the lines and see lot of 'life's inconsistencies'.

bekpo:


Not every body, I repeat not every body can try this shit: it's a thing I did for people severally but do not and or had attempted taking advantage of their situation. I once was discussing with a friend outside Akwa Ibom House in the Central Business District Abuja. I was staying at Gwagwalada. I was about leaving to Gwags when a lady alighted from a cap and asked for a direction to Akwa Ibom House which, we did. She equally said she's stranded, she knows no where in Abj and had wanted to go to UNN. By this time it was abt 6pm. She went to AKS house but before she left, she requested for my phone number which I oblige.
Immediately I got home, I got a call from her. She's stranded and started crying. I told her where she is and my house is far but if she can find her why, I can give her direction. Which I did. After some time she arrived, I prepared something for her and she ate, took her bath and I had showed her to her room. She objected she wanted to sleep in my room. Initially I was scared but I agreed. She was with me for a week when I wanted to travel to AKS and she wanted to travel to UNN, when I first boarded a vehicle to leave, she cried profusely despite d money I left with her. Obviously she never wanted to leave because it's rear to have d treatment she got from me. I had to stop and took her with me. I dropped her off the park will I proceeded to d airport.
People should learn to control their urge because it will sooner or later embarrass them.

Mehn for complete a week, guy go see your doctor

Fabulousb36:

Jez did u even read the story? She was stranded, she needed just a place to crash God! This is the mentality of a rapist "she wants it too, she is just pretending" God help the ladies around you.

and what that suppose to mean? Are you better than the ladies around him?

Klinee:
Mehn for complete a week, guy go see your doctor

U no well. Pls c a psycratic Dr

greiboy:
So sorry about the experience, but it is nothing new

The lady encountered an unstable, sex starved man.

He is unstable because he still came to apologize after the ordeal. He probably had serious psychological problems.

Moral lessons of the story;

Ladies should always make sure that they don't travel to a foreign land at night. It is risky enough for men not to talk of ladies in an environment as unforgiving as ours

Ladies should always be skeptical about receiving an alarming kind gesture from strangers, particularly anything that requires staying in a room alone with this said stranger. I know some people are generally nice, but one cannot be too careful, one can only be careless.

This particular lady was lucky because she might have been raped by the guy if the guy was actually a hardened criminal as against just an unstable guy, she might even be robbed. I have heard of similar stories that didn't end well.

Others might not be so lucky

Cant they just f**k and enjoy the night.. d must there be drama, after this she will give a free f**k to one low life nigga

TheUpsetGirl1:
When I say naija guys are the most sex starved guys in the world some people won't believe me... A lady coming to sleep in your house doesn't mean you should have sex with her.
Majority of naija guys once a lady visits them at home the only thing on their mind is how to have sex with the lady...
So if the lady wasn't strong, that fool would've had sex with her right

I don't just understand Nigerian guys.. if not being sex starved why should a sane guy be thinking about sex whenever a lady visits him


I'm just tired of this country.. imagine the emotional stress this lady passed through

And why do U always use a horrible experience from a single individual as a narrative to judge a particular gender?
I have once accommodated a lady in my apartment when i was serving because it was very late in the night and nothing happened between us!
We should be mindful of how we generalize issues esp when it has to do with gender,race or religion!

pedrilo:
Reminds me of my ordeal with a female in d same abj.
I fell in love with a colleague, we started out as friends. She always asked for financial assistance and I do sort her out sometimes.
On a certain Friday after work, she asked me to buy yam, potatoes and onions on my way to her crib cos we planned seeing after work and my place is very far from hers.
Got to her place past 8pm wit her yams etc, we both went out to buy fuel for her gen which I paid for, then returned to her place, ate togeda and started gisting.
At exactly 11:46pm, she asked to know wat time I intend to go bak home and I was surprised!
This babe changed it for me and said I cnt pass the nyt in her house. I was beyond embarrassed!
I called a friend to come n pick me wit his car and he did.
I left her place with few drops of tears. I was seriously hurt.

Bros give us part two....
What was your mode of friendship after that night?

Some ladies get mind sha. But me o, I go don clear the babe say I dey stay over, so if she say no I go don knw time I go Waka dey go my crib #lobatan... I no get body for embarrassment

Ellabae:
Self control is really necessary.

You can say that again...unfortunately that is what a lot of guys lack.

Mryacks:


You can say that again...unfortunately that is what a lot of guys lack.

True, some just need to learn it.

BRISKTANI:
She didn’t just meet him, they’ve been talking and chatting before that day.

They met once face to face, others were online. She confirmed she didn't know him more than the chatting they have had. She still had the mind to pass night with him.

Before you can do such, at least let one or two of ur friends know him and casually chip it in during ur discussion wt him that that you're friends he met so so and so place is aware you are coming. That will make him to be more cautious knowing that someone is aware of you whereabout.

Ladies stop gambling wt it lives. Few days ago, we read about a girl that ran mad and stripped herself naked soon after bn dropped by some men.
Such may not happen if the girl was a bit patient and restrained herself from sleeping wt those guys or probably letting someone know where she's going to.

BRISKTANI:
We’re you reading from the back of your phone? Where in that story did I say I met Seyi that night? Or you didn’t see the part where I said we’ve been talking on phone and chatting? Please are you also aware that I was headed to keffi which is in Nasarawa state? You really don’t have to comment on everything.

My dear u met him ones and other meetings were on phone chat and calls. He was nice to u on chat and that made u conclude he must be a nice guy to pass night in his house.

You excuse of heading to Nasarawa does not make sense to me my dear. I have to be candid to you. If you are here to seek for sympathy.... Sorry, I'm not gonna give that. I'll tell u were you did not do well so you can make amend in case of next time. Take it or leave it.
Don't gamble wt ur life. God forbid, had anything bitter than what happened to u that night had taken place, do u think this excuse would've make any sense to ppl. Ppl will term you a cheap girl sleeping around wt any man u see.

Stop taking ple at their face value. Test, test and test again. This world is full of evil. Hardship is even driving many good guys into bn devilish. So be more careful. I'm not bothered weda you are happy or angry about my comments.